Are Guys More Comfortable Naked In The Locker Room Than They Used To Be?

[dom1000]

One of the reasons why I am writing these essays about college guys is that there has been a tendency in our culture to demonise or vilify young men. While society of course needs to teach boys the need for consent and proper boundaries, I feel we have gone too far in shaming (if there is, indeed, ever an acceptable reason to shame a whole class of people). We should ask these kids to cultivate respect for others while also celebrating the male sex drive, in all of its danger, vehemence and inexhaustible power. After all, beauty and terror are often found together; we need to learn to ride the great wave, and not to deny it.



To put it more bluntly: do we want college boys to stop being horny? I’ve seen hundreds of erections in the locker room! Most of them were semi-hard or half boners, but the point is that irrepressible sexuality is a key part of post-adolescent, college male psychology. By teaching college boys to love themselves properly, as representatives of the generative principle, the primeval creative power, or the father-force, we can help these kids grow into dynamic, fulfilled and loving men.



Another thing I wanted to say is that I use the terms “kids” and “boys” a lot to emphasize the youthful orientation and thought-processes of college guys. Hence, what particularly interests me is the idea of sexual precocity in college kids. By “sexual precocity” I am referring to college boys who, in spite of their youth and relative sexual inexperience, manifest remarkable, even preternatural ability and aptitude for lovemaking. I feel, strongly, that college guys’ prowess in bed can be inferred from their behavior, speech and mannerisms in the locker room, in their various states of undress. To quote from one of my recent posts in “For the love of college boys” thread:

“If we can listen to these kids, learn about their lives, and understand how their antics in the locker room often translate into excitement and drama between the sheets, I feel we can achieve a superior locker room experience.”



Thanks for bearing with me!



I’d like to present two new case studies. I’m using different templates for them because I’m trying emphasize certain things for each boy. (One study includes headers, the other does not)





ANDREW:







Andrew is a first year graduate student, with close-cut, dark brown hair, about five eleven and about one hundred and eighty pounds. He wrestled as an undergrad, and has put on a little weight since then but is still handsome and well-muscled. He has dark brown eyes and a quick, winning smile. He doesn’t talk much, but always gives me an enthusiastic “hi” and a stinging high-five. He does not use the stalls which is wise because he has a great body. Like many college men, he usually smiles when he’s in the shower. He finds his own nudity affirmative.



The first time I saw him in the shower, the locker room was busy with lots of showering dudes, athletes and professors. He was showering next to a tech major I happen to know. The tech major is a little pudgy, with a lot of body hair and a big penis. I saw Andrew had a semi-erection, just at the very limit of public acceptability. I knew he was trying to make himself a little bigger so as not to get owned by some STEM major! It was an active, inquisitive penis. He turned around a lot, and quickly, showing both his firm ass and his large, swollen penis to advantage. Other times, he just stood motionless, sometimes lathering and rinsing himself with quick, brisk movements, smiling and carefree. Obviously public showering was a source of satisfaction for him.



The other time I saw Andrew in the shower it was just me and him. He was looking down in the shower, facing the wall. He gripped his penis, just above the balls, and then moved his fist up the shaft, up to and over the head, and let it drop. He wasn’t washing it, and he wasn’t really masturbating, necessarily. It’s just a kind of self-touching that guys with big dongers engage in. They are asserting that, yes, this is my penis, it’s part of my identity and I’m proud to be a man.





ANALYTICS



BEST FEATURE

Andrew’s best feature was his penis, definitely. But he has a muscular chest, a flat stomach and firm buttocks.



ANDREW’S RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS PENIS

I think he has a great relationship with his penis. It’s important for college men to be on good terms with their private beauty. He touched it and appreciated it.



ANDREW UNDER THE COVERS



Let’s base our conclusions on the fact that Andrew was so unconstrained in the shower! He turned around a lot, joyfully showed off and touched himself, got a partial erection, and smiled affirmatively. This is a guy who likes sex! I can see him trying lots of sexual positions, as well as experimenting with sex toys, BDSM and even anal sex with other guys. It would take a lot to tame this bronco! He’d be especially good at getting his dick sucked- lots of moaning and squirming.







SUMMARY

To sum up, Andrew is a handsome, sexy and sex-positive young man with a sunny, outgoing disposition who’s also a daredevil when it comes to making love. His ideal partner would be someone who’s fine with rough, quirky and frequent sex. Any takers??!!







CAMERON:



Cameron, a recently graduated senior, is one of the trainers at the gym. A strong, sensitive type with a private beauty that he’s pretty shy about showing.



I’ve written about a lot of college guys. Some of them have had problems or issues, but it’s their so-called issues or challenges that I find makes them more attractive. For example, Evan has a small penis, but has found ways to express his masculinity through art, scholarship and service; he’s found ways to express his manhood in higher, more abstract ways that contribute to society. Apollo has a large, uncircumcised penis, and is poor, and so relies on his big penis to reinforce his sense of self-worth in an unwelcoming and unfamiliar environment. Spencer has Asperger’s, and so has trouble communicating with others, and has learned to find fellowship and belonging in the company of other naked boys.



