Would you befriend a gay guy?

[Iwanthead]

Yes and after a few months we were out drinking and he asked if I would let a guy suck my cock. I told him I had not thought about it before. He proceeded to describe in great detail how much he enjoys sucking cock and had dreamed of sucking my cock. We drank a little more, played darts and he asked if I had thought about it anymore. I told him actually ai was thinking about the blond playing pool. He walked over to her and spoke to her a minute when he returned he said he asked her if she would suck my cock her reply was no. Then he said I saved you the cost of a drink to find out.
We played another game of darts and he said he would suck my cock anywhere I wanted as often as I wanted. We went to the parking lot he dropped to his knees and deepthroated my cock til I came down his throat. He got up and said I knew you would enjoy that.
We were friends for over 10 years and he did suck my cock anywhere I asked him to. That is all he wanted, no fucking no me touching him. Except the back of head when I buried my cock in his throat.
He moved away for work and messaged me often asking me to visit (west coast). I replied if I ever get near I would definitely want to meet up.

 

[Oldcowboy]

If you were out one night and got talking to a guy that after a while you started to think may be gay would you continue to become friends with him or distance yourself?

Sure, lotsa gay friends.

 

[17264491]

Sure. Already am and have friends from all walks of life.

 

[silversurfer1]

I once had a roomate who was gay. We were and still are very good friends. One night he was really drunk and he tried to have sex with me. Of course, I refused but I was not offended. Ironically, he never knew that one other night, I was sexually "vulnerable" too. However, true friendship is more important than impulses.

 

[thickcockjames]

of course, I'd continue to be friends with him.

 

[deleted814719]

Well, I have two brother-in-laws (they are married to each other) who I both consider to be friends. Outside of them, I don't know any other gay people.

 

[cofrader]

I told him actually ai was thinking about the blond playing pool. He walked over to her and spoke to her a minute when he returned he said he asked her if she would suck my cock her reply was no. Then he said I saved you the cost of a drink to find out.

I remind you no underage is allowed here that I'm friend likes you it's the best way to torch yourself if you don't have the courage you'll never know what are you missing. Not showing up is the best way to fail.
So you became bi by not investing on woman but regularly courting your buddy and now you are on a long distance relationship but you won't invest to visit your buddy.
I guess the future is brighter with cheap sex robots always ready.

 

[Rooker]

I don’t see the problem. Have gay friends. Had a gay roommate.

 

[lapdog2001]

If you were out one night and got talking to a guy that after a while you started to think may be gay would you continue to become friends with him or distance yourself?

I have been introduced to some gay people (men and women) by mutual friends and have befriended them. I've also been friends with people I didn't know were gay or bi until later on. None of it was really relevant to being friends with them or not

I would distance myself from anyone (man/woman, gay/straight) who's personality or behavior wasn't to my liking, but we would never really be friends to begin with.

 

[Oldcowboy]

Yes and after a few months we were out drinking and he asked if I would let a guy suck my cock. I told him I had not thought about it before. He proceeded to describe in great detail how much he enjoys sucking cock and had dreamed of sucking my cock. We drank a little more, played darts and he asked if I had thought about it anymore. I told him actually ai was thinking about the blond playing pool. He walked over to her and spoke to her a minute when he returned he said he asked her if she would suck my cock her reply was no. Then he said I saved you the cost of a drink to find out.
We played another game of darts and he said he would suck my cock anywhere I wanted as often as I wanted. We went to the parking lot he dropped to his knees and deepthroated my cock til I came down his throat. He got up and said I knew you would enjoy that.
We were friends for over 10 years and he did suck my cock anywhere I asked him to. That is all he wanted, no fucking no me touching him. Except the back of head when I buried my cock in his throat.
He moved away for work and messaged me often asking me to visit (west coast). I replied if I ever get near I would definitely want to meet up.

Great story the part about just touching the back of his head reminds me of a guy, a favorite cocksucker who had a very similar relationship with still do matter of fact

One night at the bar, he told me he desperately needed my cock in his mouth right now. I was just teasing him, and I said you made me sore last time. You’re way too vigorous.

He promised he’d be as ‘less vigorous’ as I wanted

OK, I’ll go with you to the back room, but I want your head to stay stillyou can do anything you want with your mouth and your tongue we went back
And I set a full schooner of beer on his head

Now you can suck cock as long as you want to as long as you don’t spill my beer, he was sitting backwards on a little cane chair, had his hands on the upright tobrace himself

Man o man, did I have fun teasing him and boy did he have his tongue and lips working



He made it almost to the end before my before my schooner started to spill

But being the good sport, I am I grabbed it, set it down and then got both hands on his head—and told him—-‘keep your hands on the chair’—-I figure everybody deserves one 2nd chance…..

He was pretty worked up, very cock hungry ——and I proceeded to face fuck him w/o mercy

 

[Oldcowboy]

Great story the part about just touching the back of his head reminds me of a guy, a favorite cocksucker who had a very similar relationship with still do matter of fact

One night at the bar, he told me he desperately needed my cock in his mouth right now. I was just teasing him, and I said you made me sore last time. You’re way too vigorous.

