What opened your bi side?

[1088431]

This is a tough area to navigate, but to me pan is a complete ambivalence to the gender of my sexual partners, be they male, female, trans male or trans female, straight, bi or gay and all the possible permutations of those identities, but in reality there's probably not much difference, just labels.

Or it could just mean I'm an easy pickup for pretty much anybody.

With that bulge you’ve got me

 

[Derringer]

The short answer is a rampant SPH fetish and an adventurous female partner who was disatisfied with my tiny penis.

 

[deleted15291411]

For some reason I found a collection of cock pictures online, and I found that I liked looking at them, and then I kept coming back repeatedly. Before that, there were signs, but this is when it started bubbling up from the subconscious.

 

[steveh9]

I think being a nudist and going to resorts and seeing so many dicks helped me along. Then, after receiving my first bj from a guy, it made me want to give one so badly

 

[CaptainRugby]

I was aware I like boys the same way I liked girls from an early age, and when watching porn I was always as interested in the guy as in the girl. What actually "opened" me up was a mate wanking me off in bed whilst I pretended to be asleep. That'll do it for you.

 

[Iwanthead]

I do not nor have I had the desire to provide oral to a guy.
Since my first experience of a guy wanting my load I have looked for another guy just like him.
I was beginning to think it was just him, but I have found a few that enjoy proving oral worship service and swallowing my loads. All of that plays into a next visit, repeat meeting. I have no interest in a repeat visit with a spitter.
There are those out there but seem to becoming more difficult to find.
I have had a husband suck me in front of his wife, before, during and after her and I have intercourse. That is a wonderful feeling .

 

[Sweatysocklover91]

I found being in the changing rooms did it for me. Not because of seeing naked men, but because of the smell! The smell of real man musk gets me and I eventually started worshipping men in the changing rooms!

 

[deleted471226]

2 situations - although I wouldn't say I "became bi" because of them. Both made me start noticing dudes.

As a teenager, I had an adult neighbor down my block who was a bodybuilder. I'll never forget the image of him washing his pickup truck in his driveway, wearing thin string tank tops, basketball shorts and flip flops. His body represented sex and power during a time my hormones were raging out of control. One time he looked my way as he was washing and then stopped. He stared at me for a few seconds from down the street then gave me an air fist and smiled. I think he knew what he was doing having his physique on display like that and that he had gotten inside my young head. I left for college and when I returned for the summer, he had moved.

Second time was hearing my college roommate fuck his girl in the dorm room next to ours. It was the first time I had heard live sex. He thought he had the dorm suite to himself but I stayed in my room and I heard everything. I remember thinking my buddy sounded like a grown man fucking on the other side of the wall and not some teenage, college student. I also remember the sharp "virgin-like" squeals she let out. All of this had my mind racing and my dick hard - what was he doing to her body? how big was his dick to make her sound like that? will he get her pregnant? It all made me extremely curious about him. 10-15mins after the sex, he came into my room. He realized I had heard everything and we both laughed about it. Since that day, whenever I saw him I associated him with sex.

 

[deleted471226]

When I started high school was the first time I saw and got naked around other guys my age. I developed early and had a pretty large cock my freshman year. I was extremely self-conscious in the showers and got a few comments about my size. After hearing these comments, it was a real struggle not to get a huge hardon in the showers. I came out of the showers semi-hard more than a few times. Somehow word had gotten out about my size and an older man from the area who managed a hotel, came up to me at a local hangout. He said he’d heard about how big my cock was for my age and propositioned to suck me off $$. I was extremely nervous, but very thrilled at the possibility. After a bit of convincing, I went with him in his car to a rest stop nearby. He asked me if I liked looking at porn and I replied that I hadn’t seen a lot. He handed me a few straight and bi magazines to look thru. All of the guys in the pictures had huge cocks. And the women all had perfect huge tits. I was throbbing! Just as my cock started bulging in my jeans, he reached over and unzipped my pants and pulled my cock out. It was hard as a rock! He liked stroking it and asked if I’d like him to suck it. What could I say?! That was my very first blow job. He never showed me his cock, so we never went there, but he told me that he had a lot of guests to his hotel that would love to get their hands (and mouths) on a young cock my size. I started meeting his friends at rooms at his hotel after that and got the attention of milfs and hung guys that loved single and group action. It was also where I found and sucked my first huge (or any sized) cock. Ever since, I’ve loved both huge cocks and huge tits. I love sharing and playing with both

This is real life.

This is what happens when a man finds a big dick.

I got hard reading this.