Cameron struggles with a sense of insecurity and feelings of unworthiness. He’s quite bright academically, has always worked very hard and has a partial (very partial!) scholarship to a prestigious school. He’s a good listener, and if I ever need to talk, will stop his work out and tilt his head to one side. He likes firm handshakes, sometimes he’ll even hold onto my hand for a few seconds, squeezing, as if trying to inject me with his affection and concern. It works!



He’s a big guy, 6’1’’ 200 lbs, with hazel eyes and a lot of definition in both his upper and lower body. He’s a power lifter, a former high school baseball player, and he’s studying chemistry and economics. He wants to be a medical researcher or health care consultant. When Cameron was a freshman, he had a delicate, almost feminine beauty in spite of his muscles. He’s bulked up a little bit now! He still has some of that grace in his movements.



Cameron is polite, reserved and very kind. He’ll often spot for me or walk me through the steps of proper lifting technique. I’ve had a lot of deep conversations with him in the sauna.



He has one of the largest penises I have ever seen on an undergraduate. It was so large that I had the experience of not knowing what it was the first time I saw it. I was showering, and Cameron was walking towards me in his white towel. He was maybe twenty feet away when he took off his towel. At first I was confused. I thought it was some rolled up blanket that he was using to cover his manhood.



Then I realized it actually was his manhood.



A second later, he was so close to me that I couldn’t see his whole penis, so I took a couple steps back and saw that he was indeed circumcised. He had the beginnings of chest hair, clearly defined abdominal muscles, and a perfectly hard ass. His balls were wobbly and hung almost as low as his glans. I’m happy he didn’t shave them.



It was soon after my car accident and I was wincing from my injuries. He looked at me, a serious and compassionate look on his face. He saw I was in pain. He didn’t know the other reason I was wincing!



Cameron didn’t show off his body very often. He was very conscientious about going to and from the showers in his towel, and he changed quickly. Sometimes he would march, almost sprint, from the sauna to the showers in the nude, but they were just twenty feet away from each other. He was shy about his masculine beauty.



By removing his towel some twenty feet away from me, and allowing me to see him fully naked, Cameron was making a couple different statements. First of all, while I don’t tell the guys that I am gay, I have a very obvious gay intonation and hand gestures, mannerisms, etc. I am sure he knows I am gay. By taking off his towel, Cameron was telling me that he accepts me for what I am, and he’s asking me to accept him also. Also, he saw that I had just been in a bad accident (I don’t want to go into it) and was in pain, so he was promising me, on a subliminal level, that he would protect me. The penis is not just pleasure; it is also duty. He was pledging his friendship and loyalty to me. I was not only aroused and excited, but also moved.



He didn’t show his penis to everyone, but he showed it to me. That’s why I call Cameron not only a hunk, but a man.

I loved reading every word. Very well written.

 

[trackjock13]

One of the reasons why I am writing these essays about college guys is that there has been a tendency in our culture to demonise or vilify young men. While society of course needs to teach boys the need for consent and proper boundaries, I feel we have gone too far in shaming (if there is, indeed, ever an acceptable reason to shame a whole class of people). We should ask these kids to cultivate respect for others while also celebrating the male sex drive, in all of its danger, vehemence and inexhaustible power. After all, beauty and terror are often found together; we need to learn to ride the great wave, and not to deny it.



To put it more bluntly: do we want college boys to stop being horny? I’ve seen hundreds of erections in the locker room! Most of them were semi-hard or half boners, but the point is that irrepressible sexuality is a key part of post-adolescent, college male psychology. By teaching college boys to love themselves properly, as representatives of the generative principle, the primeval creative power, or the father-force, we can help these kids grow into dynamic, fulfilled and loving men.



Another thing I wanted to say is that I use the terms “kids” and “boys” a lot to emphasize the youthful orientation and thought-processes of college guys. Hence, what particularly interests me is the idea of sexual precocity in college kids. By “sexual precocity” I am referring to college boys who, in spite of their youth and relative sexual inexperience, manifest remarkable, even preternatural ability and aptitude for lovemaking. I feel, strongly, that college guys’ prowess in bed can be inferred from their behavior, speech and mannerisms in the locker room, in their various states of undress. To quote from one of my recent posts in “For the love of college boys” thread:

“If we can listen to these kids, learn about their lives, and understand how their antics in the locker room often translate into excitement and drama between the sheets, I feel we can achieve a superior locker room experience.”



Thanks for bearing with me!



I’d like to present two new case studies. I’m using different templates for them because I’m trying emphasize certain things for each boy. (One study includes headers, the other does not)





ANDREW:







Andrew is a first year graduate student, with close-cut, dark brown hair, about five eleven and about one hundred and eighty pounds. He wrestled as an undergrad, and has put on a little weight since then but is still handsome and well-muscled. He has dark brown eyes and a quick, winning smile. He doesn’t talk much, but always gives me an enthusiastic “hi” and a stinging high-five. He does not use the stalls which is wise because he has a great body. Like many college men, he usually smiles when he’s in the shower. He finds his own nudity affirmative.



