Any new massage stories?

[fluidyogi]

It had been several weeks since I had a massage with my travel and work schedule getting in the way. Landed in one of the old hometowns where I've struggled to find a good therapist, but as Ive written here before, did link up with a guy who I knew from highschool. A solid B grade massage, usually, and I have really worked on the whole draping protocols with him over time. He still seems to want to have some coverage when he works my back and glutes, exposing what he needs to from under the towel as needed. While still a bit shy, he has become more liberal with the glute exposure,and Im sure he can see my taint and balls while working the area. What i find totally curious is that he doesnt seem to give a shit when Im flipped. the towel gets dislodged totally, and my dick and balls are frequently exposed. I usually never bone, not that kinda vibe with him. Until this week. I actually sprung a nice meaty semi that was hard to miss. I caught him taking a good look at it. Even after the massage he seems more comfy with me casually nude and getting dressed, no longer averts his eyes. No earth shattering point to the post, just that with familiarity and comfort, it's nice to have a safe nude space with no weirdness.

 

[Braunlow]

It had been several weeks since I had a massage with my travel and work schedule getting in the way. Landed in one of the old hometowns where I've struggled to find a good therapist, but as Ive written here before, did link up with a guy who I knew from highschool. A solid B grade massage, usually, and I have really worked on the whole draping protocols with him over time. He still seems to want to have some coverage when he works my back and glutes, exposing what he needs to from under the towel as needed. While still a bit shy, he has become more liberal with the glute exposure,and Im sure he can see my taint and balls while working the area. What i find totally curious is that he doesnt seem to give a shit when Im flipped. the towel gets dislodged totally, and my dick and balls are frequently exposed. I usually never bone, not that kinda vibe with him. Until this week. I actually sprung a nice meaty semi that was hard to miss. I caught him taking a good look at it. Even after the massage he seems more comfy with me casually nude and getting dressed, no longer averts his eyes. No earth shattering point to the post, just that with familiarity and comfort, it's nice to have a safe nude space with no weirdness.

I think he will be much more comfortable with you as time goes on. That's precisely what happened to me and my regular masseur who comes to my house. He is an older very straight man who grew up in the days of modesty, fearing that even the most innocent brush by my genitals could result in arrest. So, I always draped a towel over me to respect his feelings. If he should have accidentally come in contact with my penis, he would immediately pull back and not get near the area. After a few months, he grew very comfortable with me, realizing that I would never turn him in, so he settled down. If he would occasionally come in contact with my penis ( which is always erect during massages), he no longer jerks his hand away. As a matter of fact, I have gotten rid of the towel, resulting in totally nude massages, with my erection sticking straight up. While on my stomach, I place it between my legs and he always grazes it with his hands as he moves up the thighs. He has often gotten some precum on his fingers, but doesn't seem to care. Your situation might take a bit longer, since you were hs acquaintances, but the comfort with the nudity aspect will gradually win out. Good luck and have fun.

 

[BlackBearCognac]

I think he will be much more comfortable with you as time goes on. That's precisely what happened to me and my regular masseur who comes to my house. He is an older very straight man who grew up in the days of modesty, fearing that even the most innocent brush by my genitals could result in arrest. So, I always draped a towel over me to respect his feelings. If he should have accidentally come in contact with my penis, he would immediately pull back and not get near the area. After a few months, he grew very comfortable with me, realizing that I would never turn him in, so he settled down. If he would occasionally come in contact with my penis ( which is always erect during massages), he no longer jerks his hand away. As a matter of fact, I have gotten rid of the towel, resulting in totally nude massages, with my erection sticking straight up. While on my stomach, I place it between my legs and he always grazes it with his hands as he moves up the thighs. He has often gotten some precum on his fingers, but doesn't seem to care. Your situation might take a bit longer, since you were hs acquaintances, but the comfort with the nudity aspect will gradually win out. Good luck and have fun.

Out of curiosity what country do you live in?

 

[Braunlow]

Out of curiosity what country do you live in?

US

 

[fluidyogi]

US

I have actually found the older guys (Im thinking those in the 50 -65 range) have less hangups than the younger guys regarding nudity, touch, masculinity....I know that's off topic from this thread, but some of the younger guys ive interacted with are just really uptight on those fronts.

