What opened your bi side?

[Bigred12]

Loved your post.

Even in 2023, for a younger guy like myself there is still a negative society views on bi guys. Its just easier and uncomplicated to keep this part of my life private.

I agree, why should miss out on good sex with my fuckbuddy? We meet up only about once a month and have a lot of fun, enjoyment and pleasure. Its simple, convenient and drama free. He gets his outlet from me, I get the opportunity to enjoy being an outlet. So its mutually satisfying.

I have nothing to gain by being open about it, but I have a lot to lose if I do.

Well put. I think you summed it up nicely for a lot of us there.

 

[merc41]

My fuckbuddy is married but in a sexless relationship with his wife, who like you, loves and loves his family very much.

If anything, Im happy for him, as he has his emotional needs met by them.

For him, Im just a physical outlet, a release for him, we have sex then move on. Mind you, he considers himself "straight". He is also very much an Alpha Dominant Top Male. So I respect his choices and to be honest, I dont care what he thinks or views of himself. When we have sex, he does love to control, dominate, humuliate and make me feel submissive and feminine, it probably helps him justify the sex we have, ie like as if he is with a woman, without being with one, which he would consider cheating.

I love feeling this way with him lol, so its a very much win win for both of us.

The bottom line, is that after the sex, we are both satisfied and the fact that we keep hooking up means we are comfortable with everything that we do and want.

Lucky

 

[bi2]

Lucky

I know I am very lucky and very grateful for the pleasure he always gives me.

Our MM fuckbuddy relationship works so well simply because "I suck, I fuck and I shut the fuck up".

 

[bi2]

Well put. I think you summed it up nicely for a lot of us there.

I almost always have pleasurable, enjoyable, rich, rewarding and mutually satisfying sex with my fuckbuddy whenever we hook up.

Im never going to jeopardize or risk that. One of the reasons we work so well is that our fuckbuddy relationship is simplistic in its purest sense. He loves to fuck, I love to receive. He loves to be strong, dominant and aggressive and I enjoy the sensatiion of being weak, submissive and passive with him.

Once implicit trust was given and boundaries established, we always were comfortable in subsequent encounters, without needing to worry or concern about the other physically, mentally and spiritually.

 

[lycraluvr223]

Interesting that I had the same inclination. I was turned on by friends wearing Lycra shorts, or even seeing them in their dressers or laundry pile. I had a neighbor who was on a club swim team. He invited me to one of their meets one time and the site of him and all the other guys in their Speedos nearly sent me over the edge!

I wish I had realized my feelings for this so much earlier than I did. Bet you saw and imagined so much during those hours and days at the pool. That over the edge feeling is what I want to give into. Bury, rub my face all over the shiny fabric.

 

[lycraluvr223]

Interesting that I had the same inclination. I was turned on by friends wearing Lycra shorts, or even seeing them in their dressers or laundry pile. I had a neighbor who was on a club swim team. He invited me to one of their meets one time and the site of him and all the other guys in their Speedos nearly sent me over the edge!

Bike shorts have a way of making an ass seem so sexy. Much sexier than if wearing pants. It must have been a turn on staring at lycra covered bulges and being able to see his cock's shape.

 

[lycraluvr223]

Bike shorts have a way of making an ass seem so sexy. Much sexier than if wearing pants. It must have been a turn on staring at lycra covered bulges and being able to see his cock's shape.

I love how they look on others and also how they feel on me. The fabric with near magical properties. I wish I could rub my face against it now.

 

[lycraluvr223]

As a teenager I’d never once looked at a man in a sexual way. In the locker room everyone was a bit shy so no one ever flaunted. But one time, one of the guys stripped off completely. I turned and saw this huge uncut cock dangling over the edge of the bench as he sat down. Can picture it to this day. I think my jaw must have dropped and I almost came on the spot. Was quite confusing as a relatively young man but it obviously awoke something primitive.

I was like you also. Never thought about it at all till I peeked thru a Glory hole while in the army. I was mesmerized. After that I buried the event in my mind for so many years but it touched something primitive for sure. I started drawing the event to analyze these new feelings that lay dormant for so long.

 

[Mister2101]

The thought of sucking and tasting another man's cock was so damn strong......and then when I finally did.....OMG.........felt and tasted like the most natural, wonderful thing in the world......

I just love how hard my own cock gets when I'm sucking another man's cock......it's so good......

 

[Mister2101]

The thought of sucking and tasting another man's cock was so damn strong......and then when I finally did.....OMG.........felt and tasted like the most natural, wonderful thing in the world......

 

[BoyToy696]

The thought of sucking and tasting another man's cock was so damn strong......and then when I finally did.....OMG.........felt and tasted like the most natural, wonderful thing in the world......
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I couldn't agree more!!! And the cravings only get stronger.

 

[Little gurl]

I think I always had it to be honest, but growing up in small town Australia in the 80s and early 90s I repressed it. In those days, there was nothing worse than being a "poofter". Any suggestion you might be attracted to men was an instant recipe for a loss of friends and all sorts of other things. "Gay" bashings weren't uncommon (even though many of the victims were straight men who just fitted some arbitrary stereotype).

