Colton underwood- american football player

First off, if you’re going to cape for someone get your facts straight. NOBODY is bashing him for being gay OR keeping his supposedly “gay life private” so get it right hun. The backlash he received is his manipulative ways so jump off his dick and stop riding it hard.

The backlash is from his disingenuous way of coming out. This dude has known he was gay from childhood and went onto a HETEROSEXUAL TV SHOW (very private huh?) to portray a whole persona of an innocent virgin Christian boy who has been saving himself for the “right woman”. And during that process vilified homosexuality, supported republicans and damaging conservative views and talking points on homosexuality treating it like an illness, and at the same time PROFITED from those vilifying views of homosexuality MEANWHILE he was supposedly getting his dick sucked and ass pounded while cruising from gay bath house to bath house and little miss Colton wasn’t so chaste and pure after all. Then out of no where he shows up and expects us to believe magically found the light and decided to come out gay ONLY for us to find out one week later that he got BLACKMAILED into coming out because his regular life was about to be exposed. Had he not been blackmailed he would still been “straight” and continued to push his views and marry him a beard while secretly being on Grindr with a no picture profile talking about “I don’t send face pics I’m discreet”. And to add to injury, in true Colton manner, he’s profiting off his coming out with magazine covers and a Netflix show.

... So miss me with the bullshit. People have 100% right to call him out. Go cape for someone else, Colton is dead course.
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First off, if you’re going to cape for someone get your facts straight. NOBODY is bashing him for being gay OR keeping his supposedly “gay life private” so get it right hun. The backlash he received is his manipulative ways so jump off his dick and stop riding it hard.

The backlash is from his disingenuous way of coming out. This dude has known he was gay from childhood and went onto a HETEROSEXUAL TV SHOW (very private huh?) to portray a whole persona of an innocent virgin Christian boy who has been saving himself for the “right woman”. And during that process vilified homosexuality, supported republicans and damaging conservative views and talking points on homosexuality treating it like an illness, and at the same time PROFITED from those vilifying views of homosexuality MEANWHILE he was supposedly getting his dick sucked and ass pounded while cruising from gay bath house to bath house and little miss Colton wasn’t so chaste and pure after all. Then out of no where he shows up and expects us to believe magically found the light and decided to come out gay ONLY for us to find out one week later that he got BLACKMAILED into coming out because his regular life was about to be exposed. Had he not been blackmailed he would still been “straight” and continued to push his views and marry him a beard while secretly being on Grindr with a no picture profile talking about “I don’t send face pics I’m discreet”. And to add to injury, in true Colton manner, he’s profiting off his coming out with magazine covers and a Netflix show.

... So miss me with the bullshit. People have 100% right to call him out. Go cape for someone else, Colton is dead course.
It seems that his life and story have affected your life in all the ways. You have all the right to throw stones to every man who doesn't want to represent the community or is affraid to reveal that he likes men. Go on. Keep on being an asshole arguing about someone who doesn't know you exist. Such a world full of ridiculous people pointing their fingers to who are not apt to live with "pride" and without fear because all the persons have the same life and experiences.
 
You know what? Don't pay attention to my comment. I just got bored of discussing about a topic that I didn't even mean to get involved. I just posted something about him and Gregg as a joke not as a real thing and I just got trapped in this endless attack and defense topic about "coming out". Ugh, I never liked that phrase and the same thing goes with "in the closet". They are like a mocking terms used by heterosexual people and now are used by homosexuals. Just like faggot and lesbian that were insults before now we use them to insult us or to address us. What a pity.
 
It seems that his life and story have affected your life in all the ways. You have all the right to throw stones to every man who doesn't want to represent the community or is affraid to reveal that he likes men. Go on. Keep on being an asshole arguing about someone who doesn't know you exist. Such a world full of ridiculous people pointing their fingers to who are not apt to live with "pride" and without fear because all the persons have the same life and experiences.

ok calm down missy, first of all this is a forum. And if you know how forums work it’s a platform to discuss and debate on issues and topics so you trying to be petty and throw shade saying “keeping on being an asshole arguing about a person who doesn’t know u exist” is not only a deflection tactic but shows how less than smart you are. Nobody is being an asshole here especially when we’re calling a spade a spade. We’re all entitled to have an opinion on people who put themselves in public eye. So if somehow that bothers you, scroll on
 
He could probably hit that without doing that show.

