What opened your bi side?

[deleted19462351]

Teasing other guys for fun and getting their attention and also enjoying that.

 

[TFXhawtfap]

Drugs opened it up and mixing it with drugs and sex created a lifestyle or Once in a life time experience I wasn't willing to stop or deny.

 

[TriplePoint PolyBi]

For me it wasn't until I was 35 or so. Starting college I was quite used to other guys staring at my crotch, and I theirs as part of the does-my-penis-measure-up competition. At that point I had only played with another penis, a very long thin pencil-dick. We played 'doctor,' him staring at my thick stubby erection at every possible angle as i played with his, each wishing we could have the benefits of the other. It seemed quite normal.

After college I had my first lay and my first doggie-style. I was mesmerized by the sight of her vulva wrapped around my stiff cock, her narrow ass fully muscled but no bigger than a college-aged boy's butt.

Penthouse magazine had spreads of two women making love to each other, and that was a complete turn-on, until I realized that two lesbian women would have no interest in me, so that opened up the concept of bisexuality as a possibility, at least for the women. Wow, they were gorgeous! The sight of a woman sporting a double-ended dildo was another turn-on.

I had my encounter at age 25 as a boy-toy for a single mom (as mentioned in other posts) where she came for 4 hours straight as soon as her vulva engulfed my dick, and the seed was born that I may have to get help at times to fully satisfy the woman I was with.

I'd check out crotches at the gym and at work, admiring other guys' bulges

Then one day after my divorce it hit me like a freight train: I was bi. I knew i couldn't repress it or try and stuff it back into the hole it came from, so I just let it wash over me and accept the feeling.

Now it feels great to be bi, even though I can't love a guy without a naked woman present at the same time. Don't know why that is, but if a gay guy comes on to me and there's no woman there, I'm a definite 'no.' It's not about the sex with them both, it's about making love to them both using my bisexuality as a vehicle for loving them both.

 

[Shuttle08]

All boys boarding school when I was 13. Sharing porn mags in the basement with another guy. Moved onto us touching each other, then me jerking him off, sometimes at night under his covers while all the other guys slept around us in the open dorm. When I was 15, one guy called me to his bed when I was walking back from the bathroom and asked me if I’d jerked that night. I whispered no and he said he’d come to my bed soon. That was my first time sucking a guy off and I was hooked. We reciprocated all throughout that school year, either at night or early in the morning in my bed cubicle or in the basement. I jerked off with another guy and ended up sucking him regularly too. Both had massive cocks and were super jocky. When I was 16, the school’s biggest rugby jock text me one night and asked if I wanted to watch porn together, and if I had any condoms, and if I wanted to do anything. I said yeah but we didn’t need condoms. I sucked him while he watched straight porn, that continued for the next two years. By the end of my last year at school, I had three ’straight’ jock guys coming to me regularly for head and rimming, one of who continued when we both moved on to university. That stopped eventually and I didn’t do anything with a guy until I went on a boys trip to Budapest and peeled off from the boys to find a gay bay. I lingered outside until someone took me home and I bottomed for the first time. I fucking loved it, but he didn’t have a massive dick. Once I got back to the city I was living in, I joined Grindr and started hooking up on the reg, including topping which was more my vibe. I had a girlfriend throughout this time too. Safe to say, I love pussy and I love cock.

 

[WebMale80]

I’ve always known I like both. I just didn’t have a name for it till I was in college.
My first sexual encounter was with a guy in high school. I enjoyed the feeling of being touched and send another man’s cock get as hard as mine.

 

[BiteSize]

My bi side was already open by the time I got into girls as a teenager, though even as a tiny kid I instinctively made it a dirty guilty secret. I liked gladiator movies long before seeing Airplane, and the first page I'd turn to when I picked up a superhero comic was the bodybuilding ad on the inside back cover. So the side has always been there. I only came to terms with it later in life.