He promised he’d be as ‘less vigorous’ as I wanted

OK, I’ll go with you to the back room, but I want your head to stay stillyou can do anything you want with your mouth and your tongue we went back
And I set a full schooner of beer on his head

Now you can suck cock as long as you want to as long as you don’t spill my beer, he was sitting backwards on a little cane chair, had his hands on the upright tobrace himself

Man o man, did I have fun teasing him and boy did he have his tongue and lips working



He made it almost to the end before my before my schooner started to spill

But being the good sport, I am I grabbed it, set it down and then got both hands on his head—and told him—-‘keep your hands on the chair’—-I figure everybody deserves one 2nd chance…..

He was pretty worked up, very cock hungry ——and I proceeded to face fuck him w/o mercy

We all want what we can’t have—and appreciate it more if we have to work for it. I saw the same guy again over the holidays and gave him the same opportunity this time when he started spill the drink, I stopped told him” rules are rules”.
I’ve been playing darts with with a splendid, long haired part, native absolute beauty. And being I was about to explode after this session got her to curtail the dart game.

My cocksucker had me about ready to explode, but after being edged like this, if I’ve had a break, I can last a super long time

So we had a lovely evening. I saw my cocksucker a few days later and he said you owe me one.
I replied nope I don’t know you anything, but it is the holidays and I’m in a Christmas spirit. I let him come to my house and said what would you do to my cock if you had total control. He told me I said, show me.
Another lovely evening.

 

[Inshape69]

Seriously. What does ones sexuality have to do with having a friend.

 

[MDM8]

Seriously. What does ones sexuality have to do with having a friend.

Best answer yet!!

 

[dannyboy971]

I would not have a problem being friends with a gay guy as long as he did not talk with a completely fake camp voice

 

[George85]

As long as they don't crossdress around me, I'd have no problems at all being close friends.

 

[Sagittarius84]

Seriously. What does ones sexuality have to do with having a friend.

Objectively, nothing, subjectively quite a bit. The idea of having a gay friend has never been an issue, the reality of having a gay male friend has almost always crossed some line of disrespect, in ways I've never experienced from lesbian friends, trans men or heterosexual friends of either gender(I'm still deciding on trans women) Now it's all a matter of degrees, and nothing has ever transpired severe enough to where I would seek to end said friendship, but I always sensed a slight air of, "go on, express how uncomfortable my words/actions made you feel so that I can call you homophobic, and conflate that with whatever latent homoerotic feelings I think you have(or that I can benefit from)"

 

[Oldcowboy]

Objectively, nothing, subjectively quite a bit. The idea of having a gay friend has never been an issue, the reality of having a gay male friend has almost always crossed some line of disrespect, in ways I've never experienced from lesbian friends, trans men or heterosexual friends of either gender(I'm still deciding on trans women) Now it's all a matter of degrees, and nothing has ever transpired severe enough to where I would seek to end said friendship, but I always sensed a slight air of, "go on, express how uncomfortable my words/actions made you feel so that I can call you homophobic, and conflate that with whatever latent homoerotic feelings I think you have(or that I can benefit from)"

I just call ‘em on it—“whoops—looks like you’re getting low on fairy dust—hold on—I got a shaker around here someplace….” lol! Part of being friends is keeping each other honest—-and works both ways

 

[moresault]

Yes of course. Have many gay friends. If it was just me that night I might pursue more fun if he was into it.

 

[Sagittarius84]

I just call ‘em on it—“whoops—looks like you’re getting low on fairy dust—hold on—I got a shaker around here someplace….” lol! Part of being friends is keeping each other honest—-and works both ways

Easier said than done....to be honest your approach is how I deal with female friends a lot of the time, especially when the disrespect resides within the realm of crossing boundaries ...I think because of how men tend to communicate, as well as the implied low level threat of violence that tends to permeate throughout male interaction, I give much less grace to a man in that situation than I would a woman...like they should inherently know better because they at least should have a better grasp of the probable consequences in case shit goes sideways.
Kind of like a swing and a miss from a punch, I might just laugh at a woman that tried it, I'll probably beat the breaks off the man whom did.

 

[techpump]

I've had a few gay friends, they were always fun and great to be around. I have a few gay clients right now, they are great. They think the world of me, which is fun and helps my relationship with me, but they are serious business-minded and ethically oriented guys, too, which I love, the balance is key.

I've never met random guys of any ilk out doing anything in public, like at a bar etc.. I'm usually meeting new friends through work or introductions from current friends, family, etc. people I know. I guess if they were openly gay I wouldn't care; I can tell if a gay dude wants to fuck me within seconds. Its pretty obvious.

I know I've been friends with guys who were closet gays and REALLY took an almost obsessive liking to me, and I suspected not that they were gay, but that they kinda wanted more than friendship from me. They were all particularly cold towards my wife. Like a "ugh you're so in the way" when they talked to her or if she was around and the dude wanted to talk to me. I take that as a clear sign.

So part of my apprehension to be friends with gay men is usually that they want to be friends because they want to fuck me. I'm not down with that. I have female friends I don't want to fuck. And they know it and that's why we've been friends for years and years now. I guess I'm less likely to be friends with gay men simply because more often than not they eventually bitter towards me because they know they won't be able to have me. Again, its pretty obvious, there's never been anything covert about their behavior towards me. It sucks too because I'd love to just be a real friend!