 

[fluidyogi]

So we all know that social media/big tech is pretty much reading our minds these days. So this excellent vid popped up on my yt feed recently. I think it's worth a watch. We all have different motives, needs and intentions when it comes to touch, and specifically massage. For me, massage has helped/ is helping me to get past traumas and shocks to my system that happened in slow motion as a late teen/ early adult. I deffo used and abused it as a crutch at different times, but also as a tool for exploration and I dare say 'healing'. It has also lead me to three incredible friendships with therapists who became my bros, and now there really is no massage in the picture between us.

Interested to hear how massage has helped other members on their journeys...

 

[Braunlow]

For me, massage allows me to fulfill a few " needs" in my life without the pure sex. It's a somewhat sexual atmosphere, but does not mean that one needs to orgasm. For me, it's the idea of a clothed man touching my naked body in very intimate areas; I give myself up to them and their hands. I have always had jobs in which I was responsible for making decisions all of the time. Massage allows me to surrender to someone else. I even wear a blindfold so I can't see where his hands are going next; I just relax and let him make all the decisions. I love it when the masseur brushes it or moves it out of the way. With one masseur, I move it out of the way, but rub it gently as he is working in that area. Secondly, it helps me and my exhibitionistic tendencies. I love being naked and being seen. Lying on a massage table, knowing that someone is looking at my erect penis or ass, is exciting to me, especially if it is the first time with that masseur. And, of course, it is relaxing and the best way to guarantee sleep. So, for me, it's both psychological and physical. Some people smoke or drink or gamble. I spend money on massages.

 

[fluidyogi]

Beautiful...

 

[BlackBearCognac]

US

Hmm. The reason why I asked is because you mentioned "result in arrest" or "turn him in".

Unless you're underage, where would that be an issue in the US?

 

[Braunlow]

Hmm. The reason why I asked is because you mentioned "result in arrest" or "turn him in".

Unless you're underage, where would that be an issue in the US?

There might be some people who would take even the slightest hand-to-genital contact as a "sexual assault." He even mentioned that early on when I told him not to worry if he came in contact. As I said, after a while he totally stopped worrying and now there is pretty regular contact, which makes the massage even more sensuous, sexually stimulating, and ultimately relaxing.

 

[fluidyogi]

Any recommendations for a decent massage in northern Cali ?

 

[BlackBearCognac]

There might be some people who would take even the slightest hand-to-genital contact as a "sexual assault." He even mentioned that early on when I told him not to worry if he came in contact. As I said, after a while he totally stopped worrying and now there is pretty regular contact, which makes the massage even more sensuous, sexually stimulating, and ultimately relaxing.

Ah ok, that makes sense.

 

[MrNoOne]

Got a massage from my LMT yesterday and it was a straight up DOOZY

Start off normal, fun chit chat, she's on my shoulders and back. I had taken like 30mg of generic cialis the afternoon day before because of a sex event I had to be really hard for, a lot of times, that night. So the shit was still working by midday for my massage. Not a worry though, I've taken stuff like this before my massages with her and not really gotten hard. Then the conversation took a serious turn towards the sexual side that made me get a massive semi laying on my stomach and I was squirming hard!!

She brought up how tight and locked up a particular muscle in my groin was in my previous massage a few weeks ago, left side. (If you read my last story, this was where she was going to town at the base of my cock and next to my perineum and was commenting how tight I was and I was rock hard, heart racing, thinking she was going to go for it and stroke up my shaft...) And I said yah I was really tight there, what's the deal?

She recounted a story of working on a guy who was also tight somewhere else maybe close by the same area, and she said as she worked on him he said he had a weird sensation in his groin/genitals and couldn't place the feeling but said, as she told me, "he said he felt like his balls were going to explode." THEN she proceeds to tell me that she asked if he'd want a perineal massage, which she told me (as if I didn't know!!!) was massage of the perineum between the anus and testicles. Dude said sure he'd give it a try as he was uncomfortable, and she did it and she said he had a lot of relief and when he got off the table he felt lighter and didn't have the same lower back tightness he'd had for months anymore.