 

[BiDiscovery]

My Mom had a lot of gay and Trans friends who came over to the house. Many times I would catch some of her friends staring at me, I was a High School Jock, and the stares did not offend me. Then one day a she had a Philippino friend over and she was absolutely gorgeous. My Mom introduced us and told me she was trans, my mom was very open with us. To my surprise I got really excited, said nice to meet you, and dashed out of the house as fast as I could with a raging boner. That’s when I knew.

 

[Mister2101]

Once I started looking at gay porn, I just knew I had to try sex with another man........and I found the sex was even better than it looked and sounded in porn......

 

[Mister2101]

Once I started looking at gay porn, I just knew I had to try sex with another man........and I found the sex was even better than it looked and sounded in porn......

 

[Mister2101]

Once I started looking at gay porn, I just knew I had to try sex with another man........and I found the sex was even better than it looked and sounded in porn......

 

[yorkshirepudding]

I was about 24-25, and honestly - I'd never even considered being with a man. Never even thought or fantasised about it. I'd just been through a breakup (with a woman), though, and I was staying in a hotel in a foreign country when I saw an ad in a magazine. It was for what I now know to be a gay sauna, but I didn't really know what it was - basically just a crude line drawing of a man wearing virtually nothing. Looked...exotic? I got a bit drunk, threw caution to the wind and just went. It was like going into autopilot - it was all very different to all of my sexual experiences before that - because they hadn't involved dick! - but I just did what felt natural, and it was amazing.

Sadly / surprisingly, I parked it for about ten years and put it down to some wild, one-off experience - but I know now that I opened up something in me that was probably always there - I just had to get rimmed by a Scandinavian man in a sauna to discover it.

 

[juanchojuan]

I don't know. I like women a Lot, specially Big tits, Big ass, pretty pussies, etc. But at the same time I got rock hard when watching men's muscles. And when I started yo watch porn, I also got hard when watching Big cocks. But I never felt emocionally atraction for males, I just feel atracted to muscle men and Big cocks

 

[lycraluvr223]

I don't know. I like women a Lot, specially Big tits, Big ass, pretty pussies, etc. But at the same time I got rock hard when watching men's muscles. And when I started yo watch porn, I also got hard when watching Big cocks. But I never felt emocionally atraction for males, I just feel atracted to muscle men and Big cocks

Never even thought about guys till peeking through a Glory hole while in the service. After that, I put it away as if it never even happened. Stayed like that for decades. Then one day a soloflex brochure I sent for struck me. From then I used art to recreate, explore, analyze this new sensation. Still in the process of figuring it out.

 

[lycraluvr223]

I was about 24-25, and honestly - I'd never even considered being with a man. Never even thought or fantasised about it. I'd just been through a breakup (with a woman), though, and I was staying in a hotel in a foreign country when I saw an ad in a magazine. It was for what I now know to be a gay sauna, but I didn't really know what it was - basically just a crude line drawing of a man wearing virtually nothing. Looked...exotic? I got a bit drunk, threw caution to the wind and just went. It was like going into autopilot - it was all very different to all of my sexual experiences before that - because they hadn't involved dick! - but I just did what felt natural, and it was amazing.

Sadly / surprisingly, I parked it for about ten years and put it down to some wild, one-off experience - but I know now that I opened up something in me that was probably always there - I just had to get rimmed by a Scandinavian man in a sauna to discover it.

Sounds familiar. I buried it forever like it wasn't there at all.

 

[Frank240]

I am a closeted bi in that I spend a lot of time on this site looking at and jerking off to pics and vids of cocks. Married w kids. Live straight. Love women sexually, emotionally, and romantically.

Never been with a guy, even growing up, but I fantasize about it all the time. Never seen another man’s erection in person. But I really want to. My bi-side sort of evolved as I became more at one with my own penis and my masturbation and edging skills advanced.