The first time I saw him in the shower, the locker room was busy with lots of showering dudes, athletes and professors. He was showering next to a tech major I happen to know. The tech major is a little pudgy, with a lot of body hair and a big penis. I saw Andrew had a semi-erection, just at the very limit of public acceptability. I knew he was trying to make himself a little bigger so as not to get owned by some STEM major! It was an active, inquisitive penis. He turned around a lot, and quickly, showing both his firm ass and his large, swollen penis to advantage. Other times, he just stood motionless, sometimes lathering and rinsing himself with quick, brisk movements, smiling and carefree. Obviously public showering was a source of satisfaction for him.



The other time I saw Andrew in the shower it was just me and him. He was looking down in the shower, facing the wall. He gripped his penis, just above the balls, and then moved his fist up the shaft, up to and over the head, and let it drop. He wasn’t washing it, and he wasn’t really masturbating, necessarily. It’s just a kind of self-touching that guys with big dongers engage in. They are asserting that, yes, this is my penis, it’s part of my identity and I’m proud to be a man.





ANALYTICS



BEST FEATURE

Andrew’s best feature was his penis, definitely. But he has a muscular chest, a flat stomach and firm buttocks.



ANDREW’S RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS PENIS

I think he has a great relationship with his penis. It’s important for college men to be on good terms with their private beauty. He touched it and appreciated it.



ANDREW UNDER THE COVERS



Let’s base our conclusions on the fact that Andrew was so unconstrained in the shower! He turned around a lot, joyfully showed off and touched himself, got a partial erection, and smiled affirmatively. This is a guy who likes sex! I can see him trying lots of sexual positions, as well as experimenting with sex toys, BDSM and even anal sex with other guys. It would take a lot to tame this bronco! He’d be especially good at getting his dick sucked- lots of moaning and squirming.







SUMMARY

To sum up, Andrew is a handsome, sexy and sex-positive young man with a sunny, outgoing disposition who’s also a daredevil when it comes to making love. His ideal partner would be someone who’s fine with rough, quirky and frequent sex. Any takers??!!







CAMERON:



Cameron, a recently graduated senior, is one of the trainers at the gym. A strong, sensitive type with a private beauty that he’s pretty shy about showing.



I’ve written about a lot of college guys. Some of them have had problems or issues, but it’s their so-called issues or challenges that I find makes them more attractive. For example, Evan has a small penis, but has found ways to express his masculinity through art, scholarship and service; he’s found ways to express his manhood in higher, more abstract ways that contribute to society. Apollo has a large, uncircumcised penis, and is poor, and so relies on his big penis to reinforce his sense of self-worth in an unwelcoming and unfamiliar environment. Spencer has Asperger’s, and so has trouble communicating with others, and has learned to find fellowship and belonging in the company of other naked boys.



Cameron struggles with a sense of insecurity and feelings of unworthiness. He’s quite bright academically, has always worked very hard and has a partial (very partial!) scholarship to a prestigious school. He’s a good listener, and if I ever need to talk, will stop his work out and tilt his head to one side. He likes firm handshakes, sometimes he’ll even hold onto my hand for a few seconds, squeezing, as if trying to inject me with his affection and concern. It works!



He’s a big guy, 6’1’’ 200 lbs, with hazel eyes and a lot of definition in both his upper and lower body. He’s a power lifter, a former high school baseball player, and he’s studying chemistry and economics. He wants to be a medical researcher or health care consultant. When Cameron was a freshman, he had a delicate, almost feminine beauty in spite of his muscles. He’s bulked up a little bit now! He still has some of that grace in his movements.



Cameron is polite, reserved and very kind. He’ll often spot for me or walk me through the steps of proper lifting technique. I’ve had a lot of deep conversations with him in the sauna.



He has one of the largest penises I have ever seen on an undergraduate. It was so large that I had the experience of not knowing what it was the first time I saw it. I was showering, and Cameron was walking towards me in his white towel. He was maybe twenty feet away when he took off his towel. At first I was confused. I thought it was some rolled up blanket that he was using to cover his manhood.



Then I realized it actually was his manhood.



A second later, he was so close to me that I couldn’t see his whole penis, so I took a couple steps back and saw that he was indeed circumcised. He had the beginnings of chest hair, clearly defined abdominal muscles, and a perfectly hard ass. His balls were wobbly and hung almost as low as his glans. I’m happy he didn’t shave them.



It was soon after my car accident and I was wincing from my injuries. He looked at me, a serious and compassionate look on his face. He saw I was in pain. He didn’t know the other reason I was wincing!



