When Did You Realize That Your Dick Was Considered Large? (18+ Only)

I think I first started realizing that my dick was considered large (tbh, not sure if it's true despite my experiences) in the showers of my university gym.

Several times I found that guys would take peeks at my crotch but I didn't think much about it beyond guys wanting to compare how they measured up. That is, until one time, when a handsome toned older gentleman openly started checking me out every time we happened to be showering together post-workout.

At the time, I was still coming to terms with my identity and where I fell into the sexuality spectrum so I didn't really know what to do other than confront him after his attention toward me became more than extremely obvious. That experience game me such a thrill that after one of our showers together, I decided I wanted to see what would happen if I got closer to him, so I after we were done, I figured out where his locker was and moved my stuff next to his.

Fortunately the section of the locker room where we were was empty at the time, otherwise I don't know that I would have had the balls to ask him what I did when I noticed he kept looking at my crotch as I dried off: I asked him, "You like what you see?" I thought this would take him off guard, but imagine my surprise when he wasn't at all taken aback by my question and instead replied that I was "hung like a horse."

Of course this made me nervously chuckle (because again, I was too inexperienced to know how to respond at the time) and I thanked him for the compliment before he finished up and left. To add to my surprise, the gentleman was waiting for me in the parking lot because as I got out of the gym and into the parking lot area, he drove his car next to me and asked if I wanted "to feel a hot mouth in my dick."

At this point, the thrill of being checked out turned into an undescribable anxiety that made my legs little shake with terror and, in my inexperience, I told him I had a girlfriend (lol), which led to his lustful face suddenly turning into one of disappointment. I'll never forget that. We never saw each other again at the gym showers or the locker room, but I eventually came to find out he was a professor at the university.

Looking back, I do sometimes regret not saying yes to that experience. I sometimes wonder whether it would have helped me "speed up" the process of self-discovery and figuring out who I was and what I was really attracted to. But oh well.

Another time where I realized, I guess, that my dick was considered "large" (again, I don't know that I really believe it to this day), is once again, at the university locker room showers - but this time, by a remark from one of my friends.

I was showering one time after a swim and one of my friends had just finished working out in the weight room. As I showered, he passed by and saw me showering and nervously chuckled and didn't anything - until we met with friends for dinner that night.

As we walked all us together in a group - and I don't know how it happened - but he made a comment to everyone (including the girls that were in the group with us) - that I had "large balls." To which another friend asked if it was true, to which I replied, "I guess so." In comparison, that friend did have smaller balls than I did, but his dick was longer.

So again, these experiences taken together, I honestly don't know if it's true that I have a large dick or not, or if it was something guys just said at the time to make you feel better.
 
I knew that time I was abducted by Aliens who measured me and about 50 other guys they'd kidnapped, right there in their spaceship. They showed me the stats and then got very sad looks on their faces when they showed me their own junk, which was tiny. I felt that, as the big swingin' dick on board that I had power, and so I commanded that they let us go. They agreed but asked to suck us off first, to which all the guys agreed. When we left the ship, the aliens seemed kinda sad..
 
I knew that time I was abducted by Aliens who measured me and about 50 other guys they'd kidnapped, right there in their spaceship. They showed me the stats and then got very sad looks on their faces when they showed me their own junk, which was tiny. I felt that, as the big swingin' dick on board that I had power, and so I commanded that they let us go. They agreed but asked to suck us off first, to which all the guys agreed. When we left the ship, the aliens seemed kinda sad..
You have the intergalaxy bigger cock! lol
 
I knew my cock was girthy, not necessarily long, since high school showering days. What I didn't realize until five years ago or so is that my balls are really big. For some reason, when I used to look at another guy in the locker room, I saw penis and not the whole package. A guy went down on my cock a few years ago and said yikes your balls are intimidating, I laughed and realized that while he was eight inches long, his balls were tiny. Now I look at the whole package in the shower room. I notice that it seems that the guys with the best hang are the ones with the smaller balls. They're just not in the way propping up the cock when the balls cinch up in the shower. I have never had a great hang as large balls make my cock stick relatively straight out unless its really hot in the shower room......need to be careful with a slight chub as it can look unnecessarily suspicious.
Definitely some similarities in this story to myself - I have wear spots on my jeans in front of my package because my fat cock sits on my big nuts. When it colder my nuts tuck up and that leads to a bulge/package that people find impressive, BUT in fact my hang looks pretty unimpressive to my eyes in the showers compared to other guys.

