What methods do women have to avoid disappointment and make sure a guy has a big dick before they go to bed with him?

[carzojorde]

What methods do women have to avoid disappointment and make sure a guy has a big dick before they go to bed with him?

 

[SmallKnowing]

They DON'T!

 

[carzojorde]

Several situations come to mind that I may have witnessed
1) when you are wearing pants and your dick is visible through them, they can see it and are more likely to talk to you to get to know you
2) when you are closer and they just touch your erect dick through your pants, such as at a party, as if by accident, unwittingly, quickly
3) at the beach, pool, sauna, if they see that your penis doesn't fill your boxers, they don't think of you as a sex partner
They have a lot of options to back off just before sex.
If they check that your dick is erect but not big enough, they just don't continue, and you don't even know it was about size.
My question is more about whether they do it and how often.

 

[rixwuxpok2]

I'll share an experience that relates to this. At an evening out with several friends, I was stood talking with the wife of my gym buddy. All of a sudden she crouched to the floor as if to pick something up (although I'm sure she didn't actually drop anything), then as she went to stand again she put out a hand to steady herself and basically planted her open palm on my crotch. For the rest of the evening she was very smiley and flirty with me. Something must have changed when she felt what was in my trousers

 

[nomju]

I'm not sure they do. They rely on instinct and good luck.
When I first fucked my wife, she will freely admit that she assumed I'd have a skinny dick, because I had such a skinny frame. But she was willing to find out, and to her surprise she was very impressed with what I had in my pants.

 

[carzojorde]

I'll share an experience that relates to this. At an evening out with several friends, I was stood talking with the wife of my gym buddy. All of a sudden she crouched to the floor as if to pick something up (although I'm sure she didn't actually drop anything), then as she went to stand again she put out a hand to steady herself and basically planted her open palm on my crotch. For the rest of the evening she was very smiley and flirty with me. Something must have changed when she felt what was in my trousers

This is what I mean, you were aware enough to notice that, I think many men don't even know women do that, they are very "quick" and "secret". Like looking at you quickly and knowing if you are handsome, totally opposite to men who like to stare all the time at a woman.

Was your dick visible through your pants to attract her first? Did she just plant an open hand? Didn't she grab it? Did you tell that to your gym buddy?

 

[rixwuxpok2]

I usually show a visible bulge and especially if I wear pale coloured chinos then there can be a subtle shadow effect which makes my package more obvious. She started with an open palm and as she began to stand up, she made a grasping motion, so she did get a bit of a handful. I mentioned it to my gym buddy at a later time and he said something like 'she was probably checking if it was true', he's pretty well endowed himself and of course we see each other naked at the gym quite often.

 

[FrankieGuile]

What methods do women have to avoid disappointment and make sure a guy has a big dick before they go to bed with him?

Your question presumes women want to "make sure a guy has a big dick before they go to bed with him." Your premise is false -- they don't. They don't care. Or rather, women have a very wide range of acceptable sizes. However, they do have a narrow range for what they consider suitable in a man's character, and his obsession with "size" is not a good sign. If anything leads to "disappointment" for a woman, it is a man's lack of self-confidence, not his lack of "a big dick." You should probably ask this question to gay men to get the kind of response you are seeking.

 

[carzojorde]

Your question presumes women want to "make sure a guy has a big dick before they go to bed with him." Your premise is false -- they don't. They don't care. Or rather, women have a very wide range of acceptable sizes. However, they do have a narrow range for what they consider suitable in a man's character, and his obsession with "size" is not a good sign. If anything leads to "disappointment" for a woman, it is a man's lack of self-confidence, not his lack of "a big dick." You should probably ask this question to gay men to get the kind of response you are seeking.

I have different experience, once I heard how women talk when they are alone:
- did you sleep with him?
- no because his dick was small

 

[Perfectsix]

I'm not sure they do. They rely on instinct and good luck.
When I first fucked my wife, she will freely admit that she assumed I'd have a skinny dick, because I had such a skinny frame. But she was willing to find out, and to her surprise she was very impressed with what I had in my pants.

You have too much in your pants imo - it’s really not fair!

 

[FrankieGuile]

I have different experience, once I heard how women talk when they are alone:
- did you sleep with him?
- no because his dick was small

Your so-called "different experience" is highly suspect as evidenced by the many, many assertions by women to the contrary. My experience is consistent with those contrary assertions. But I suppose you are the one male privy to their secret inner thoughts.

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

What methods do women have to avoid disappointment and make sure a guy has a big dick before they go to bed with him?

From my experience very few care! But go post the question on the women’s issues thread and see what they say

 

[AllieHeidi]

But go post the question on the women’s issues thread and see what they say

 

[ss7979]

The women who care seek it out. They get pics before they fuck.

 

[justforchat]

The women who care seek it out. They get pics before they fuck.

what if we meet at a bar
we got other ways of knowing

 

[ss7979]

what if we meet at a bar
we got other ways of knowing

Usually size queens get handsy and feel for themselves

 

[justforchat]

Usually size queens get handsy and feel for themselves

true but there are also other ways

 

[halcyondays]

The women who care seek it out.

^This.

I've said it a hundred times in the last ten years here: women find out about my size primarily by word of mouth.

Other ways are more obvious like seeing me in swim trunks, cycling skins or in casual nudity like skinny dipping and sunbathing.

BTW women overhear men talking about who the big guys are. Heard it through the grapevine.

I've never sent anyone a dick pick. It's not necessary.

BTW I'm a Boomer so social media didn't even begin until 25 years after I became an adult. We met up and hooked up the old fashioned way by having a social life and meeting in person. Phones? Phones plugged into walls.

 

[FrankieGuile]

^This.

I've said it a hundred times in the last ten years here: women find out about my size primarily by word of mouth.

Other ways are more obvious like seeing me in swim trunks, cycling skins or in casual nudity like skinny dipping and sunbathing.

BTW women overhear men talking about who the big guys are. Heard it through the grapevine.

I've never sent anyone a dick pick. It's not necessary.

BTW I'm a Boomer so social media didn't even begin until 25 years after I became an adult. We met up and hooked up the old fashioned way by having a social life and meeting in person. Phones? Phones plugged into walls.

I've met women who have heard "who the big guys are" but I've never known a woman who cared; however, they were prone to laughing derisively about the "big guy" or the person spreading the rumor. By contrast, a great many men care "who the big guys are" and, I'm beginning to understand, delude themselves into thinking that women care also.

 

[rope9839]

I don't think they do. The surprised reactions I have gotten to mine means they really haven't been paying attention to that area more often than not.