Cameron didn’t show off his body very often. He was very conscientious about going to and from the showers in his towel, and he changed quickly. Sometimes he would march, almost sprint, from the sauna to the showers in the nude, but they were just twenty feet away from each other. He was shy about his masculine beauty.



By removing his towel some twenty feet away from me, and allowing me to see him fully naked, Cameron was making a couple different statements. First of all, while I don’t tell the guys that I am gay, I have a very obvious gay intonation and hand gestures, mannerisms, etc. I am sure he knows I am gay. By taking off his towel, Cameron was telling me that he accepts me for what I am, and he’s asking me to accept him also. Also, he saw that I had just been in a bad accident (I don’t want to go into it) and was in pain, so he was promising me, on a subliminal level, that he would protect me. The penis is not just pleasure; it is also duty. He was pledging his friendship and loyalty to me. I was not only aroused and excited, but also moved.



He didn’t show his penis to everyone, but he showed it to me. That’s why I call Cameron not only a hunk, but a man.

AWESOME POST, ELOQUENTLY WRITTEN, thx for sharing!

 

[Rippedspeedo]

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Love those briefs

 

[opinionman]

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Well... I GUESS he's good-looking... I mean if you like beauty and all...

 

[Rippedspeedo]

Renaissance handsome boy.

 

[7943261]

One of the reasons why I am writing these essays about college guys is that there has been a tendency in our culture to demonise or vilify young men. While society of course needs to teach boys the need for consent and proper boundaries, I feel we have gone too far in shaming (if there is, indeed, ever an acceptable reason to shame a whole class of people). We should ask these kids to cultivate respect for others while also celebrating the male sex drive, in all of its danger, vehemence and inexhaustible power. After all, beauty and terror are often found together; we need to learn to ride the great wave, and not to deny it.



To put it more bluntly: do we want college boys to stop being horny? I’ve seen hundreds of erections in the locker room! Most of them were semi-hard or half boners, but the point is that irrepressible sexuality is a key part of post-adolescent, college male psychology. By teaching college boys to love themselves properly, as representatives of the generative principle, the primeval creative power, or the father-force, we can help these kids grow into dynamic, fulfilled and loving men.



Another thing I wanted to say is that I use the terms “kids” and “boys” a lot to emphasize the youthful orientation and thought-processes of college guys. Hence, what particularly interests me is the idea of sexual precocity in college kids. By “sexual precocity” I am referring to college boys who, in spite of their youth and relative sexual inexperience, manifest remarkable, even preternatural ability and aptitude for lovemaking. I feel, strongly, that college guys’ prowess in bed can be inferred from their behavior, speech and mannerisms in the locker room, in their various states of undress. To quote from one of my recent posts in “For the love of college boys” thread:

“If we can listen to these kids, learn about their lives, and understand how their antics in the locker room often translate into excitement and drama between the sheets, I feel we can achieve a superior locker room experience.”



Thanks for bearing with me!



I’d like to present two new case studies. I’m using different templates for them because I’m trying emphasize certain things for each boy. (One study includes headers, the other does not)





ANDREW:







Andrew is a first year graduate student, with close-cut, dark brown hair, about five eleven and about one hundred and eighty pounds. He wrestled as an undergrad, and has put on a little weight since then but is still handsome and well-muscled. He has dark brown eyes and a quick, winning smile. He doesn’t talk much, but always gives me an enthusiastic “hi” and a stinging high-five. He does not use the stalls which is wise because he has a great body. Like many college men, he usually smiles when he’s in the shower. He finds his own nudity affirmative.



The first time I saw him in the shower, the locker room was busy with lots of showering dudes, athletes and professors. He was showering next to a tech major I happen to know. The tech major is a little pudgy, with a lot of body hair and a big penis. I saw Andrew had a semi-erection, just at the very limit of public acceptability. I knew he was trying to make himself a little bigger so as not to get owned by some STEM major! It was an active, inquisitive penis. He turned around a lot, and quickly, showing both his firm ass and his large, swollen penis to advantage. Other times, he just stood motionless, sometimes lathering and rinsing himself with quick, brisk movements, smiling and carefree. Obviously public showering was a source of satisfaction for him.



The other time I saw Andrew in the shower it was just me and him. He was looking down in the shower, facing the wall. He gripped his penis, just above the balls, and then moved his fist up the shaft, up to and over the head, and let it drop. He wasn’t washing it, and he wasn’t really masturbating, necessarily. It’s just a kind of self-touching that guys with big dongers engage in. They are asserting that, yes, this is my penis, it’s part of my identity and I’m proud to be a man.





ANALYTICS



BEST FEATURE

Andrew’s best feature was his penis, definitely. But he has a muscular chest, a flat stomach and firm buttocks.



ANDREW’S RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS PENIS

I think he has a great relationship with his penis. It’s important for college men to be on good terms with their private beauty. He touched it and appreciated it.



