What methods do women have to avoid disappointment and make sure a guy has a big dick before they go to bed with him?

[FrankieGuile]

This conversation is very interesting. Here is a woman wanting a large cock, yet men are shamed every day for wanting a woman with large breast. It just sucks there has to be a double standard when it comes to what we prefer. I prefer younger, I get a lot of grief for it. But my tastes are my taste.
We should all be able to talk about it and not be shamed.
She should be able to see if it will meet her needs before she goes any further. But most women will not ask or even acknowledge that is what they want. Instead once they get a chance to test drive it, the leave the poor guy wondering what he did wrong. And telling him his cock is too small is no different than telling a woman her breast is too small. It hurts so we as a society play games and act like it was just a one night stand, when in fact it was to see if the cock was big enough or if they had on a magic bra.
But this is all just my opinion.

Contrary to your post, I have never experienced or heard of a woman devising ways "to avoid disappointment" in an effort to "make sure a guy has a big dick" before going to bed with him. Neither have I experienced or heard that men were "shamed every day for wanting a woman with large breast [sic]." The reason is simple: in the first instance, those women do not exist except in the salacious minds of guys trying to sexually excite themselves; in the second instance, the daily shaming of which you speak is a fantom. However, both instances may share something in common: they may be unique to you and a handful of other, similarly sexually repressed men.

 

[theogman]

Funny how there are no women answering this question.

Oh! Our obsession with cock size rather than great sex made them leave long ago

 

[MissThing]

The way I've decribed it to guys is this: most women seem to be interested the man first, not his dick. I'm a trans woman, so I can't speak for everyone, but my experience is that on apps, men VERY OFTEN lead with the dick. If I haven't seen his face first, I'm not into it. Too often, the dick pic (unaccompanied by any words at all) is literally the closest thing to "hello" I get from them. Sure there are size queens out there who only want the cock, but I think they are the exception to the general rule that women are looking for an entire man, not a disembodied cock. Those can be purchased and kept in the nightstand. Men seem to be MUCH more attracted to the huge cock to me.

 

[Rooker]

This conversation is very interesting. Here is a woman wanting a large cock, yet men are shamed every day for wanting a woman with large breast. It just sucks there has to be a double standard when it comes to what we prefer. I prefer younger, I get a lot of grief for it. But my tastes are my taste.
We should all be able to talk about it and not be shamed.
She should be able to see if it will meet her needs before she goes any further. But most women will not ask or even acknowledge that is what they want. Instead once they get a chance to test drive it, the leave the poor guy wondering what he did wrong. And telling him his cock is too small is no different than telling a woman her breast is too small. It hurts so we as a society play games and act like it was just a one night stand, when in fact it was to see if the cock was big enough or if they had on a magic bra.
But this is all just my opinion.

I don’t think we’re being shamed for liking big boobs. Most women seem to get that.

 

[DariusRex]

What methods do women have to avoid disappointment and make sure a guy has a big dick before they go to bed with him?

i wont have sex with a guy til i know what his cock is like. i dont like surprises when it comes to cock, i need to know what is happening btwn his legs. if im not into his cock then im not interested in sex.
if ur DMing each other just ask him. most men will either send dick pics unsolicited or are hoping to be asked.

 

[DariusRex]

This conversation is very interesting. Here is a woman wanting a large cock, yet men are shamed every day for wanting a woman with large breast. It just sucks there has to be a double standard when it comes to what we prefer. I prefer younger, I get a lot of grief for it. But my tastes are my taste.
We should all be able to talk about it and not be shamed.
She should be able to see if it will meet her needs before she goes any further. But most women will not ask or even acknowledge that is what they want. Instead once they get a chance to test drive it, the leave the poor guy wondering what he did wrong. And telling him his cock is too small is no different than telling a woman her breast is too small. It hurts so we as a society play games and act like it was just a one night stand, when in fact it was to see if the cock was big enough or if they had on a magic bra.
But this is all just my opinion.

since when are men shamed for anything let alone liking big tits?

 

[GallusMeus]

What methods do women have to avoid disappointment and make sure a guy has a big dick before they go to bed with him?

Ah...they look at it

 

[carzojorde]

i wont have sex with a guy til i know what his cock is like. i dont like surprises when it comes to cock, i need to know what is happening btwn his legs. if im not into his cock then im not interested in sex.
if ur DMing each other just ask him. most men will either send dick pics unsolicited or are hoping to be asked.