I'm probably shorter than @AHandfull so its even worse for me, fat and only a bit over average in length with big balls makes you think you are 'average' for many years even if you are in the top 5% for girth lol
 
Ha yes. I'm telling you. What's funny now though is I've actually bought some pretty good bulge underwear and so the big balls do have their advantages in that they make for a nice viewing. There's a couple of my wife's friends that have given me funny and knowing looks in the past couple of years.
 
I’m a husband of average endowment married to a Hotwife. I have no frame of reference as to how my cock feels to be “constricted”. But, the biggest cock my wife ever fucked insisted on NOT using the XL Magnums we had and instead used regular size condoms.
He said he that to him the condom being stretched tight made him more sensitive.
We wondered later on if he got off on the fact that the condom might break. It didn’t and he fucked her twice, hard the last time for over 40 minutes. And he was THICK!
When I started using condoms, there were only 2 sizes, "regular" and "snug". I used the regular sized ones all the time. While some were more difficult to put on, I was getting laid, and her pussy was waiting for me, so I was always hard as a rock and those condoms went on quickly so I could enter and enjoy the pussy.

The constriction really didn't bother me, and actually desensitized the sensation of fucking enough that I could generally last through 2-3 position changes before cumming. Only one condom broke out of many hundreds of times using them, and I noticed the increased pleasure immediately. I quickly removed and replaced it so I could finish what I started. I noticed some brands had more stretch than others, so those were easier to put on. When the larger sizes were finally introduced, it was so much better, I could get a condom on in just a few seconds, then have some fun!

The first times I went bareback, it was a struggle not to cum in the first 2-3 minutes! It took some time to get used to that amazing sensation
 
So for me it's not so directly about me, although I also have more than the German average. It's much more about my brother, he's a few years older and because he plays football he's more open than me. That's why I regularly saw his part at home. What I thought was normal. And that mine will be that big too. This changed when the first guy from our village approached me and wanted to know if I had a big cock like my brother. Then I realized that it really is that big. Even years later, former soccer players still talk to me about his cock.
 
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I was on an organized camping trip with about a dozen schoolmates.
One guy, Zach, was famous for having a huge cock, but I hadn't seen it. As it got late, some guys were asleep already and a few of us were around a dying campfire, goofing around.
Someone challenged Zach to show us his cock.
He got out a semi then got it hard and started jacking it as we laughed and cheered.
He came fast and yelled "sperm baby sperm," which I thought was so lame.
I knew then that I was big because I was bigger than the famous Zach.

That was confirmed when I started using condoms. Before Magnum days they were all too tight.
 
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I was on an organized camping trip with about a dozen schoolmates.
One guy, Zach, was famous for having a huge cock, but I hadn't seen it. As it got late, some guys were asleep already and a few of us were around a dying campfire, goofing around.
Someone challenged Zach to show us his cock.
He got out a semi then got it hard and started jacking it as we laughed and cheered.
He came fast and yelled "sperm baby sperm," which I thought was so lame.
I knew then that I was big because I was bigger than the famous Zach.

That was confirmed when I started using condoms. Before Magnum days they were all too tight.
Uh… yeah, I agree, I would have Zach beat by quite a bit as well. Great to have those reassuring experiences!!
(that is what LPSG has been for me in general. I had the “idea” that I was bigger than average but didn’t understand exactly what that meant…
 
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Uh… yeah, I agree, I would have Zach beat by quite a bit as well. Great to have those reassuring experiences!!
(that is what LPSG has been for me in general. I had the “idea” that I was bigger than average but didn’t understand exactly what that meant…
Sorry, pic is just for effect, not the scene I described, which happened 40+ years ago. Actually we were all dressed and Zach had shorts and a t shirt, flip flops.
 
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Uh… yeah, I agree, I would have Zach beat by quite a bit as well. Great to have those reassuring experiences!!
(that is what LPSG has been for me in general. I had the “idea” that I was bigger than average but didn’t understand exactly what that meant…
Here is a post jack pic of me for comparison…
 

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Sorry, pic is just for effect, not the scene I described, which happened 40+ years ago. Actually we were all dressed and Zach had shorts and a t shirt, flip flops.
Oops, sorry then. I guess you now have my pics for comparison!!
 
