a man has made you feel uncomfortable or even threatened, whether or not he knew it or meant to do so?
I sure fucking can't.
I sure fucking can't.
This thread was inspired by the #metoo thread in AASM.
I can't reply there. So I'll say it here.
The guys who feel like they can't work with women now, I assume are the ones who thought it was no big deal to treat woman co-workers in inappropriate ways. Yeah, I'll make assumptions too muhfuckers.
I work with 5 men and one woman on any given day. None, I repeat NONE of them have made me feel threatened in the year and a half I've worked on this crew. So guess what? I'm not going to report anyone for harassment!! What a fucking concept!!!
Oh, and like @Fade, almost every woman I know has been been to feel unsafe. Every woman I talk to about this subject has been sexually harassed, many sexually assaulted. Almost none have gone to the police. I didn’t.
Oh, and like @Fade, almost every woman I know has been been to feel unsafe. Every woman I talk to about this subject has been sexually harassed, many sexually assaulted. Almost none have gone to the police. I didn’t.
Exactly. And why I didn’t go to the police. It would have been my fault. I would have had to defend myself because I knew the guy. Even though he overpowered me. Lured me to his apartment under false pretences. It still would have been my fault. I had to suck it up and move on.I tried that one and only time. Never again. Waste of my sanity.
It's so fucking frustrating to read things like what got posted in that thread. Oh, you're nervous that you have to interact with women at work/ in society because you *think* one of them is going to falsely accuse you of inappropriate behavior?
Try getting sexually assaulted and have everyone call you a liar and claim that you did it for attention. Have people tell you that YOU need to police how others treat YOU, and in almost all those cases those people are physically much stronger than you. And then you have to go back to work with the piece of shit who assaulted you.
Exactly. And why I didn’t go to the police. It would have been my fault. I would have had to defend myself because I knew the guy. Even though he overpowered me. Lured me to his apartment under false pretences. It still would have been my fault. I had to suck it up and move on.
I moved on by never dating again.