She then told me that she got a license/certificate to do it because her teacher where she became an LMT offered it, and, prostate massage. I hear this and my cock literally grew 3 sizes in a second. HOLY FUCK a prostate massage, can I get one?!?! I've had lots of massages before, probably a few hundred, by just a handful of people, and I've never imagined my LMT telling me THIS as I'm on THEIR table. She said prostate massage is reserved mostly for really old men with "problems down there" and I said yah I know what those problems are, and she said I don't have those due to age, but maybe perineal massage would work for me if I was interested. I told her maybe, decide when you're down there...

She also mentioned that the guy was so into it he asked her if it was something he could request from other LMTs. She said most aren't qualified in this massage. Plus, she told me that she "literally has to move all the anatomy around and hold it and massage it, like I have to spread your balls apart to get access to the pelvic floor muscles [and she named them], so its very hands on and your other LMTs might think you're asking for a handy! I'm not giving that, and they won't either, you don't want them thinking your being sketchy or a creep." I agreed kind of laughing and she said "yah, no handies I'm not doing that!" But we were laughing about it

She works my glutes, right side is fucked up. Then right leg she's all on my dick and balls tucking the sheet under my left leg and apologizes as I move so she can get under there. Massage on my leg starts the blood flowing again as I wonder what this perineal massage will be like and how hands-on it really is. Then left side isn't bad at all, but there's cross over, so if my right glutes are fucked then my left hip, leg and groin will be too, and she said its like that every time I see her.

She flips me and starts on my left quads and I start to get hard. The medicine works so well, and she's way up at the base of my cock, its moving around jumping a lot. I also just had a sheet on me, not a blanket too, so I glanced down and it was easy to see outline of my hard on, really easy. She said my right side in my groin wasn't so bad. She dropped my leg off the table, which is so good the stretch is amazing(!!!), and said look you're all loose now, and my cock fell down and was hanging really low I know it wasn't held in the sheet anymore and then she said "yah you're REALLY loose now!" Damn! She stretched my leg really good my ass and balls were out in the air again as usual, she is seeing everything no doubt.

Left side, and yah I'm jacked up. I'm so tight left side I was jumping. Cock is semi, and precum is dabbing the sheet and as she works me I feel it touching me in different places as she moves the sheet around. She's way way up in my groin, the spot where the inside of your quads, the tight band, that meets your groin where your perineum is, it was like a hot coal was in there. She couldn't break it up. Base of my cock left side, same as last massage. She said "you're a candidate for perineal massage" I said ok give it a try and she asked again if I was okay with it and I said "sure do your worst, or best!" She said she's only ever given it to that one guy she told me about, since it literally makes her stroke the penis balls and taint (my words here for time's sake lol) and to not be mad if it doesn't work. I was rock fucking hard at this point my cock just was and I worried she wouldn't be able to do it or would stop because I was hard and the muscles wouldn't be the way they should be, since perineum muscles comprise the root deep base of the erect penis.

She fully exposes my balls and perineum, spread my legs a good bit, and drapes my cock with the sheet and picked it up and moved it so it was straight up at my belly button. So, she grabbed my hard on. She gets lotion on her hands, and starts gently massaging with upward strokes my perineum, she's almost at my anus, and is pulling up right hand, left hand, right hand, left hand over and over and over and pulling up over my scrotum. This is heaven I'm thinking, its not only therapeutic, but it feels so good its very sexual in the touch of it. My balls are spreading to either side really far and my cock is surging, its so hard and then she strokes all the way up at least halfway up my shaft. I had to say through heavy breathing/panting and laughing "I'm so sorry I'm sorry I'm excited I can't help it its just happening!!!!" And she shrugged it off "oh don't worry don't be sorry I know it happens, but to do this massage right I have to go all the way up the shaft" and she said that and I felt precum rocket from deep in my perineum through my erection and it made my stomach wet. Then she did this move with both hands at the base of my cock that was almost uncomfortable, she needed more lotion it wasn't wet enough, where she pressed down with both hands and moved one hand down my perineum towards my ass and other hand up my hard shaft, over and over, then the upward strokes and more pressure on my perineum, then the 'split' move at base of cock, then she did harder side to side movements pressing against my perineum. I actually started to lose my hard on, and it was instant relief, and it lasted maybe a few minutes. It felt like a century, I didn't want it to end!!! I nearly had a prostate orgasm from this too.