ANDREW UNDER THE COVERS



Let’s base our conclusions on the fact that Andrew was so unconstrained in the shower! He turned around a lot, joyfully showed off and touched himself, got a partial erection, and smiled affirmatively. This is a guy who likes sex! I can see him trying lots of sexual positions, as well as experimenting with sex toys, BDSM and even anal sex with other guys. It would take a lot to tame this bronco! He’d be especially good at getting his dick sucked- lots of moaning and squirming.







SUMMARY

To sum up, Andrew is a handsome, sexy and sex-positive young man with a sunny, outgoing disposition who’s also a daredevil when it comes to making love. His ideal partner would be someone who’s fine with rough, quirky and frequent sex. Any takers??!!







CAMERON:



Cameron, a recently graduated senior, is one of the trainers at the gym. A strong, sensitive type with a private beauty that he’s pretty shy about showing.



I’ve written about a lot of college guys. Some of them have had problems or issues, but it’s their so-called issues or challenges that I find makes them more attractive. For example, Evan has a small penis, but has found ways to express his masculinity through art, scholarship and service; he’s found ways to express his manhood in higher, more abstract ways that contribute to society. Apollo has a large, uncircumcised penis, and is poor, and so relies on his big penis to reinforce his sense of self-worth in an unwelcoming and unfamiliar environment. Spencer has Asperger’s, and so has trouble communicating with others, and has learned to find fellowship and belonging in the company of other naked boys.



Cameron struggles with a sense of insecurity and feelings of unworthiness. He’s quite bright academically, has always worked very hard and has a partial (very partial!) scholarship to a prestigious school. He’s a good listener, and if I ever need to talk, will stop his work out and tilt his head to one side. He likes firm handshakes, sometimes he’ll even hold onto my hand for a few seconds, squeezing, as if trying to inject me with his affection and concern. It works!



He’s a big guy, 6’1’’ 200 lbs, with hazel eyes and a lot of definition in both his upper and lower body. He’s a power lifter, a former high school baseball player, and he’s studying chemistry and economics. He wants to be a medical researcher or health care consultant. When Cameron was a freshman, he had a delicate, almost feminine beauty in spite of his muscles. He’s bulked up a little bit now! He still has some of that grace in his movements.



Cameron is polite, reserved and very kind. He’ll often spot for me or walk me through the steps of proper lifting technique. I’ve had a lot of deep conversations with him in the sauna.



He has one of the largest penises I have ever seen on an undergraduate. It was so large that I had the experience of not knowing what it was the first time I saw it. I was showering, and Cameron was walking towards me in his white towel. He was maybe twenty feet away when he took off his towel. At first I was confused. I thought it was some rolled up blanket that he was using to cover his manhood.



Then I realized it actually was his manhood.



A second later, he was so close to me that I couldn’t see his whole penis, so I took a couple steps back and saw that he was indeed circumcised. He had the beginnings of chest hair, clearly defined abdominal muscles, and a perfectly hard ass. His balls were wobbly and hung almost as low as his glans. I’m happy he didn’t shave them.



It was soon after my car accident and I was wincing from my injuries. He looked at me, a serious and compassionate look on his face. He saw I was in pain. He didn’t know the other reason I was wincing!



Cameron didn’t show off his body very often. He was very conscientious about going to and from the showers in his towel, and he changed quickly. Sometimes he would march, almost sprint, from the sauna to the showers in the nude, but they were just twenty feet away from each other. He was shy about his masculine beauty.



By removing his towel some twenty feet away from me, and allowing me to see him fully naked, Cameron was making a couple different statements. First of all, while I don’t tell the guys that I am gay, I have a very obvious gay intonation and hand gestures, mannerisms, etc. I am sure he knows I am gay. By taking off his towel, Cameron was telling me that he accepts me for what I am, and he’s asking me to accept him also. Also, he saw that I had just been in a bad accident (I don’t want to go into it) and was in pain, so he was promising me, on a subliminal level, that he would protect me. The penis is not just pleasure; it is also duty. He was pledging his friendship and loyalty to me. I was not only aroused and excited, but also moved.



He didn’t show his penis to everyone, but he showed it to me. That’s why I call Cameron not only a hunk, but a man.

I wanted to share some of my thoughts about Cameron in bed (please see my last post).

Cameron might have some performance issues. He might immediately start trying to engage in penetrative sex without preparing either himself or his partner. He suffers from anxiety and some low self-esteem.

Before sex, his partner should try to massage Cameron, and get some of the excess tension out of his muscles, especially his shoulders and neck. He often walks with his shoulders hunched. That’s not a great posture for sex.



He would shine when it came to the actual act of copulation, his strokes would be confident and competent. He would be good at maintaining eye contact, and also has an architectonic approach to lovemaking; he knows how to vary his speed and pressure, always aware of the relation of each thrust to the inevitable orgasm. He’s in some ways the living definition of the “sexual precocity” that I mentioned in my last post on college boys’ bedroom habits.



He’s a strong, silent type, so it would be good if Cameron could moan a little during each drive. His partner should know that Cameron is enjoying himself. He shouldn’t just grimace and grit his teeth, although that has its own gruff masculine appeal too.