 

[rd62624]

my senior year in college. Both i and my roommate slept naked. We had bunk beds his was the top. Some nights he would come in lit from drinking to much , he would just climb in bed with me. at first i was scared because i didnt know his intentions. I would get pushed up against the wall ans he would go to sleep. But one night it felt different. He climbed in bed with me and started grinding/ humping me. (wtf) so i humped him back. We both blew our load. and went to sleep. After that night we would hook up atleast 2 to 3 times a week. That s when i realize that i was bi.

 

[bi2]

You won't be disappointed my friend.......MM sex is wonderful......

While I was a lot young, when my bi side opened up for me with an older man, I am glad it did as it was a good first time experience for me which was reinforced with subsequent partners. Being able to cum the first time with a man, comfortably, safely and without any judgement from anyone went a long way towards future MM experiences being good for me.

MM sex is wonderful. The dynamics and enjoyment of it is just so vastly different compared to MF sex.

 

[merc41]

Got a bj from male hairdresser when I was 20 . In the backroom of the salon.

 

[1088431]

Got a bj from male hairdresser when I was 20 . In the backroom of the salon.

How come stuff like this never happened to me? I was cute. Lol.

I had a 40-something bookstore employee following me around when I was 1when I’d go there asking me to come over to his house to watch Dark Shadows. Hell no.

I had standards even then.

 

[alphamale175]

How come stuff like this never happened to me? I was cute. Lol.

I had a 40-something bookstore employee following me around when I was 1when I’d go there asking me to come over to his house to watch Dark Shadows. Hell no.

I had standards even then.

Exactly.

 

[goldscorpguy]

Much the same as a few others have said, I tried out a few things with my best friend in high school, before getting into girls. I got married in my twenties and led a straight life for 20 years.
My bi side was then re-ignited through watching porn and adult chat rooms. I realised that chatting to other curious men and watching bi and gay porn was turning me on more and more. I got to the stage where I knew I had to experience something physical and I took the first opportunity to do that when it arose. That was 13 years ago now.
It was, for me, like lighting the blue touch paper on a firework. I wanted more and it felt natural, not forced.

 

[deleted15426371]

During my teenage years, I only had girlfriends but at the same time, I maintained a deep friendship for certain guys that I liked to hug. I am a very touchy-feely person, there was no sexual ulterior motive when I was doing this. One of the friends I touched a lot (and who was perhaps tired of it) pointed it out to me, and that's when I realized I was perhaps bisexual. It is something that has been confirmed little by little.

I tend to prefer sex with girls, and see myself living with a girl rather than a guy, but I prefer sharing moments and experiences with guys. It's a little complicated.

 

[diver6]

During my teenage years, I only had girlfriends but at the same time, I maintained a deep friendship for certain guys that I liked to hug. I am a very touchy-feely person, there was no sexual ulterior motive when I was doing this. One of the friends I touched a lot (and who was perhaps tired of it) pointed it out to me, and that's when I realized I was perhaps bisexual. It is something that has been confirmed little by little.

I tend to prefer sex with girls, and see myself living with a girl rather than a guy, but I prefer sharing moments and experiences with guys. It's a little complicated.

I understand I think, In my teen years I had a lot of fun with my buddies but was always dated girls. It was just easier to sexually play with my buddies at that time and they had the same sex drive as I did.

 

[johnboi67]

I always thought I was gay but one day me and my girl best friend slept together and she want to cuddle or something and the moment I realized my dick loved it. So I'm bi now xD

 

[biberkeleybottom]

Still strongly prefer women and want kids some day. But I love the thrill of being topped by older guys, and with PrEP I have more options. Still looking for a dick that's "too much" for me to take.

 

[bi2]

I understand I think, In my teen years I had a lot of fun with my buddies but was always dated girls. It was just easier to sexually play with my buddies at that time and they had the same sex drive as I did.

Loved your post.

When I was younger, I only dated and pursued girls.

However, I had the opportunity to have sex play (initially massage for a few months) with my older male neighbour who was seperate and single that lived close by. Between girls and my neighbour, I rarely had the need to ever masturbate. As my sexual drive was throuogh the roof, I was either fucking or being fucked. So I was always sexually spent.

Sex with my neighbour was so way too easy, simple and convenient to set up and hook up without complications or issues. With girls I had the real fear of getting them pregnant, with a guy I was ignorant and naieve, as I figured no one's getting pregnant here so everything is good. So with that, sex with my neighbour was good, guilt-free and "safe". Not to mention, I could go about my day or night without any need to follow up till we next hooked up. That was never really an option with girls. From my experience, I could not just have a fuckbuddy that didnt involve going out on dates, pillow talk and or chatting/messaging on the phone etc etc.