What methods do women have to avoid disappointment and make sure a guy has a big dick before they go to bed with him?

[FrankieGuile]

Again, women stop coming to sites like this because men behave like big dicks, not because they don't like big dicks.

Again, I disagree. They stop coming because guys come here to try to impress them with only their claim of having a big dick and their insistence that women should care or do care. Perhaps you are a culprit.

 

[ViewingPleasure]

Again, I disagree. They stop coming because guys come here to try to impress them with only their claim of having a big dick and their insistence that women should care or do care. Perhaps you are a culprit.

I don't think we are too different in what we are saying. It's more of the matter of the way some men talk to these women when showing off their cocks, the insistence.

 

[Fellatiator]

I have only been on for a year, but that said it is a site I don’t visit often any more. It’s not because of big dicks or small dicks or even people being dicks (but they can be!).

Speaking only for myself (straight female), I enjoy seeing all different sizes of dicks as long as they’re attached to a person that (as far as I can tell from this side of the screen) is NOT a big dick.

I stopped coming here because when I go to the chat rooms absolutely no one seems interested that I’m a female … they are interested in each other - which is completely fine! But some guys seemed to prefer that I don’t watch their camera as I am not male. Again, just speaking for myself.

One more thing back to the original conversation… I have never in my life tried to judge the size of someone’s penis before going out with them or before getting into a heavy make out session and allowing that one thing (size) be how I would decide to have sex with them.

 

[Natennnnate]

There are, but if women was half as interested in cock size as men, they would be many more

This is the smartest thing ever said ever but certainly smartest here. @theogman are you a lawyer in your full-time professional life?

 

[Natennnnate]

I have only been on for a year, but that said it is a site I don’t visit often any more. It’s not because of big dicks or small dicks or even people being dicks (but they can be!).

Speaking only for myself (straight female), I enjoy seeing all different sizes of dicks as long as they’re attached to a person that (as far as I can tell from this side of the screen) is NOT a big dick.

I stopped coming here because when I go to the chat rooms absolutely no one seems interested that I’m a female … they are interested in each other - which is completely fine! But some guys seemed to prefer that I don’t watch their camera as I am not male. Again, just speaking for myself.

One more thing back to the original conversation… I have never in my life tried to judge the size of someone’s penis before going out with them or before getting into a heavy make out session and allowing that one thing (size) be how I would decide to have sex with them.

This is super smart. You try, you don’t just look. Obviously, real life is all about touching and doing. There’s more to a penis than visuals. So a practical woman sees this site as good for only so much.

 

[FrankieGuile]

I don't think we are too different in what we are saying. It's more of the matter of the way some men talk to these women when showing off their cocks, the insistence.

If a man talks to women "when showing off" his cock, that man is weird and rightly rejected by the woman. Talking to another dude and showing off one's cock may be a thing among male homosexuals, but it is not something a woman will tolerate, no matter if he is "insistent" or polite.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Again, women stop coming to sites like this because men behave like big dicks, not because they don't like big dicks.

And, once again, women in general just don't care about "big dicks" anything remotely like homosexual males care about big dicks or that you care about big dicks. They stop coming to the sites out of boredom, lacking anything they want to see or discuss. Men will alienate women when those men demonstrate the level of obsession they have with their own dicks, or the dicks of other men, such as wanting to "show off." Women disparage men who show off their dicks or any other aspect of their physical or non-physical selves.

 

[lapdog2001]

I have only been on for a year, but that said it is a site I don’t visit often any more. It’s not because of big dicks or small dicks or even people being dicks (but they can be!).

Speaking only for myself (straight female), I enjoy seeing all different sizes of dicks as long as they’re attached to a person that (as far as I can tell from this side of the screen) is NOT a big dick.

That's been my experience with interactions with the women on LPSG since I joined in 2004. They were interested in discussing things, exchanging ideas, stories, just having fun in general. Yes, some were interested in big penises and most absolutely had zero tolerance for big dicks (the personality trait)

I stopped coming here because when I go to the chat rooms absolutely no one seems interested that I’m a female … they are interested in each other - which is completely fine! But some guys seemed to prefer that I don’t watch their camera as I am not male. Again, just speaking for myself.

I actually joined a few chats back in Ye Olden Dayes of LPSG because there were actually women on the chats and it was about having fun. Video wasn't even available in those days! I haven't been on the chat part of this site in over 15+ years!

One more thing back to the original conversation… I have never in my life tried to judge the size of someone’s penis before going out with them or before getting into a heavy make out session and allowing that one thing (size) be how I would decide to have sex with them.

This! This! This! With every woman that I've dated and making out turned to sex, their decision to become intimate was based on our interactions and attraction to each other. 100% were surprised at the size of my erection when they finally experienced it first hand (quite literally ) and then orally and finally vaginally. Even when I had a few hookup type situations where sex was on the agenda and the reason for meeting, none knew ahead of time what my penis size was until they caused it to get hard.

 

[FrankieGuile]

I have only been on for a year, but that said it is a site I don’t visit often any more. It’s not because of big dicks or small dicks or even people being dicks (but they can be!).

Speaking only for myself (straight female), I enjoy seeing all different sizes of dicks as long as they’re attached to a person that (as far as I can tell from this side of the screen) is NOT a big dick.

I stopped coming here because when I go to the chat rooms absolutely no one seems interested that I’m a female … they are interested in each other - which is completely fine! But some guys seemed to prefer that I don’t watch their camera as I am not male. Again, just speaking for myself.

One more thing back to the original conversation… I have never in my life tried to judge the size of someone’s penis before going out with them or before getting into a heavy make out session and allowing that one thing (size) be how I would decide to have sex with them.

Well said. Now try to convince the cock-obsessed, delusional dudes here that you actually mean it! I pity them for their inexperience with women.

 

[FLICOMTSFH]

I've met women who have heard "who the big guys are" but I've never known a woman who cared; however, they were prone to laughing derisively about the "big guy" or the person spreading the rumor. By contrast, a great many men care "who the big guys are" and, I'm beginning to understand, delude themselves into thinking that women care also.

There is no actual across the board rule of thumb.
Some women do not care or don't care to the point of fetishizing about it.
Others, like you say, "have a wide range" of what they find satisfying.
Still others "don't care much unless it's small" which is an odd but unsurprising way of saying "Yeah it doesn't matter till it does matter" and then still others ARE size queens who really do love big dicks, because "that's their thing".
And last but not least, there are some who do not enjoy bigger dicks.

And yes, a well endowed guy can be the biggest disappointment if they make it all about the "D".
You have to have something else to offer to hold their interest, of course.