Would you befriend a gay guy?

[deleted136887]

How are gay men the same as women? They both like men, that s it.

Gay men are just as straight men.

Ok.
Clarify.
It is another friend.
You do not have to fuck everyone you befriend.

 

[deleted136887]

How are gay men the same as women? They both like men, that s it.

Gay men are just as straight men.

In fact.
I fuck very few if any people who are my frienda.
Male female gay straight.
It is just people you intersect with on your life hourney

 

[Elixir]

If you were out one night and got talking to a guy that after a while you started to think may be gay would you continue to become friends with him or distance yourself?

Of course I would become friends. I have several gay friends and it doesnt bother me at all.

 

[jpdhuge]

Yes but I wouldn't do anything sexual or have a relationship with him, just friends, talking to each other.

 

[tsfan1]

Yes but I wouldn't do anything sexual or have a relationship with him, just friends, talking to each other.

That was the question. The question wasnt if u would suck his dick

 

[jpdhuge]

tsfan1-ok that is fine.

 

[deleted5499921]

Make friends of course ......no reason not to.

 

[zeropointthree]

Of course! what is the problem of having gay friends?

 

[svrocks]

I don't see why not. If we get along then we can be mates. If not then we go our separate ways. It isn't different from befriending straight men or women.

 

[Steamer]

That's not how I met the gay men I have as friends (out one night):
1.) Some I've met in work situations;
2.) One I met at a gun range, and we hunt and fish together. He taught me bow-fishing.
3.) One (and his lover) is one of my physicians;
4.) One is the guy on whose estate I rent my house.
5.) One is an in-law and his spouse
6.) Two are Harley owners like I am, and we have made some good runs together here in the PacNorthwest.
7.) Some were friends and relatives of my wife.
8.) One of my grown sons is gay, and we are good friends. I tend to like his friends.

Friends are friends: you choose each other for who they are, not because they aren't gay or they are gay.

Just thought I'd share this, re: #6.
One of my best friends is straight and also a Harley owner. He, and other guys would ride with another gay guy often. Unfortunately, this gentleman passed about 3 years ago.
PS: I love #8

 

[Steamer]

I was just dropped off after getting coffee with my straight friend. We go for that and/or breakfast often.
We met at the gym about 8 years ago. I outed myself after a comment (somewhat negative) was made while watching TV (at the gym). He said his uncle was gay and designed pretty missiles at the Pentagon. lol
We've become good friends. He's introduced me to his friends and he's met mine. Often he'll ask my opinion about fashion, etc. which I find charming.
He respects me.

 

[deleted5700751]

if i liked him as a person then his sexuality would be irrelevant.

 

[Lookinginconshy]

I was just dropped off after getting coffee with my straight friend. We go for that and/or breakfast often.
We met at the gym about 8 years ago. I outed myself after a comment (somewhat negative) was made while watching TV (at the gym). He said his uncle was gay and designed pretty missiles at the Pentagon. lol
We've become good friends. He's introduced me to his friends and he's met mine. Often he'll ask my opinion about fashion, etc. which I find charming.
He respects me.

How lucky you are. A good friend is worth their weight in gold.
So I assume his thinking has changed and now is accepting or just of you.

 

[jtheimpaler]

If you were out one night and got talking to a guy that after a while you started to think may be gay would you continue to become friends with him or distance yourself?

Depends on the nature of the chat….

If we have common interests, rugby, football etc and that is the base of the chat then why not, I chat to people and have people in my circle I don’t lust after

If I felt he was hitting on me then I would casually let him know my situation… if we still shared common interests other than my cock then sure I would

I wouldn’t automatically discount him because he was gay…. I don’t automatically believe everyone that chats to me wants to get inside my calvins

 

[barbunz]

Sure. Done that many times. Doesn't matter.

 

[goander]

Of course.

 

[njfellow2002]

I don't see why not.

 

[wizard1]

Sure....in South Pacific we had freind was called fafafina . Was normal course of events....too many boys in famo6 so youngest was delegated to female to balance family structure. No animosity, was what it was...

 

[well8hung]

I'd say why not? Cuz my gay friends are the most hilarious and kindest guys I have tbh... Some gays are indeed annoying not because they are gay just because of their poor attitude and terrible personality.

 

[MDM8]

If you were out one night and got talking to a guy that after a while you started to think may be gay would you continue to become friends with him or distance yourself?

Of course I would, if the guy was nice, we had things in common and he was an interesting person to talk to, why not??!!