The explosion of internet porn really opened doors to explore my curiosity without being outed. Tumblr was another major journey of being able to endlessly just stare at cocks in all their wonderful shapes, sizes, and states. LPSG took my desires to a whole new level. I love sharing my cock pics knowing that some dudes are getting off on them. Now I almost exclusively surf for cocks (especially cumming cocks) to the point where I often orgasm without any physical stimulus. No desire for anal or kissing guys. Just cock and cum.

Still married and no intention to cheat. But I sure blow a lot of cum when fantasizing about what it would really feel like to touch another boner and all the ways to make it cum. Bi-side is wide open and full throttle. I’m just not acting on it yet.

 

[lycraluvr223]

mine was really my fascination with my own cock. once I decided my cock was beautiful, I began to enjoy watching women suck cock more. from there, I slowly became more interested in just the cock itself...since then I've sucked 3, played with a few, and now I'm interested in trying out even more. That's how I feel when drawing cocks and muscular guys. I'm drawn to it, sorry for the bad pun . Still haven't hooked up with anyone yet but feel myself closer and closer. Practicing on a dildo after rubbing my precum on it makes me delirious. Head spinning extasy.

 

[fuckyeah]

I am a closeted bi in that I spend a lot of time on this site looking at and jerking off to pics and vids of cocks. Married w kids. Live straight. Love women sexually, emotionally, and romantically.

Never been with a guy, even growing up, but I fantasize about it all the time. Never seen another man’s erection in person. But I really want to. My bi-side sort of evolved as I became more at one with my own penis and my masturbation and edging skills advanced.

The explosion of internet porn really opened doors to explore my curiosity without being outed. Tumblr was another major journey of being able to endlessly just stare at cocks in all their wonderful shapes, sizes, and states. LPSG took my desires to a whole new level. I love sharing my cock pics knowing that some dudes are getting off on them. Now I almost exclusively surf for cocks (especially cumming cocks) to the point where I often orgasm without any physical stimulus. No desire for anal or kissing guys. Just cock and cum.

Still married and no intention to cheat. But I sure blow a lot of cum when fantasizing about what it would really feel like to touch another boner and all the ways to make it cum. Bi-side is wide open and full throttle. I’m just not acting on it yet.

You need to understand your sexuality and you won't know unless you have sex with another man. It is very different than fantasizing or watching porn to be physically intimate with another dude. You will either love it or find it unappealing. Talk with your wife and discuss how you feel. You might find she is open to the idea of you exploring gay sex.

 

[AgHarley]

Never even thought about guys till peeking through a Glory hole while in the service. After that, I put it away as if it never even happened. Stayed like that for decades. Then one day a soloflex brochure I sent for struck me. From then I used art to recreate, explore, analyze this new sensation. Still in the process of figuring it out.

Dang what decades ago you had a gloryhole experience in the service? Which branch? Combat or garrison?

 

[AgHarley]

I am a closeted bi in that I spend a lot of time on this site looking at and jerking off to pics and vids of cocks. Married w kids. Live straight. Love women sexually, emotionally, and romantically.

Never been with a guy, even growing up, but I fantasize about it all the time. Never seen another man’s erection in person. But I really want to. My bi-side sort of evolved as I became more at one with my own penis and my masturbation and edging skills advanced.

The explosion of internet porn really opened doors to explore my curiosity without being outed. Tumblr was another major journey of being able to endlessly just stare at cocks in all their wonderful shapes, sizes, and states. LPSG took my desires to a whole new level. I love sharing my cock pics knowing that some dudes are getting off on them. Now I almost exclusively surf for cocks (especially cumming cocks) to the point where I often orgasm without any physical stimulus. No desire for anal or kissing guys. Just cock and cum.

Still married and no intention to cheat. But I sure blow a lot of cum when fantasizing about what it would really feel like to touch another boner and all the ways to make it cum. Bi-side is wide open and full throttle. I’m just not acting on it yet.

Why can’t we see your extensive media collection?

 

[Frank240]

Why can’t we see your extensive media collection?

That’s strange. My media is open to all registered members.