So for me it's not so directly about me, although I also have more than the German average. It's much more about my brother, he's a few years older and because he plays football he's more open than me. That's why I regularly saw his part at home. What I thought was normal. And that mine will be that big too. This changed when the first guy from our village approached me and wanted to know if I had a big cock like my brother. Then I realized that it really is that big. Even years later, former soccer players still talk to me about his cock.
Ein grosses schwanz
 
So for me it's not so directly about me, although I also have more than the German average. It's much more about my brother, he's a few years older and because he plays football he's more open than me. That's why I regularly saw his part at home. What I thought was normal. And that mine will be that big too. This changed when the first guy from our village approached me and wanted to know if I had a big cock like my brother. Then I realized that it really is that big. Even years later, former soccer players still talk to me about his cock.
That sounds hot. Makes me want to be in his team and see it too. Haha
 
The first time I had sex with my friends mom. I was 18. She kept telling me how big I was but I thought it was just part of her sex talk. Then after she couldn't stop talking about it. This was the 80's so no internet and not the amount of porn there is now. I didn't think it was huge cause I have had and seen bigger. I am 8" on a good day. With the average being 5.5 I guess I am bigger.
 
I think I first started realizing that my dick was considered large (tbh, not sure if it's true despite my experiences) in the showers of my university gym.

Several times I found that guys would take peeks at my crotch but I didn't think much about it beyond guys wanting to compare how they measured up. That is, until one time, when a handsome toned older gentleman openly started checking me out every time we happened to be showering together post-workout.

At the time, I was still coming to terms with my identity and where I fell into the sexuality spectrum so I didn't really know what to do other than confront him after his attention toward me became more than extremely obvious. That experience game me such a thrill that after one of our showers together, I decided I wanted to see what would happen if I got closer to him, so I after we were done, I figured out where his locker was and moved my stuff next to his.

Fortunately the section of the locker room where we were was empty at the time, otherwise I don't know that I would have had the balls to ask him what I did when I noticed he kept looking at my crotch as I dried off: I asked him, "You like what you see?" I thought this would take him off guard, but imagine my surprise when he wasn't at all taken aback by my question and instead replied that I was "hung like a horse."

Of course this made me nervously chuckle (because again, I was too inexperienced to know how to respond at the time) and I thanked him for the compliment before he finished up and left. To add to my surprise, the gentleman was waiting for me in the parking lot because as I got out of the gym and into the parking lot area, he drove his car next to me and asked if I wanted "to feel a hot mouth in my dick."

At this point, the thrill of being checked out turned into an undescribable anxiety that made my legs little shake with terror and, in my inexperience, I told him I had a girlfriend (lol), which led to his lustful face suddenly turning into one of disappointment. I'll never forget that. We never saw each other again at the gym showers or the locker room, but I eventually came to find out he was a professor at the university.

Looking back, I do sometimes regret not saying yes to that experience. I sometimes wonder whether it would have helped me "speed up" the process of self-discovery and figuring out who I was and what I was really attracted to. But oh well.

Another time where I realized, I guess, that my dick was considered "large" (again, I don't know that I really believe it to this day), is once again, at the university locker room showers - but this time, by a remark from one of my friends.

I was showering one time after a swim and one of my friends had just finished working out in the weight room. As I showered, he passed by and saw me showering and nervously chuckled and didn't anything - until we met with friends for dinner that night.

As we walked all us together in a group - and I don't know how it happened - but he made a comment to everyone (including the girls that were in the group with us) - that I had "large balls." To which another friend asked if it was true, to which I replied, "I guess so." In comparison, that friend did have smaller balls than I did, but his dick was longer.

So again, these experiences taken together, I honestly don't know if it's true that I have a large dick or not, or if it was something guys just said at the time to make you feel better.
I've doubted my size, too. Im not always hanging around with a 9x6, and often whe stressed it feels more like 3x3 LOL. That said, you have too many experiences to pass them off as people being 'polite'.
You're definitely large according to the audiences you've had, and while some may be bigger, longer, whatever...those bigger guys (as in the old adage 'theres always someone better looking') don't take away from your size advantage even if you don't feel that way in the moment. Your insecurity (and mine) clouds your POV...if more people knew this psych dynamic, we'd all give ourselves a break...