I told her it felt amazing and she said she felt the muscles in my perineum relax a lot and when she worked on my groin again it was completely loose and it has not been the last several massages, it actually worked!!! She was very happy that she gave me the perineal massage and said I'm a perfect candidate for it, and thanked me since she's only ever done it one other time before me, and she will do it again as I need it, which will likely be every massage lol My groin was loose and she was working left side again and my cock was a good semi at this point and laying to my left side as it lost wood and every stroke in and up into my groin at base of penis I felt my penis flop around and go up and then land on the outside of her hand, which started to make it hard again, and just as I neared full erection she stopped, but my semi grew and was laying on her hand a lot during this last movement.

She dropped left leg off table and it was amazing, I got further than ever, my range of motion is improved, and she thinks all the tense and tight shit going on left side groin has been my problem all these weeks, maybe months, she speculated even years. She started talking about perineum anatomy, how it works, why it worked for me, and prostate massage and how she gives it what the clinical steps are, and an old guy 70+ scheduled with her for it but backed out since he hadn't seen her before, but his doctor said he needs it he's blocked up, as she said, "older men who have problems ejaculating or even peeing need this massage for relief" and I told her "sorry this is way personal, but I am very familiar with prostate massage and know how beneficial it is, and how good it can feel too!" She laughed but congratulated me for being so open and cool with stuff like that because "younger men need to know more about this and not be scared of it because it can prevent problems later in life and keep you healthy 'down there' longer so you have better function for longer." I said yah, my shit works really, really well!!! And that I don't need prostate massage although it would probably be great and feel really good and she said she only worked on old men in training in school for it. She said "my mom was a hippy so I'm all into this natural remedy stuff" and I said yah I'm way into the same kinds of things too

She finished with my arms which needed it. She worked on me for like 2hrs 20 minutes. It was amazing. When I got off the table precum was pouring out of me, I needed a tissue! As I stepped down I felt so light, all this tension I normally feel from walking was gone. I then realized even laying on the table as she did my arms, I couldn't feel my legs or glutes as much, like the weight of my body wasn't "on them" like normal, and my steps on the floor were light and I felt airy.

Oh before she finished she said she ran out of time and said "I can't give you head this time" and then we laughed as I said "THAT'S WHAT SHE SAID!!" and she said "no, I can't DO your head, whoops yah not that other thing!" This chick is SO FUN OMGGGGGGGGGGG

So yah, basically she knows how thick and hard my cock gets, she did a massage technique that requires massaging "up the shaft" as she put it, and she worked my taint in ways no one, not even my wife, ever has before. She said to show my wife how to do this massage to me, but my LMT is already so good at it, I'll see lol She was adamant that she does NOT give handjobs and this massage is not a license to ask for one when talking about the other guy she did it to. I will not be asking for a handjob, I really like what she's doing to me, it is erotic and pleasurable but also extremely therapeutic and is helping my body ailments in ways nothing has ever worked before. As I write this sitting at my desk I can feel how much release I got yesterday. (Well, I was so keyed up after my massage I had to shop for food right after and as soon as groceries were put away I ran back to the room we have designated for sex, got my fleshlight and dock set up, lubed up, and fucked it hard for a few minutes and fired off a few shots good distance and man I needed that it was super relieving!!! It was very "ahhhhhhhhhh!!!" worthy!!)

This is the best massage situation/set up I could've ever dreamed of, how did I luck out with this random LMT?!?!! I see her in 10 days, I cannot wait!!! Thanks again for reading y'all!

Dude! What an experience! Thanks for sharing

 

[techpump]

I scheduled a mobile home massage with my LMT for next week, and its going to be "prostate massage and milking" as she put it in a text message, with lots of standard massage leading up to it. She basically told me that from now on I need to tell her "exactly what I want" and she'll provide. She's also not charging me the extra money she would charge for both the prostate massage and handjob/milking because I'm a regular client, so I'm getting all these goodies and I just pay what I'd normally pay for a normal massage from her. Wow how is this happening to me?!?!? I'm starting to think she kinda digs me and thinks I'm very cool and also not weird or creepy, and that she's built up a lot of trust and comfort in me. I can barely stand the wait till next week, she's going to make me have a lot of prostate Os and my final release will surely be beyond belief and one I'll always remember.