It all started when I read a story in Penthouse Letters magazine about a guy who had a pretty epic bisexual experience. That started me off. After moving to my present city, I still repressed my desires to some extent, but would visit public toilets early in the morning to read the messages gay people had left on the walls there. I would get really turned on by them. I even took to crossdressing, wearing my younger sister's school uniform (and making myself cum in no time). It all just felt so good.

After that I discovered transexual porn, to which I would masturbate frequently, and then gay porn. Today I largely consider myself bisexual. I still love women too much to be considered gay, but I have found that sex with men can be just as amazing as sex with women can. Interestingly, my taste in men tends to run toward the more feminine type of guys (smooth twinks drive me crazy!), but my bi side has definitely been fired up.

 

[lycraluvr223]

I couldn't agree more!!! And the cravings only get stronger.

I love rubbing my tip against my dildo rubbing precum on it then licking it off. When I do that I nearly cum myself it feels so hot. Nearly delirious,body twisting,head spinning like I'm floating in space. Here's a picture of my dildo.

 

[Assman1]

I had moved to the west coast and had just broken up with a guy I was dating (cute but alcoholic, horrible top, mean) and decided to go out that night. Hit a normal gay club I had always gone to (with hook up success) when I went upstairs to a drink. The only person at the bar was a very pretty lesbian who was crying (her gf had just broken up with her). I bought her a drink and we spent the rest of the night talking about our failed love life. I drove her home - she asked me to stay over (2am) so I slept on the couch (exhausted). Next day after the rudimentary coffee-breakfast-hangover we went out and had a freaking *fantastic* day together sight seeing. Over the next two months we went out, partied, danced, ate, went to movies - veritable partners (without sex).

One night we went out and got caught in a major thunderstorm and got soaked as we ran into a club. We bought drinks and got as dry as we could: she was not wearing a bra and had like a tit hardon. At midnight I drove her home and the same routine: I was going to sleep on the couch. As we walked in (wet) she looked at me and i immediately kissed her. Not out of sexual interest but like her I was SO fucking horny. We kissed for 20 minutes then ran to her bedroom and she laid on top of me frotting my dick with her pussy: we didn’t fuck but she came hard. She literally cried after cumming (her nut was deep). After we showered, kissed then went to bed, spooned. We woke up a few hours later kissing. She had me fuck her doggy and let me bust deep in her (I had 4 weeks of saved up load). That nut was the most amazing I’ve ever experienced.

Sex began great then morphed into a routine. We began fucking non-stop but only doggy. Missionary for her was “too fucking personal” so we never did it. She wouldn’t let me shoot on her or in her again so when I came I pulled out and shot on her sheets. Having NO clue how to eat pussy she pretty much guided me through it until i could get her off pretty quick in the morning. Her nuts were loud, verbal, physical. After her nut she always went quiet, cold.

Then we settled into what I considered a weird, structured sexual routine:

• she would ride me but not look at me;
• I could fuck her doggy but not cum
• I had to eat her out until she nutted
• no more sex or cuddling after yhat
(She would always shower alone after)

The end came when we were drunk at a party and I blurted out, “I love you.”

She changed her #, moved & never spoke to me again.

But that fired my desire for women.

Over the years I’ve met up with some phenom women and the sex has been great. But the pretty lesbian was my first.

You are listed as a male and had sexual relations with a female. How does that release your bi side? You can DM me.

 

[LilBigWang]

You are listed as a male and had sexual relations with a female. How does that release your bi side? You can DM me.

His bi side went in reverse. He was gay and then found out he likes women. Reading comprehension is fundamental

 

[deleted19462351]

Ngl, kinda jealous of the people who had amazing encounters with both, all I know is disappointment and feelings not being returned.

 

[JacksonTNbiguy]

I had had numerous blowjobs from women before I became bi, but I had heard men gave better head.

So I was curious, and decided to try it out.

I found a guy, and I found out that the statement was (generally) true, he was better than most if not all the women I had had up to that point.

So I then became bi because I assumed men were better at sucking cock than women.

Since then, I have not been disappointed.

Men know what men want.

I'm not bad at sucking cock myself either from what I've heard.

 

[bi2]

Once went for what I thought was a legit massage at a private residence. Was fully drapped while being massaged, however when I turned over onto my back, the masseur stopped drapping me and began performing oral on me while undressing himself which I was both shocked and excited at the same time. He then positoned himself on top of me and began rubbing our dicks, ie frottage. This was too much and I blew hard ropes of cum. What I found so erotic though was that he used my cum to masturbate and blow a load all over my body. Being soaked in cum, sweat and saliva was intoxicating.

 

[BoyToy696]

Once went for what I thought was a legit massage at a private residence. Was fully drapped while being massaged, however when I turned over onto my back, the masseur stopped drapping me and began performing oral on me while undressing himself which I was both shocked and excited at the same time. He then positoned himself on top of me and began rubbing our dicks, ie frottage. This was too much and I blew hard ropes of cum. What I found so erotic though was that he used my cum to masturbate and blow a load all over my body. Being soaked in cum, sweat and saliva was intoxicating.

Wow, absolutely incredible! So sooo Hot!

 

[bi2]

Wow, absolutely incredible! So sooo Hot!

It was an intense sexual awakening for me.