What methods do women have to avoid disappointment and make sure a guy has a big dick before they go to bed with him?

[ViewingPleasure]

Funny how there are no women answering this question.

 

[lapdog2001]

Several situations come to mind that I may have witnessed
1) when you are wearing pants and your dick is visible through them, they can see it and are more likely to talk to you to get to know you

This is only possible with large flaccid penises (show-ers) or guys who can maintain a chubby in order to show off.

2) when you are closer and they just touch your erect dick through your pants, such as at a party, as if by accident, unwittingly, quickly

The only women who have done this have been making out with me with the intention of having sex with me, and didn't know my true size until my pants came off.

3) at the beach, pool, sauna, if they see that your penis doesn't fill your boxers, they don't think of you as a sex partner
They have a lot of options to back off just before sex.

This is only possible with large flaccid penises (show-ers) or guys who can maintain a chubby in order to show off.

4) If they check that your dick is erect but not big enough, they just don't continue, and you don't even know it was about size.

Every woman who has experienced my erection has been the one to give me that erection and 100% of them have followed through in making the most of my erection. I'm a grow-er not a show-er, so 100% of the women I've been with had no idea what my erect size was until after they had already decided they were having sex with me.

My question is more about whether they do it and how often.

No women has ever done it to me, and I've never seen any women doing it to anyone else.
In all the discussion of penis size that's happened between men and women here on LPSG (yes, they exist!) and in the mainstream media of newspapers, magazines, etc. well over 90% of women don't care about penis size.

Now if you have a micro-penis (less than 3 inches erect) or an unusually larger penis (around 8-9 inches) there will be women who may choose to seek another man, but that is also rare..

As previous people have responded, most women simply don't care.

 

[hzs3fg]

Funny how there are no women answering this question.

Not funny at all. From what I can see, there are very few active female users on this site.

 

[carzojorde]

Not funny at all. From what I can see, there are very few active female users on this site.

are they real though?

 

[ViewingPleasure]

Not funny at all. From what I can see, there are very few active female users on this site.

I disagree. Men certainly outnumber them by a very wide margin but there are plenty of active women here.

 

[hzs3fg]

I disagree. Men certainly outnumber them by a very wide margin but there are plenty of active women here.

I disagree.

They are small in number and rarely seen outside the two female-focused forums.

 

[Mikehuntishuge]

Always had girls grinding on me dancing, obviously using their crotch to feel. Same as Nomjo above was rail thin, 6'1", 155lbs, Every girl when they got to it said something surprised about skinny guy and fat cock, 6.5 X 6.5. I remember one situation in school, the proverbial backseat deal, one of those deals on top of her, smothering her, get the go signal, reach down unzip, pull down pants, panties over, and try to go in without her seeing it. Good ole days no condom, no deadly disease out there. I get the two hands in the stomach push up, WTF, Jesus Christ, you're going to kill me! Only made me harder, she struggled greatly, it was awesome, LOL! It all worked out I got her addicted and used to it many times in more comfortable scenario

 

[Oldcowboy]

Your question presumes women want to "make sure a guy has a big dick before they go to bed with him." Your premise is false -- they don't. They don't care. Or rather, women have a very wide range of acceptable sizes. However, they do have a narrow range for what they consider suitable in a man's character, and his obsession with "size" is not a good sign. If anything leads to "disappointment" for a woman, it is a man's lack of self-confidence, not his lack of "a big dick." You should probably ask this question to gay men to get the kind of response you are seeking.

They also don’t like a guy to have too much $$. Or to invite them to too many neat things and places. Being a gentleman and considerate are also no-nos.

 

[[Under Review ]]

If you’re short and stocky like me they assume…correctly… that I have a small penis just by looking at me. They have no interest and I have 0% chance of ever getting with them without ever getting to say a word to them. In fact I get quite intimidated just being in a woman’s presence because they are right about me being inadequate and I can’t try to change their minds because I can’t prove them wrong and I would embarrass myself for even trying. I cannot control myself around women I am attracted to and just being in the same room as them will get me fully erect and talking to them and or sitting with them will almost certainly have precum ooze from my knob each time my erection throbs and the whole time I get thoughts imagining how much I want to have sex with them so I can show them how truly bad I am in bed

 

[kahlua123]

I don't think most women care enough to check in any way, especially not in person where there's generally no socially-acceptable way of doing so. I have found many women on dating sites or apps are very willing to exchange pictures before meeting, though, and in my experience being huge has turned "maybe" into "fuck yes" many times. Hell, my wife and I met online and we agreed we were going to fuck and be at least friends with benefits before we even met in person - because I adored her body (perfectly my type) and she wanted to have a huge cock on call (especially attached to a man who had the words to get her turned on enough to want to see his dick in the first place).