Where Cameron is weakest, understandably, is in foreplay. As I said, he might want to dive into copulatory sex without doing any of the prep work.



Why?



I think the answer is that Cameron feels he’s not entitled to pleasure. He would take sex as a responsibility to his woman, rather than something that he’s entitled to enjoy. He’s a bit of an over-achiever, especially in sports and academics. So, he would feel that he’s not entitled to the pleasure he would get from foreplay. He might not even let his partner fondle him.



Here’s where Cameron’s partner would have to be a little assertive, and take responsibility for Cameron’s pleasure. She would have to tell him that she wants a few minutes to tickle him. Hopefully, after a nice massage, she could get Cameron to relax enough so that he could submit to her.



Most women (and some men!) make the same mistake in foreplay: they think the penis is fragile, so they treat it very gingerly. Cameron’s a tough guy! Grip his penis! Use lubricant if you need to but make a tight fist! Work it up and down the shaft! Guys call it “jerking off” for a reason!



Here’s another exercise to try. Because of Cameron’s impressive flaccid dimensions, when he’s erect it would probably look like the Washington Monument. Don’t be afraid of it! First grab his penis between the thumb and index finger of one hand, close to the balls to stabilize it and also to keep it still. Then use the tip of the thumb of the other hand to stimulate his glans, the sensitive head of the penis.



The penis is often representative of a man’s character, it is his own self. His ego, fears and dreams are all intimately connected to his penis. By manipulating his penis, his partner is showing Cameron that he doesn’t have to be always in control, he doesn’t have to be perfect. He can trust others, put himself into their care, and let them take care of him. You’re not only giving him pleasure, you’re also making him a better person.



I remember one day when Cameron tried to bench press a very heavy weight- I forget how much but it was around two fifty or three hundred and I wanted to spot him (what a joke! I would have died) and he told me he’d be fine, to just watch. At first I saw his face go purple and I thought it was curtains for Cameron, but then a look of determination came into his eyes and he lifted it against all odds, sweat was dripping from his forehead.



I think his eyes would reflect that same determination when he’d had enough foreplay. He would move his partner’s hand away. It’s time to get to work.



Cameron is on.



At that point, you’ve done your job. Now, just relax and let Cameron do his.

 

[7943261]

My friends,

I wrote a new original essay in "For the Love of College Boys" thread which you can find here:

For The Love Of College Boys

 

[wildcat16]

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Oh, man, I have some of those exact underwear. A few pair of white ones and a couple pair of black ones. When they stopped letting us weigh in naked or in just a jockstrap those started showing up on a few guys. Most comfortable thing i had tried on at that point in my life outside of a good jockstrap. I borrowed claimed and even bought some for myself. The band seemed to make them more manly in the locker room than regular bikini briefs which were the trend for weigh ins in my area for a while.

Would love to find some more of those on a store shelf, Maybe a good product for AE to make.

 

[opinionman]

Oh, man, I have some of those exact underwear. A few pair of white ones and a couple pair of black ones. When they stopped letting us weigh in naked or in just a jockstrap those started showing up on a few guys. Most comfortable thing i had tried on at that point in my life outside of a good jockstrap. I borrowed claimed and even bought some for myself. The band seemed to make them more manly in the locker room than regular bikini briefs which were the trend for weigh ins in my area for a while.

Would love to find some more of those on a store shelf, Maybe a good product for AE to make.

Yeah.. tho' I'm a total jockstrap hound, I have had a pair of these sports briefs (Calvin Kleins) for probably 15 yrs and they're still in good shape. They certainly pouch up my balls as well as a jock.

 

[wildcat16]

Yeah.. tho' I'm a total jockstrap hound, I have had a pair of these sports briefs (Calvin Kleins) for probably 15 yrs and they're still in good shape. They certainly pouch up my balls as well as a jock.

I am with you on the jockstraps man. I have some of those Polo ones though, the exact ones in the pic.
I do have some CK and some Jockey ones similar to that but they never seems as sport like or felt quiet as perfect as the Polo ones.

 

[opinionman]

I am with you on the jockstraps man. I have some of those Polo ones though, the exact ones in the pic.
I do have some CK and some Jockey ones similar to that but they never seems as sport like or felt quiet as perfect as the Polo ones.

Good to know that old-school jockstraps are still surviving... tho how much longer I can't predict. I'm wearing the classic Bike that I just ordered from the newly resurrected Bikeathletic.com. It's pretty close to the originals I recall from the 70's but the pouch seems different. I'm determined to wear it as much as possible all summer to break it in.

 

[wildcat16]

Good to know that old-school jockstraps are still surviving... tho how much longer I can't predict. I'm wearing the classic Bike that I just ordered from the newly resurrected Bikeathletic.com. It's pretty close to the originals I recall from the 70's but the pouch seems different. I'm determined to wear it as much as possible all summer to break it in.

