Wife Still Giving You Head?

[shaved and trimmed]

Yes she does. Married 18 years. She sucks more now then she use to. As we've gotten older I seem to have become thicker and she has tightened up, so penetration is not always so comfortable for her. Her favorite position is 69, her on top me working her pussy with a smooth toy licking up her juice.

 

[VladtheImpaler]

Yes every morning. Sometimes at night. Occasionally we fall asleep with my cock in her mouth

 

[deleted10983801]

These comments are great. Thanks. As of 7.17.21 its split right down the middle for YES = 34 and NO = 33.

Its a NO for me. Many of you are in a similar situations, while others of you seem to have a GREAT THING going.

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[lapdog2001]

I answered Yes, even though blowjobs aren't always part of all our sexual encounters. My wife gets turned on easily and when she feels my hard erection, she wants it in her, so I oblige! Sometimes she will spontaneously go down on me, and I always enjoy that, but I never have to beg her to do it.

 

[deleted5700751]

wife gives me head almost every time we fuck, but even though she is happy to swallow i prefer to cum in her pussy.

 

[bighornso]

Married 14 years, bjs ended 10 years ago when we had our son. Since then she says, she has really bad gag reflex. She loves her pussy eaten and I love eating it. Would be nice to get a bj though but oh well.

 

[deleted627832]

Married 40 years. It's a NO for me, miss them so much.

 

[Sid76]

Sometimes.

 

[tomj77]

Not as much as she used to, but we definitely have more sex than we used to. I'd rather be in her pussy anyway so I'm not complaining.

 

[eltoro45]

Genuinely shocked that almost half the respondents hardly ever or never get head from their wives. And that another 8% have to beg for it. Don't be afraid to open up a line of communication about it! Getting your cock sucked properly is one the best feelings a guy can have. As long as you're a good husband and willing to reciprocate, it's not an unreasonable request.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

Men love getting their dicks sucked which is understandable. I think a lot of married men expect oral as apart of the marriage contract and feel entitled to it but why isn't there a reciprocation. It seems very uneven in terms of women providing that favor to their husbands versus men who are willing to do the same for their wives. Do women not enjoy oral as much as men? Is it not a husband's duty to do the same favor for his wife that he would expect from his wife? Maybe there should be a separate survey asking the married men how often they give oral to their wives. Just something to add to the discussion.

 

[merc41]

I give my wife more oral than I get. Probably 5 to 1. And always give her 1 to 3 orgasms Everytime we make love. Her first then me.

 

[merc41]

I would love a bj everyday. Especially if they were unexpected.

 

[Sagittarius84]

I can't speak for myself, but it's been my observation that for the sake of inspiring more sexual activity, or simply because they enjoy it, men on average are far more enthusiastic about giving head to their female partners then the reverse.
Lines of communication are great and all and I'm not saying anyone who wants a more fulfilling sexual experience shouldn't speak up about it...
But a lot can be said for self motivated, enthusiastically given acts of lust that speaks a lot about how our partners view us, and it takes sex and sexual acts from an expression of affection and primal intimacy, to some mode of monetization, or bartering when instead you have say "this is what I want".

 

[SeeTheDifference]

Married 19 years, together 24. One of the advantages of being of modest dimensions for me at least has been copious amounts of head. There’s actually a lot of just 69’ing in our bedroom.

 

[fasttalker]

Married for 25 years this fall. More head now than ever. I lick her to orgasm about half the times we have sex. She goes down on me about half the times we have sex. But she doesn't want me to cum in her mouth. Says she doesn't like the taste or the texture. But not really a problem because she has an awesome pussy to deposit the cum in.

 

[Andyb2]

Doesn't look like a nice strategy on your side. I understand the frustration, sure, but it is up to her to do it, and if she doesn't like it you cannot (should not) force her. The only real thing you can do is to forget about your frustration and explain her nicely why did you love to recieve oral sex. After that, it is up to her.

I am married for 5 years now, so I cannot say

Maybe after 44 years of marriage he’s worked out how to talk to his wife, at least has more of an idea than he did at 5 years.
Just saying

 

[Andyb2]

I technically qualify maybe, been with wife for 13yrs now married for 4.
We're at a weird impasse with blowjobs. Early on in our relationship we were somewhat mutually liberal with oral pleasure, it was a bit more taxing for me as some unfortunate history always gave me uneasy feelings when giving; but we were also in party mode a lot with the requisite drinking and recreational drugs, so that helped me out a lot. As we scaled back partying I scaled back on oral on my end which she scaled back on her end..which I was okay with up until she confronted me about it. I didn't fully disclose( nor still havent) the full details of the situation, but I assured her that is was a me issue and not a her issue, that cunilingus just always seemed like an obligatory mandate that never sat well with me, and much like I would never want a partner to do with me, I didn't want to burden the sexual space by performing under mental duress, or physical discomfort.
I do enjoy blowjobs. And I'm not going to lie and say that I don't wish I was getting more, well any blowjobs. But I don't want obligatory ones or reciprocal ones or motivational ones, and at this point I don't push the issue nor do I really try to get my dick sucked, because I don't know if it's because she really just craves a dick in her mouth or is just trying to force her way through my sexual uncomfortability to achieve her sexual goals.

Without taking the piss, suggest you sort that issue out, maybe get some counselling for yourself as it’s clearly impacting upon your relationship with your wife and her sexual expectations - which are not unreasonable. Hope it’s all working out.

 

[Sagittarius84]

Honestly I think my drug induced tongue slinging was the bigger issue, and I dealt with it by finding alternate ways to bring her to orgasm reliably...just saying I've never heard a man complaining his bjs were replaced by an overabundance of HJs..there's a deeper power issue at play here that I think needs to be mutually recognized before involving a professional.

 

[Andyb2]

Honestly I think my drug induced tongue slinging was the bigger issue, and I dealt with it by finding alternate ways to bring her to orgasm reliably...just saying I've never heard a man complaining his bjs were replaced by an overabundance of HJs..there's a deeper power issue at play here that I think needs to be mutually recognized before involving a professional.

I didn’t mean to over step as you know your relationship better than I do. Sometimes an external is needed to help but if you can work it out between you then that’s even better. Hope it all goes well.

Although a great Hand job can be awesome, I wouldn’t want to miss out on my BJ’s :-D