 

[hzs3fg]

I Have Specific Requirements for a Guy’s Package. None of Them Want to Hear It.

 

[thickcockjames]

I’m not a woman so far be it from me to expect to be representing the world of women as a whole but in my experience as a person and someone who’s been on this specific site for quite some time I’d say a vast majority of women simply don’t care. Unless it’s like a micro penis or something, almost every woman I’ve talked to or seen talk about this subject (who isn’t a size queen) says that anything within the realm of average is works just fine.

 

[FrankieGuile]

They also don’t like a guy to have too much $$. Or to invite them to too many neat things and places. Being a gentleman and considerate are also no-nos.

You can speak for yourself. Most women would agree with my statement and find yours dubious, to say the least. The notion that women do not appreciate a gentleman or consideration or nice things -- presumably in favor of less refined and rougher treatment -- smacks of misogyny. But, perhaps, you run with a different crowd.

 

[EAzure]

I'm a gay man and women tend to open up to me A LOT about what they like sexually. Personally, I've met very few women who just want huge dicks and nothing else. I've noticed that girls who say they like big dicks also like average dicks and it's not such a black and white thing. We also have to think about how women are all different and just because one girl likes something, it doesn't mean they all like that too. There's also the fact that a guy can be huge but if he doesn't respect her, has zero interest in getting her off or he's extremely insecure, his big dick won't be enough to keep her around.

Personally, dick size is the last thing I check off on my list. I'm much more focused on whether a guy has a hairy chest, a nice beard, and a big roman nose

 

[FrankieGuile]

I'm a gay man and women tend to open up to me A LOT about what they like sexually. Personally, I've met very few women who just want huge dicks and nothing else. I've noticed that girls who say they like big dicks won't have a problem being with an average guy and I don't feel like straight guys realize that. It's like they get too wrapped up in the fact that the girl said she likes big dicks and completely check out when she continues to express that she also likes average dicks. We also have to think about how a guy can be huge but if he doesn't respect her, has zero interest in getting her off or he's extremely insecure, his big dick won't be enough to keep her around.

Personally, dick size is the last thing I check off on my list. I'm much more focused on whether a guy has a hairy chest, a nice beard, and a big roman nose

Nevertheless, there are guys who think "if he doesn't respect her" he will win her heart.

 

[Oldcowboy]

You can speak for yourself. Most women would agree with my statement and find yours dubious, to say the least. The notion that women do not appreciate a gentleman or consideration or nice things -- presumably in favor of less refined and rougher treatment -- smacks of misogyny. But, perhaps, you run with a different crowd.

That was a joke——of course women appreciate these things——they actually “dislike” them about as much as they do a “lavishly endowed” (not my words) cock.

Ya, perhaps I do ‘run’ differently than some….

 

[FrankieGuile]

^This.

I've said it a hundred times in the last ten years here: women find out about my size primarily by word of mouth.

Other ways are more obvious like seeing me in swim trunks, cycling skins or in casual nudity like skinny dipping and sunbathing.

BTW women overhear men talking about who the big guys are. Heard it through the grapevine.

I've never sent anyone a dick pick. It's not necessary.

BTW I'm a Boomer so social media didn't even begin until 25 years after I became an adult. We met up and hooked up the old fashioned way by having a social life and meeting in person. Phones? Phones plugged into walls.

Yes, we know you've "said it a hundred times," because you keep trying to impress us with your many insistences.

 

[Oldcowboy]

Nevertheless, there are guys who think "if he doesn't respect her" he will win her heart.

You bet. Similiar to a woman married 7 times—“and every damn one was an alcoholic! How could I be that unlucky?”

Luck has nothing to do with it—-you picked ‘m—-subconsciously or not. And the guys you mention will find some mates—-equally flawed,

 

[FrankieGuile]

You bet. Similiar to a woman married 7 times—“and every damn one was an alcoholic! How could I be that unlucky?”

Luck has nothing to do with it—-you picked ‘m—-subconsciously or not. And the guys you mention will find some mates—-equally flawed,

To the extent that one's decisions and actions lead to consequences for which one is responsible and should not make excuses, I agree.

 

[Beekeeper13]

This conversation is very interesting. Here is a woman wanting a large cock, yet men are shamed every day for wanting a woman with large breast. It just sucks there has to be a double standard when it comes to what we prefer. I prefer younger, I get a lot of grief for it. But my tastes are my taste.
We should all be able to talk about it and not be shamed.
She should be able to see if it will meet her needs before she goes any further. But most women will not ask or even acknowledge that is what they want. Instead once they get a chance to test drive it, the leave the poor guy wondering what he did wrong. And telling him his cock is too small is no different than telling a woman her breast is too small. It hurts so we as a society play games and act like it was just a one night stand, when in fact it was to see if the cock was big enough or if they had on a magic bra.
But this is all just my opinion.