What if a guy sends you another, bigger dick?
and the question was more about meeting a man in real, not on the net

 

[ViewingPleasure]

Oh! Our obsession with cock size rather than great sex made them leave long ago

Maybe they don’t talk to some of you guys but there are women in here.

 

[hzs3fg]

Maybe they don’t talk to some of you guys but there are women in here.

No one denies that there are women here.

But they are few in number compared to the men and do not participate much other than in the two woman-oriented forums.

Can you blame them? I'm sure most of them think that the male members' obsession with the size of their penises is ridiculous.

 

[theogman]

Maybe they don’t talk to some of you guys but there are women in here.

There are, but if women was half as interested in cock size as men, they would be many more

 

[ViewingPleasure]

There are, but if women was half as interested in cock size as men, they would be many more

Eh, I don't think that's true. I've been here off and on for 13 years. That has little to do with it. There used to be a lot more women in here. What kills sites like this are asshole men who treat people (especially women) poorly. New ownership has also sought to attract a more gay male membership.

 

[FrankieGuile]

No one denies that there are women here.

But they are few in number compared to the men and do not participate much other than in the two woman-oriented forums.

Can you blame them? I'm sure most of them think that the male members' obsession with the size of their penises is ridiculous.

And they would be correct with respect to your last point. Still, it is entertaining to observe some men here desperately trying to impress the fantom women with their claims of prowess and being met with indifference.

 

[ViewingPleasure]

No one denies that there are women here.

But they are few in number compared to the men and do not participate much other than in the two woman-oriented forums.

Can you blame them? I'm sure most of them think that the male members' obsession with the size of their penises is ridiculous.

Again, that has little to do with it. This site used to have a lot more women.

 

[theogman]

Eh, I don't think that's true. I've been here off and on for 13 years. That has little to do with it. There used to be a lot more women in here. What kills sites like this are asshole men who treat people (especially women) poorly. New ownership has also sought to attract a more gay male membership.

True that. I've been here since 2010 and back then it was much more open and versatile in the forums attracting more women, but even back then few women were really interested in the size discussions.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Eh, I don't think that's true. I've been here off and on for 13 years. That has little to do with it. There used to be a lot more women in here. What kills sites like this are asshole men who treat people (especially women) poorly. New ownership has also sought to attract a more gay male membership.

I know it bursts your sexual bubble, but the statement is true -- women are not nearly as interested (i.e., obsessed, focused, or delusional) regarding penis size as men. My only objection is the very generous estimate of women being "half as interested" and would amend it to be "not at all interested" in the calculus of accepting a man romantically. You may be correct in your other two explanations, but they certainly do not exclude this third, more obvious and fundamental, explanation. In short, whatever "viewing pleasure" you think you have to offer can be saved for men with homosexual proclivities.

 

[ViewingPleasure]

True that. I've been here since 2010 and back then it was much more open and versatile in the forums attracting more women, but even back then few women were really interested in the size discussions.

That doesn't mean they didn't like looking at big dicks.

 

[ViewingPleasure]

I know it bursts your sexual bubble, but the statement is true -- women are not nearly as interested (i.e., obsessed, focused, or delusional) regarding penis size as men. My only objection is the very generous estimate of women being "half as interested" and would amend it to be "not at all interested" in the calculus of accepting a man romantically. You may be correct in your other two explanations, but they certainly do not exclude this third, more obvious and fundamental, explanation. In short, whatever "viewing pleasure" you think you have to offer can be saved for men with homosexual proclivities.

While that may be somewhat true, that has little to do with how many women are here.

 

[FrankieGuile]

That doesn't mean they didn't like looking at big dicks.

Yes, it does mean they didn't like "looking at big dicks" -- at least not in numbers remotely close to men -- as evidenced by their own behavior to ditch the discussion, the forums, and in some cases, the site altogether.

 

[ViewingPleasure]

Yes, it does mean they didn't like "looking at big dicks" -- at least not in numbers remotely close to men -- as evidenced by their own behavior to ditch the discussion, the forums, and in some cases, the site altogether.

Again, women stop coming to sites like this because men behave like big dicks, not because they don't like big dicks.