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Hi everyone, I don't have a real question, but just wanted to hear if there are other people here in a similar situation like me, and how they navigate life in the closet. The situation I am talking about: I am in a long-term, happy, monogamous relation with a woman. I have known for quite a...

I really wanna get my cock pierced so bad lol. How much did yours cost, and what are some tips for care/cleaning/infection prevention? Does it make masturbation/topping feel good? Does it feel good for the bottom?

Hi you guys, I'm sorry in advance for the long post. I just want to be as detailed as can be. There's a summary down below if this is too much to read. I appreciate any advice etc. I can get. Thank you. ---------------------------------------------------------- My boyfriend (25M) and I (25M)...

Hi you guys, I'm sorry in advance for the long post. I just want to be as detailed as can be. There's a summary down below if this is too much to read. I appreciate any advice etc. I can get. Thank you. ---------------------------------------------------------- My boyfriend (25M) and I (25M)...

Hi all, so bit of an introduction, I'm mostly a bottom and was married some years ago and my (now ex)husband was the only guy I've slept with who made me cum handsfree just from getting fucked. I enjoy playing with dildos and do it often. When I'm hooking up with someone I'm hard pretty much the...

I’m married and my husband dislikes looking and touching me in private. In public he’ll smack my ass and whatever, but that’s basically it. These past few years I’ve gained over 100 lbs., however since then I’ve lost over 50 lbs. and he still dislike me and my body. I want to continue losing...

My foreskin is pretty tight and never retracts even when I’m fully hard (see pics below)… It’s never caused me any obvious problems with sex or jerking off and isn’t painful at all so I feel it’s ok to just accept it, but do any other guys have this “problem” and, if so, have you done anything...

Hello everyone, My name is Jamie and I've been a silent member of this community since 2016, and yes, I know... "silent" and "community" don't exactly go hand in hand. But now, I need your input and help on something. Let me explain the situation: I've been friends with this guy - lets call...

So, for any verse gay/bi men out there...I just wanna know if there's a kind of "verse cycle" that some of us may experience? Like...for me, earlier this week I felt pretty eager to bottom and that I wanted to be the more receptive partner in the relationship. I was chatting with some guys and...

Hey, guys, I've kinda been in the mood to go out and purchase some jockstraps, and I'm just wondering which brands and styles you'd recommend and just how to wear them and what looks the best. For reference, I'm about 5'4 (1.63m) and wear size small (28 in). Are there any brands that you would...

Hi, if anyone can help figure this stuff out sooner rather than later i’d really appreciate it. So i’m looking to have sex with someone/people. I know a small amount of knowledge regarding sti/std’s from what i was told the last time i was tested was that a clean person wouldn’t be able to...

Hey guys, I'll try not to type too much. I'm 24(M) in a relationship with another 24(M) for about a month, however, we'd been dating for the last 9 or so months. I'm his first boyfriend, he's my first boyfriend. I've only been experimenting with guys for about a year and some change. Up until...

Hey guys, I'll try not to type too much. I'm 24(M) in a relationship with another 24(M) for about a month, however, we'd been dating for the last 9 or so months. I'm his first boyfriend, he's my first boyfriend. I've only been experimenting with guys for about a year and some change. Up until...

So, I’ve been thinking about this long and hard and i don’t know what to do.. Basically, like over 3 years ago I went through a messy love triangle situation that left me really hurt (both of them were straight) and i’ve done my healing since. There’s still some moments of small bits of pain...

Must sound like a broken record with this. I posted in on reddit a few days ago for advice and WOW. First and last time going on there. Cut-throat. (Please be gentle!) “Gay guy here. So last year I added a straight guy on Facebook who I saw at a friend’s wedding a few days earlier. Totally...

Really debated posting this but I feel I have nobody else to talk to about it and it's driving me insane and completely consuming my thoughts. So me and my best friend have known eachother about 18 years now. I'm openly bisexual and have been for a number of years now and he was actually the...

I need help. I’m not that good at flirting and I need some advice from this community! So, I’m 30 and I’m finishing my degree. In one networking event/conference, I met a guy that works in the industry and helped me with my portfolio. I sensed some kind of flirting going on, but the event ended...

Hey everyone, I'll try to make a long story short. I'm 23M and have been bisexual for as long as I can remember. However, I've only started experimenting with guys about a year ago. Up until January 2023 I had been too scared to try anything with a guy. I'd never dated a guy, romantically liked...

Hey you guys, I'll try to make a long story short. I'm 23M and have been bisexual for as long as I can remember. However, I've only started experimenting with guys about a year ago. Up until January 2023 I had been too scared to try anything with a guy. I'd never dated a guy, romantically liked...

I have a coworker that I have previously turned down but i enjoy teasing him and he’s still into it. We now pretend we’re not into each other but we both know it’s a lie. We work in retail so I want to know things I can do to get him horny whilst also being discreet and acting innocent. (He’s...

Has anyone on here ever found themselves being sexually selfish? Hopefully that’s the right term for what I have in mind. But if so, what did you do to overcome it? I have a (bad) habit of wanting to pack up and leave once I meet up with someone and bust one. Prior to us meeting, I’m full of...

I'm sorry for the long post in advance, but I could really use some advice right because I just don't feel good at all. I can't remember the last time I've felt this way. I'm (24M) bisexual and have never dated a guy until a couple of months ago. Honestly, this was the year (Late January) that...

I'm sorry for the long post in advance, but I could really use some advice right because I just don't feel good at all. I can't remember the last time I've felt this way. I'm (24M) bisexual and have never dated a guy until a couple of months ago. Honestly, this was the year (Late January) that...

For videos of a femboy (me) riding a dildo, what camera view do people prefer?

I've always been sexually attracted to dudes. I've just never called it "attraction". I went to an all-boys high school, and I would get the butterflies whenever I saw a good-looking classmate of mine. I've never acted on those feelings, because I again I didn't know that it was an attraction...

Hi I’d like to start cruising at urinals and understall but I got not much experience. I’d love a teacher or someone to give me advice, visuals and feedback. I’m in Canada QC that would help also. You can send me messages also if you want Thanks in advance

Hello, after struggling even worse than usual for the past year or so with tight foreskin, and trying steroid creams and stretching, the doctors have basically said I need to get cut. I’m debating the stapler method and would appreciate any advice from anyone who’s been cut later in life...

Both myself and my coworker (I'll call him M) are openly gay. M started working in my department roughly 5 months ago. We started talking casually about work and then moved things over to telegram (messaging). We started talking daily and eventually hung out one on one a few times as well as...

Add me on snap: Jordzy07 The more people I get, maybe around 10, the group will be made and the link will be posted. Looking for guys between the ages of 25-40. Fit or somewhat fit, making their way into working out. We’ll allow discussions about: -turn ons -sharing pics and giving compliments...

Lately I've been experiencing some deep disdain for my penis size (I'm roughly 5-6 inches) and it's led to me having a lot of penis envy and jealously toward guys that are well-hung. It feels unfair quite frankly. It's like some guys hit the genetic lottery (big dick, great body, great face) and...