BUT what's amazing about all of this is that I can get this anytime I want it, its just going to be part of her standard massage practice with me from now on!!

I'm going to ask if we even need a sheet covering me anymore considering she jerked me off last time, and we're doing prostate massage and more handjob this time coming up. I'll ask nicely and see, maybe she'll ditch the sheet, I think she's crazy comfy with me by now. If so, it'll be so nice

I'll update after this massage goes down, I'm sure it'll be unbelievable and beyond memorable.

 

[Brettdude3]

For me, massage allows me to fulfill a few " needs" in my life without the pure sex. It's a somewhat sexual atmosphere, but does not mean that one needs to orgasm. For me, it's the idea of a clothed man touching my naked body in very intimate areas; I give myself up to them and their hands. I have always had jobs in which I was responsible for making decisions all of the time. Massage allows me to surrender to someone else. I even wear a blindfold so I can't see where his hands are going next; I just relax and let him make all the decisions. I love it when the masseur brushes it or moves it out of the way. With one masseur, I move it out of the way, but rub it gently as he is working in that area. Secondly, it helps me and my exhibitionistic tendencies. I love being naked and being seen. Lying on a massage table, knowing that someone is looking at my erect penis or ass, is exciting to me, especially if it is the first time with that masseur. And, of course, it is relaxing and the best way to guarantee sleep. So, for me, it's both psychological and physical. Some people smoke or drink or gamble. I spend money on massages.

I’ve never heard of a blindfold or mask being available during a massage. Would love that.

 

[Braunlow]

I’ve never heard of a blindfold or mask being available during a massage. Would love that.

I bring my own.

 

[Ben Tramer]

There’s an old video that’s been around forever with a middle-aged guy on his back on a massage table with a chick giving him a handjob and he nonchalantly begins shooting several volleys that go way over his head and land on the wall several feet behind the him and the table. She’s impressed with the huge mess he makes and that she caused. I love that video as I have a fetish for men who can shoot like that and it’s a tremendous turnon to see the splats of semen all over the wall and to think a guy is capable of producing and ejaculating so forcefully.

 

[techpump]

Prostate massage and handjob finisher complete!! My god this LMT of mine, she's an open and frisky fun lady for sure

The usual massage, but at my place, it was extra fun. I asked if I could lose the sheet but forgot to say something before she already draped it on the table and said if I get hot/warm later I could lose it. I thought about it, but wound up leaving it. So next time I'll probably try to get a full naked massage no cover since she's fine with it.

Now that the ice has been shattered with the handjob last massage, it was like full on sex talk and discussion. All we pretty much did was talk about sex. Her libido, the sex she's having now with her boyfriend and FWB, her experiences with masturbation early on (and naivete lol), her love of male genitalia, skinny dipping adventures this summer with her girlfriends, and we talked about the drugs we like to do and doing them in regards to sex. She even talked about her clit, and what she thinks about the appearance of her vulva! Talk about 'open discussion' my fucking god. Some of the most fun discussion about fun topics I've had with nearly anyone ever, especially in the last year or two!

Turns out she thinks my cock is perfect, and is "a classic penis" for her, she said its the penis that would be the model for "penis jewelry like necklaces that have penises on them, or if you made a penis cake, it would be a cake modeled after yours" to which I was flattered beyond belief! She said its perfect sized, gorgeous, big but not monstrous, and not deformed or sad looking lol Said all this on my stomach on the table, and all the loose talk left me lying in a precum puddle. When it was time to flip over I told her "I'm in a puddle I'm sorry about that" she asked if I was sweating and I said "no, I'm leaking! I'm excited" and she remarked "that's a compliment for me, then, and what can you do, you're very healthy."