I thought it looked like different fabric than the originals i have seen. All the new jocks need more breaking in than what they seemed to back in my Dad and Uncle's days

 

[trackjock13]

My older bro was a weight lifter and football guy. his jocks were thin mesh and super soft

 

[Rippedspeedo]

AWESOME POST, ELOQUENTLY WRITTEN, thx for sharing!View attachment 34860821 View attachment 34860821

Favourite jock to pose in for some artists

 

[7943261]

I’ve decided, going forward, to start and conclude each essay with a section entitled “Curios”. A ‘curio’ per the Oxford English dictionary is “a rare, unusual or intriguing object”. The curios I’d like to share are the college penises that I’ve seen which were somehow abnormal, or abnormally large, or crooked, or in some other way surprised me by deviating from the typical young adult bushwhacker. I’m not making fun of these kids or their unusual dongs, I’m presenting them as specimens that deserve to be loved for their uniqueness. The ‘curio’ sections will focus less on the personality and background of the boy, and focus more exclusively on his penis and its atypical beauty. I think the ‘curio’ section will serve as amusing bookenders for these essays. I may, at times, expand a ‘curio’ section into a later full-length piece.



Curio

Name: Clay

Age: 21

Major: Economics

Position: Lifeguard Instructor



Clay is about 6’1’’, and about two hundred pounds, with light olive skin and close-cut brown hair. He has experience mountain climbing and dirt bike racing, but now works at training each year’s new cohort of lifeguards. Has an awkward, masculine vibe, and is soft spoken in spite of his deep baritone voice. Clay is kind of shy in the locker room, wears a towel to and from the shower, but usually dries off at his locker. His style of drying off is to turn the towel around and around his waist without ever opening it. But of course it’s not very effective, so he has to open it eventually. That’s what he did that night. After a few minutes he took off his towel to wipe his dick, almost swatting it, and I noticed it was just a big, floppy head! It swiveled from side to side as he dried it, but it had almost no shaft at all, just a big, beautiful glans. A rare penis type, and thus happily merits the designation of first ‘curio’.







Case study: Jonathan



Jonathan is a well-built twenty year old kid, about five nine, with dark brown hair that looks lighter when wet, with brown eyes. He has a slender build, has good biceps and chest definition, and walks with a certain understated grace. He likes smooth jazz, alternative rock and playing card games. He’s a quiet modest boy who sometimes wonders if he’s charming enough to attract the right woman. He should give himself more credit, however, for he has *more* than enough below the belt to entice even the most discriminating female!



The first time I saw Jonathan naked, I had just finished a thirty mile bike ride and was lounging in the shower. My usual shower, at the end of a long line of shower heads, was not giving me the hot water I wanted, so I picked the one at the very end that faced the door. Jonathan loped in, completely naked, and chose one of the middle shower heads. I noticed he was wearing a necklace with his monograms: JAS, but that it was hard to see because it was a little obscured by his chest hair. I love it when I see a college guy with chest hair; it’s a little unusual. He had a shy smile.



Just one note: I like it when a college boy wears a necklace in the shower, because it’s a kind of little adornment that somehow complements his total nakedness.



He had a long, skinny penis and a pretty hefty pair of testicles. The tip of his penis was a little elongated. He touched himself just once, tweaking his penis and then lifting and pressing it to his navel and then letting it go.

He smiled the whole time, and took his time washing and lathering himself. He didn’t bring his towel, so he walked back to his locker completely naked and wet.

The second time I saw Jonathan naked, everything was the same. I still chose the shower head farthest from the door, but facing the rest of the room. Jonathan took his time washing himself, and this time he touched himself three times.



I could tell by the way he touched himself that he didn’t jerk off as much as some of the football players did, but he jerked off more than some of the devout Christian homeschooled boys. His masturbation pattern was normal, maybe once or twice a week.

I also got the sense from his graceful movements, smile and thoroughness that he would be a thoughtful lover. He’s the kind of guy who knows how much women enjoy being kissed, and kissed deeply, passionately. I don’t think he’s had that many girlfriends and is a little scared of rejection. He needs to develop more confidence in himself as someone with a gift for honest and satisfying lovemaking. I can tell that after climax he would again lavish kisses on his woman, thanking her for being so wonderful to him. A gem.


A week later, I walked into the weight room and I was facing the mirror, about to do a biceps work out. I saw Jonathan sitting at one of the chest press machines, he was motionless, looking at me. His head was tilted to one side, a confused, scrunched-up puppy-dog look on his face.

I could read the silent question on his face:

“Were you looking at my penis in the shower?”



He looked at me that way for maybe twenty seconds and then walked to another part of the room. I didn’t tell him, but I wanted to tell him that I wasn’t just looking at his penis, I was looking at him as integral man, as someone who has a lot of love, who has dreams and interesting plans. And I wanted to tell him how grateful I am for sharing his beauty with me, his secret masculinity. In the same way, I am grateful to all my beautiful boys.




