I get a lot of attention at home. Strangely, all the love from the home base still hasn't made me ok with harassment.
I had a customer at work stare at my boobs and when I went to pull my shirt a bit to cover the cleavage he said "Your boobs look really good in that shirt" I uncomfortably tried to distract myself and get back on the floor when he followed me around and was sure to mention "No seriously though, your tits look fanastic." Before leaving.
My husband could have said that and I'd melt in his arms. A stranger saying it not just once but twice is harassment.
Even if I had no self esteem I'd still be bothered by a creep harassing me.