Again, since she made me cum last massage, everything she normally does she did this time too but there's this 'understanding' between us now and it all took a way more sexual/sensual overtone than normal. I had to admit all the cues/clues and things we've both said in previous massages in regards to me being hard, or her massaging the base of my hard on, or my precum explosions, etc. and we had some great laughs over all the miscues, confusions, and everything related. She thought this was all really fun stuff. When she got in my groin I could feel my bladder and I said "I have to pee or this won't be good for me or you" and she said okay and kind of turned to check messages from her daughter, and I just got up naked, peed, and came back and she kinda watched me, but there's no embarrassment or need to cover up...she gave me a handjob last time, so whatever! It was liberating and felt good to be so naked in front of an LMT; in the past I'd have to let whoever I was seeing leave the room, I'd have to get dressed if there was no robe, then go to the bathroom, then back to room undress and get set up again, huge waste of time. At home I just popped off the table ran to bathroom peed and came right back. Home massage is so worth it!

After she worked my groin a lot, and made me hard a few times, to which she was happy about, it came time for the prostate, perineum and cock milking, and while I thought I'd have my knees up so she could get inside me better, she said she could do it with my knees supported by the pillow still. (I brought out my Astroglide gel my preferred anal lube, and showed her and she laughed and pulled out the same bottle from her kit?! I said great minds think alike and she winked lol) I didn't think she'd be able to get deep enough to engage my prostate so I raised my legs a little so she could. Instantly it was a full on wet massage of everything, she tickled my anus and was so gentle yet forceful enough inside me to bring me to a few hands-free prostate orgasms, but she was working my perineum and cock back and forth with her other hand, so it was just this intense furious stimulation event on everything down there. I've never felt such blended stimulation, so much of it, all at the same time before and it was actually too much for me to handle. I was hard and as she jerked me several different ways she'd go deep in my ass and then shallow, it was teasing and edging but her intent was to make me cum super hard. After a few minutes and a few nice prostate Os I told her I'm not going to cum if she's in my ass its all too much stimulation and I can't get there, I was close but not there. She took her gloves off and then it was cock focus time and she gave me an even more intense and wild handjob than last massage, and worked me up until my legs were shaking uncontrollably, used both hands on me, and when I came it was shooting out super thick pretty good all over her hands and wrists and the sheet draped just over my torso. She made me cum my fucking brains out, and I got to be loud and vocal at home, which she liked a lot. She said "woooowww that's a lot, and look you're super healthy" in context of the color of my cum, bright white she said. I haven't cum in 4 days and it was like I hadn't cum in 14 days when I finally popped and I came for a pretty long time although she stopped stroking before my full O was over, it was too much cum she had to clean up pretty fast lol

I was completely drained. I mean I could almost not move. I really wanted full release with her finger stroking my prostate, but we can work on that another time, I was a little nervous because I wasn't sure what to expect or how it would all feel. Plus, another person other than me or my wife playing in my ass like that was very new and different! She was happy to see how much cum I produce, she was impressed by it all, and that it was so white, whereas she said if its yellow it means that urine is crystallizing in the prostate and its not getting out of your body properly, which leads to health problems. She said I'm clear and don't need to worry I think next massage I'll go to her studio and save the extra charge for home visit and just get a handjob instead of prostate massage, and save prostate work for special occasions.

I think I could ask her if she'd give me a blowjob, she said she was sorry to hear I don't get them that good anymore from my wife due to my wife's medical/cancer complications and what its done to her mouth and throat, and that I can get head but its nowhere near what it was. She commented that she loves giving head and thinks she's pretty good at it. I want to ask if I can find out how good she is. My wife said I can get a blowjob if I'm able to like at a strip club VIP room, etc. stuff like that, so I figure why not at least ask my LMT about it?! She admitted she's horny all the damn time and wishes she could have sex every day, whereas she doesn't get that from her boyfriend or FWB, who is on the fritz and she likely won't be fucking him anymore due to new situations he's in. As bad as I want sex and need it all the fucking time, daily if possible, I don't think I could have sex with my LMT that's going too far. But handys and BJs maybe would be something I could handle. My wife knows how high my libido is and always has been and she cannot keep up anymore. My wife is getting more busy though, the HRT is working better now, and wants to try to have sex more often (so long as these weird periods finally stop coming at random times, so annoying!). I told my LMT I only get to have sex like 2-4 times a month tops and I actually want it every single day, and she said she's the same way. Yikes!!! Wish me luck y'all with asking for more favors!!!

