Would you keep your Penis? MTF Question

[submit452]

I think a woman with a penis is very hot and I would love to ask you all if you would keep it or get the vaginal surgery and please explain why.

 

[MizzSummers]

I am keeping mine. I think the end result with SRS isn't quite where i want it to be for me to confidently say I want a Vagina. I have talked with many girls who have gotten them and I just dont think i want one. Its not really the cure for me. I mean i am happy as I am

 

[Mister2101]

Personally--I think TS women with penises are very sexy. I find them very attractive. I dated a black TS woman (pre-op) for almost 8 months and had a terrific time. She liked her dick and wanted no part of SRS.

But, I think many TS women wish they had a vagina instead of their dick which is certainly understandable--they want to be a "complete woman." But to me, there is nothing sexier than pulling down a pair of silk panties and seeing a thick throbbing dick. Super hot!! Peace.

 

[littlevimpy]

No intention of removing mine. I have come to accept it and allowed it to be a part of my identity I suppose. I have no interest in stenting for life either. I prefer zero maintenance.

 

[nickig]

nope i want mine gone when i havethe surgery will be the greatest day of my life

 

[LondonSamm]

I think a woman with a penis is very hot and I would love to ask you all if you would keep it or get the vaginal surgery and please explain why.

I would so have a vagina. I have always felt female and even act feminine in bed. I don't like my size and sometimes i find sex uncomfortable as a gay man. Plus I bet getting fucked in my pussy would feel great!

 

[BiAthlete]

I dated a mtf with vaginal surgery. Truth is I was to big, and it just didn't work for us. I also came to realize that if I wanted pussy why not stick with born females. If I met a transgendered gal and we had a regular relationship based on things in common that would be ok. In this case we just wanted to play and get off, and I wanted to try her new pussy.
On another note I love a woman's body and would be ok living with and dating a passible tg with a member. That's just so hot and sharing the secret with one another can make the intimacy so good. OH and yes I have had TG girl friends with male genitals for the record.

 

[cumonmee]

Well I don't really have a conscious idea what I would do but I'm thinking a good looking woman with a cock is hot as well

 

[gender_blender2]

I have more of a small clit like dick....3" hard but most times is soft and looks like a clit. No vagina. 1 tiny ball and 1 ovary. 48 DD udders. I used to hate this condition as it is genetic. But now, I find many people enjoy it. Want me. Yes, I know...to use me...but that is better than not being wanted at all!

 

[the_NET]

I don't mind mine. I do mind my testicles though, I want them gone.

 

[pretzelslut]

Depends on the person, in my opinion. Gender reassignment, to be blunt, can be highly invasive and extremely costly. Gender dysphoria and being transgendered are sometimes in the same discussion circles but are not exclusive so many transgendered individuals have come to their own understandings, really.

Me personally, I'm blessed with friends who allow me to be myself no matter what, and every person who I've come across has either been understanding, loving, or supportive of how I choose to express myself. I find the sex I have is just fine, and I have people who love my body for what it is, when it comes to romantic/intimacy, so I choose to forfeit any hormonal or surgical reassignment. But in the near future I'm very most likely going to look into hormonal supplementation and reassignment options as my financial situation gets stronger

 

[4544511]

For me it's simply that I've never felt dysphoric over my penis, and I love how large it is.

 

[throbbing4u]

I am thinking huge breasts but keeping my cock.

 

[deleted6505551]

Your answers are always so thoughtful, without any judgement towards anyone attached. I've learned alot from reading your comments and insight. Thank for sharing. Have a great day!

Thanks Mister. My feeling is that if I don't want to be judged it's best to not judge others. Truthfully, I really knew very little about trans people the day I realized I was one. That was a steep learning curve believe me.

Some days it's a challenge to understand myself so it seems a bit arrogant to expect anyone else to understand me. Sure, I could whine and scream when I am referred to as masculine but that's so counterproductive. I find calmly explaining who and what I am accomplishes more without all the associated drama. I've even made a few friends along the way. Now if it would just get me laid. lol

 

[B_airabella]

I have had vaginal surgery and i love it.I don't miss having a penis at all.

 

[BiAthlete]

Personally--I think TS women with penises are very sexy. I find them very attractive. I dated a black TS woman (pre-op) for almost 8 months and had a terrific time. She liked her dick and wanted no part of SRS.

But, I think many TS women wish they had a vagina instead of their dick which is certainly understandable--they want to be a "complete woman." But to me, there is nothing sexier than pulling down a pair of silk panties and seeing a thick throbbing dick. Super hot!! Peace.

That there just gets me hard !

 

[submit452]

I am keeping mine. I think the end result with SRS isn't quite where i want it to be for me to confidently say I want a Vagina. I have talked with many girls who have gotten them and I just dont think i want one. Its not really the cure for me. I mean i am happy as I am

I love you xx

 

[Bittydrew]

I'll still have mine just started hrt but just can't go thru the surgerys for it to be replaced

 

[deleted6505551]

This is a question I ask myself a lot. I think in the end I'd like a vagina but what a hard decision it is for me to say goodbye to my old friend. If I suffered real dysphoria involving my penis this would be an easy decision. But I don't and that makes the decision far more difficult.

Sometimes the thought of just spreading my legs at the drop of a hat beckons me. The idea of NOT having to do all that prep work is pretty damn attractive. But then I remember how much I love anal intercourse and I worry I might get lazy and just use the front hole all the time.

And then there is the part where I might miss out on some guy I'd really like by not having a little something extra down there. Seriously, we all know that's the attraction for many men.

In the end should Mr. Right come along and sweep me off my feet I can see this being a decision we make together.

 

[Bittydrew]

Guess this would be an update and really need the surgery now getting my hair removal all the way down there and in a few mths will be going for srs .....and can't wait for it.....exciting to me also there's a penetration issue...also just want to fit in my panties better than I do .....don't hate what i have just doesn't look like I want to with my mind.....also going for full depth......just hope some day a guy will accept me for me and not my parts....