if you could choose a size for your cock, what size would you like to be? I'm 7.25" x 6.25" erect and small when flaccid. well, not small, but no big bulge in my pants. I was thinking about 10" x 8", but still not a big show-er. my wife of almost 30 yrs says i'm long enough and insists my cock is getting fatter. in fact she says she knows it is, because it's tighter down there now than before(children, she had 3). I don't think she could handle all 10" if I had it, but some sexual positons might be more gratifying, like side -to -side, and easier to perform.