I would fuck/date/marry a guy who has the body shapes of the two right men in submissivegirl83's Fat Men NarnraPoperino Pic-if we have chemistry and are compatible, that is. I think having more of a man to cuddle is quite a delicious thought! Big men also appeal to me psychologically because they project the sense of being strong and protective.
But I would't go for a guy who is obese or has a severely huge belly, even if his arms and legs are the size of matchsticks! It's important to me that the man is reasonably active, and is able to do activities with me, in and outside the bedroom. So if he's fat and still reasonably active, it's cool with me. I also foresee that guys with a tremendously huge belly would have some difficulty with certain sexual positions, so that would be a turn off for me.