What opened your bi side?

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I was always fascinated with uncut cocks. I have played with my ass since I was Young. Not sure what started it, but I got to where I liked seeing what I could take. That led to me allowing stuff to Fuck me, but that is a discussion for a different forum....
I decided I'd like to try a real cock so I found a guy on craigslist. Come to find out, I have Little to No Gag Reflex, so that makes things even more interesting. Now I seek anal semi-regularly, just real picky on who I let play with me.
 

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It was a whole process for me. I first remember feeling attracted to guys when I started going to the gym several years ago and checking out all the sweaty frat bros working out in tiny tank tops and whatnot. This one guy in particular would always take his shirt off at the end of his workout and flex in front of one of the mirrors and he'd drive me crazy. I also distinctively remember being in denial at first and repeating to myself that I was only admiring their physiques and that sort of thing but eventually it got to a point where it became nearly impossible for me to keep pretending, as I'd watch gay porn and fantasize about hooking up with guys. The truth was that the men at my gym attracted me the same way the curvy women in yoga pants did and once I learned to accept myself in that way I became much happier.
 

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Sites like this one is what helped me the most. Just hearing about some other guy's experiences really made me want to give it a try. The idea that someone really wants to enjoy my cock was something new to me, I had never been with a woman that just loved sucking and playing with my dick.
When the opportunity finally arose I had to take it.
 

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For me things started with me letting a guy watch me jerk off. He was into me and i have done it maybe for the wrong reasons... We had a mutual girlfriend, with whom i did stuff at the time, she kinda arranged the sharing situation. They were best friends for ever. I mean it was not my intention to initiate but let myself go in the flow because she wanted to watch and it made me horny. Being 20 at the time things are different you know. After it happened it got me really uncomfortable, maybe felt used, but also being honest that I enjoyed it. I'm really happy that we at least could talk about it. I tended to realise that i do like certain things sexually and that it is triggered by a certain kind of attractiveness in guys. So at the end it started the journey to discover more ;)
 

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The first time I found cuckold videos. Idk why wives on amateur videos turn me on but porn actresses like Mia Khalifa don't. Maybe I'm not completely bi, but I love it when the husband watches their wife get railed and creampied by the bull.
 
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Hard to say. When I was in high school I never even considered being bi until wrestling with my best friend and saw his hard on, and didn’t even hesitate to explore.

After that I pushed the feelings back for 2 decades and now am married and have 4 kids. Yet. I yearn for time with a man now more than i Care to describe. It drives me insane.
Would love to hear more about the wrestling experiences. I saw a few wrestlers in college and I wish I could be like them.
 

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I have found the same thing with men. I tend to hookup with older guys since I first began my cocksucking journey from age 19. As I became a more mature cock sucker, most guys I would encounter were either married/had a girlfriend or were simply bi curious. Discovering they had a willing guy who would allow them to experiment with who also was feminine and submissive gave them the comfort of connecting.
I have found most men cum to me because they don’t get the erotic passion from their wives or girlfriends. Men still want to just FUCK every once in a while! They want a willing, submissive sex toy to do nasty things to and when you provide that to them, they have have the sexual freedom to become who they fantasize being. I think some of these men aren’t even gay or bi. In fact if a woman offered themselves as I do, they’d likely pick her over me every time.
Men just don’t judge other men with the hang ups girls do with us guys. If a guy comes over for sex and by the time he pulls out his cock, is cumming already out of excitement, I don’t get frustrated. We both are getting what we want ultimately. He gets off with a great experience and I get cum! I enjoy pleasing all men of every shape, size and fetish.
In the end, it’s all about pleasure!
Well said. Sometimes a guy wants over the top, balls to the wall ,knock your socks off sex.
 
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It was a whole process for me. I first remember feeling attracted to guys when I started going to the gym several years ago and checking out all the sweaty frat bros working out in tiny tank tops and whatnot. This one guy in particular would always take his shirt off at the end of his workout and flex in front of one of the mirrors and he'd drive me crazy. I also distinctively remember being in denial at first and repeating to myself that I was only admiring their physiques and that sort of thing but eventually it got to a point where it became nearly impossible for me to keep pretending, as I'd watch gay porn and fantasize about hooking up with guys. The truth was that the men at my gym attracted me the same way the curvy women in yoga pants did and once I learned to accept myself in that way I became much happier.
Glad to know not all bisexuals are looking for feminine men. I’m definitely in the masculine side, gay, but started out with girls since puberty and into high school.
 

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Glad to know not all bisexuals are looking for feminine men. I’m definitely in the masculine side, gay, but started out with girls since puberty and into high school.
Interesting you mention that. While I've met other bisexuals who were into masculine men, bi tops who are only looking for guys on the more feminine side of the spectrum ("femboys") are definitely more common. And while I can feel attracted to those types, and have hooked up with a few in the past, my gay side has always been all about manliness. I'm not buff myself though, just masculine looking and acting, so it can be a bit hard for me to find manly bi or gay guys because those are usually looking for dudes who are either super ripped or super feminine. So being just average kinda sucks in that way lol