Curio

Name: “Daniel”

Sport: Swimming

Age: 19



I didn’t catch “Daniel’s” actual name. He was part of a visiting swim team. It was a dual meet with many schools. Dual meets are interesting because swimmers have to squeeze into much smaller, tighter competition speedos which are much harder to put on than their usual swimwear. It takes a long time, and is very, uh, revealing. : )



Daniel is about five eleven, with bleached blond hair and dark blond eyebrows. He has broad shoulders, is well-muscled and has a lot of boyish confidence. He carries himself with a little bit of a nonchalant swagger, as if he’s used to being the most popular kid in school, and gets invited to all the best parties.


The first time I saw Daniel naked, I saw him from behind. He was in the row of lockers behind me, so I saw him changing in the mirror. His back was turned to me. He had a great butt, muscular, well-toned and defined buttocks, broad and hard. He was talking to his friends and laughing as he squirmed into the tiny competition speedo.



The next day, I saw another side of Daniel. He was struggling once again to put on the speedo, but this time he was facing the mirror at an angle and his penis was very visible.



Holy mackerel! Or holy trout- it was a big one!



He was getting a boner!



Whenever a college kid gets a boner, it immediately activates my maternal instincts. I want to stroke it (see above essay on Spencer). In the same way that a robin will nudge her young to leave her nest when it is time, I want to tweak and tease his penis when it starts to get hard, to encourage it to keep going, to keep aiming for the sky.


What makes his penis a curio, however, is that the tip of it pointed the wrong way- down instead of up! It was crooked, like the beak of a stork!


I often see college kids get boners before competitions. The penis is the weapon of dominance, attack and penetration. It’s a natural response to excess adrenaline.


But I’ve seen very few penises like Daniel’s, which point the wrong way when aroused. I’m sure his partner would help him straighten it out during sex. But for now, I’m happy to add Daniel’s beautiful, whimsical member to our incipient collection.

 

[7943261]

I did not mean to offend anyone by calling this or that boy's penis abnormal. I could have said atypical, or uncommon. But I felt 'abnormal' made more taxonomic sense and was clearer. My apologies once again if anyone was offended. I hope I made it plain and obvious that it is the so-called differences or 'abnormalities' of the penises that I discussed which made them in fact more appealing, or 'curio', strange and rare. I'm sure their partners, lovers, will get immense pleasure from their boyfriends' atypical penises. It is surprise which delights us.

 

[opinionman]

I did not mean to offend anyone by calling this or that boy's penis abnormal. I could have said atypical, or uncommon. But I felt 'abnormal' made more taxonomic sense and was clearer. My apologies once again if anyone was offended. I hope I made it plain and obvious that it is the so-called differences or 'abnormalities' of the penises that I discussed which made them in fact more appealing, or 'curio', strange and rare. I'm sure their partners, lovers, will get immense pleasure from their boyfriends' atypical penises. It is surprise which delights us.

No one should be upset about the word 'abnormal.' Let's all keep some perspective. You clearly stated that the term was not pejorative.

 

[7943261]

Rainbows are abnormal.

Ditto for acts of kindness.

Genius is also abnormal.



Meaning depends so much on context and tone.


Thank you for understanding.

***

I just wanted to say a few words about Jonathan, and also about Daniel.


--Jonathan smiled the entire time he was in the shower, both times. That’s one of the most common, and ingratiating, aspects of college boy locker room behavior. They smile when nude. Older men don’t do that. Maybe they are smiling from embarrassment or shyness. Maybe these kids are smiling because of the feeling of freedom and power that comes from being naked. Maybe it’s a kind of social habit, that springs naturally from the sweetness of young men, a way of saying “I’m OK, and you’re OK. So let’s be friends!” I can’t say, but it’s a common denominator of college men.


--Most penises carry a sense of mission, purpose, and authority. Jonathan’s penis suggested all those things, but it also expressed balance and beauty. I can call every penis interesting, but I can’t call every one of them pretty. Jonathan’s organ was pretty and proportionate. I think that’s a reflection of his character.


--The last thing I want to say about Jonathan’s penis is that I felt it was woman-hungry. But there are two types of hunger. If you’re thinking about Thanksgiving Dinner, you can think about wolfing down lots of turkey and candied sweet potatoes, or you can think about seeing your parents again, telling old stories and playing games. His penis had the second kind of hunger, a hunger for emotional validation from a woman. It wanted a place to call home, not just to discharge semen.

Like all college boys he looked happier, more confident and more mature when completely naked than when he was dressed.



About Daniel, the swimmer, when I was discussing his frontal beauty, I forgot to mention that he was by himself at that time and probably didn’t know he was visible in the wall mirror. That might be why he allowed himself to get partially erect. I said he was “getting a boner” not that he actually had an erection yet. But it was clear there was some arousal. I think the unusual hooked shape of his penis might have made him look perhaps more erect than he actually was.



Thank you!

 

[RLJR]

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[Baldsurfer]

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