 

[DBrady]

Any recommendations for a decent massage in northern Cali ?

Nor cal here too. Let me know if you get any good recommendations

 

[techpump]

Related to my experiences with my LMT for those of you following along, she had mentioned she loves getting dick pics because she really is obsessed with the male penis and thinks its just beyond belief amazing. I told her "yah I can tell you really know the male anatomy back and forth" and she said she can't help it, she's addicted to penises, she loves really good looking ones, to which she said mine was "perfect."

So yesterday I booked another appt with her soon, and told her I need her to give me release again from cock milking, and she is excited to do it to me again. So I thought about it and asked if she wouldn't be bothered with me sending pics of my cock to her. I post my pics here on lpsg, I love the compliments I've received over the years, I just like showing it off because its a good looking penis! So as an appreciation of penis thing, I figured I should send her pics. She said "I never turn down a good dp" and sent her a few good pics of my erection, and she said again its "perfect" and "if you weren't married I'd sit on it".

Looks like she wants to fuck me for real. The problem is, yes I am really happily married, and she knows it, and sounds like she doesn't want to be a home wrecker or fuck up something I have that's really great. My problem is is that I'm not getting really any sex much at all anymore, it is quite dry over here, maybe 2 times a month on average, and at that, just a few minutes is all my wife's pussy can handle. We spend so much time warming her up, she even gets extremely wet, but I stretch her out regardless. She cums so many times so powerfully from PIV too, and after an O or two she opens up and it feels better, she lubricates inside more, etc.. But then she literally can't have sex again for about a week. And if she starts these weird HRT-induced periods, or is too tired, or I'm out of town, etc., we miss a window to get another sex session in. My wife is very hot for it when sex is a part of the agenda, she'll dress up in lingerie and she's a fucking hot little minx in it too, bodystockings, she'll do her hair, she's into it. She loves erotica and can't even make it past the first sex scene before she's running to get ready in the shower so she can make out with me. Sex is amazing when it happens. But I need it all the time. And I feel like I'm becoming less of a man, I'm losing my drive and my spirit, my essence, a lot of what makes me feel like a human being and a person, a lot of that is fading away each month that passes with very little sex. Sex is so fulfilling with my wife, I'd do her many times a day and never think about anything or anyone else, it would never get old its never been old its amazing every single time and has been for almost 25 years now.

But its so exciting to be desired like this by a different woman. I've never had a woman I know come right out like this and say she would fuck me right now. I've had women come on to me don't get me wrong, even throwing their tongue down my throat when I wasn't looking, literally, tongue down my throat against my will! Or "hey come spend the night if you ever want to" shit like that. But this LMT of mine, she's way into my cock and has gotten me off twice now, hard, and its really amazing stuff. She has a boyfriend and a FWB but isn't getting enough from either. I know she'd be a really hot and fun fuck for sure, she's quite naughty and saucy in attitude and discussion, and I know its not all talk.

This is challenging!! At the end of the day I just can't have sex with another woman, although I never have experienced any other woman except my wife, she's been my only sex partner (outside of some fun I've had with a transwoman sanctioned and approved by my wife, but that's a completely different thing altogether) that's a woman. My wife has told me I could get a blowjob if the occasion arises because she knows I love them, its not sex and its not making love and has no love attached to it, and my wife can't give me head like she used to due to complications from surgeries and bad lifelong dry mouth now. I think I could get a BJ from my LMT, I think she probably wants to give me one if she already admitted to me that she wants to ride my cock. But would a BJ lead to more, would it lead to full on sex? I'm into the pleasuring aspect of it, the service part of it, and she is horny as fuck and wants to fuck every day like clockwork, and I'm that way too. This could be dangerous! I'm a bit confused over it and need to work on this over time.

I just had to put this out there on this thread since its related to the work my LMT is doing to and with me lately. Things have escalated every time I've seen her. I don't expect things to slow down unless I put the brakes on.