I've posted in this thread earlier but wanted to give other readers hope. Been married for 44 years and I have to say that since my wife has reached and passed menopause, her oral skills have definitely improved and blowjobs are much more frequent. My wife says that intercourse is sometimes uncomfortable even if we use lube. Perhaps that's why she seems to be performing oral sex more often. Blowjobs now are usually 30 minutes or more. She sucks my cock head, licks my shaft and balls, and does a LOT of ball play which I love. She also incorporates external prostate massage into blowjobs so I'm getting the full treatment. My mind is blown when she has my dick in her mouth and is using both hands on my balls and/or taint. As I get close to PONR and my balls tighten, any touch to my scrotum is just exquisite.
I've never tried to deepthroat my wife but I do fuck her mouth, sliding about half of my cock inside. I get really excited watching my cock go in-and-out of her mouth as she uses both hands to massage my balls. My wife hates the idea of me cumming in her mouth so I'm careful to pull out right before I explode. But I do leak pre-cum and can feel my cock pulsing as the pre-cum flows from my Cowper's Gland. I ask her, "can you taste me?" and get a thrill out of her replying "uh huh" as my dick is filling her mouth.
My point of all this is to say that even if you're not getting the kind of oral sex you want, things can change. I do ask my wife for blowjobs and she is gracious enough to satisfy me often. However, she regularly teases me and can be damn playful.
We went to an outdoor theater on Sunday. She had showered and dressed and was using a blowdryer to dry her wet hair. I stepped out of the shower and finished drying. I stood at the bathroom sink combing my wet hair and she's standing at the sink next to me using the dryer. She suddenly says, "I wonder if I can multi-task?" and drops to her knees and motions for me to step over. I did and she took me into her mouth while never missing a beat drying her hair.