The Milo thing is something else. That person has clearly always been filled with so much hate, resentment, internalized phobia and a willingness to do anything to “troll” Liberals. I doubt he was ever really married to that dude. He just thought it’d be a “great story”. He’s never even shown his supposed “black husband”. His whole life is a scam. The media should have never given him a platform and should have never bitten on his “semi fem ‘gay’ who’s also a Conservative” gimmick. That dude probably isn’t even Conservative. He’s just a hateful queer headcase constantly searching for attention and money instead of confronting his issues.

Colton has recently talked about wanting to get married to a guy and wanting to have kids with a guy. It is incredibly weird that just a year ago he put out a book defending his “straightness” and hyping up how much he wants hetero commitment. And even a few months ago he was trying to convince people he was oh so naive and never had any same-sex experiences and didn’t know what was going on with his sexuality. Now, he’s been blackmailed and been to bathhouses and should have “come out” when Michael Sam did.

He is the type of dude who gets everything he can out of “queers” and the “gay lifestyle”, then experiences some fluidity and ends up marrying a chick by the time he’s in his 40s. People are strange and have their own motivations, struggles and journeys. But this is partly why I don’t hype identities and “coming out” like I used to. I focus more on the individuality of sexuality, everyone having their own dimensions and struggles and motivations, and the gender, romantic, sexual, affection, emotional investment, commitment. Just support people being honest and living the life they want to live, and being with/committing to who they want to be with/commit to. Because there’s too much different shit going on with different people and too much using “queerness” for clout and opportunities.

I just don't get a good feeling about him, and yeah he will marry a woman. I know guys like him.
 
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This is what I don’t like. Even when folks are ready to move on, people keep trying to come up with bullshit reasons to completely excuse all his nonsense and make other people villains.

It doesn't matter what the production did or did not know. Even if you remove him knowing he was homosexual and "gay" in every way yet still signing up to star in a hetero-normal reality show, there's still a ton of other messiness. He was the one almost offended by and dismissive towards the “gay” rumors. He was the one who put out a book just last year promoting his non-gayness and his journey to hetero love and commitment. (All while apparently trolling Grindr and hitting up bathhouses). He was the one who stalked his ex girlfriend, was verbally abusive and put a tracking device in her car. He didn’t have to do any of that. Most of that stuff was purely driven by fame hunger, ego and narcissism. He was the one trying to convince people that he did some soul searching and wanted to be himself and wanted to authentically be with someone of his sex, just to claim a couple of months later that the “coming out” was trigger by blackmail. He was the one who signed a new TV and book deal before publicly “coming out” just to make sure attaching to “gay” would guarantee a profit and some more spotlight opportunities.

Everyone is different. Everyone has different sexualities, dimensions, circumstances, struggles and journeys. And so many “queers” make mistakes and stumble along the way. But the dude has been needlessly messy and manipulative and privileged and is still looking to profit and chase clout. There is no problem with calling all of that out. So, miss me with the dismissive “it was just a show” bs. It is time to move on from it though.
Jesus. Let. It. Go.
 
You know what? Don't pay attention to my comment. I just got bored of discussing about a topic that I didn't even mean to get involved. I just posted something about him and Gregg as a joke not as a real thing and I just got trapped in this endless attack and defense topic about "coming out". Ugh, I never liked that phrase and the same thing goes with "in the closet". They are like a mocking terms used by heterosexual people and now are used by homosexuals. Just like faggot and lesbian that were insults before now we use them to insult us or to address us. What a pity.
Oh please, all of us were ready to move on since the topic has been litigated to hell w/o new information but you're here lecturing us about compassion and can't we all be simps who are incessantly nice to problematic celebs? (No)

If you'd just shut up for once we don't have to keep calling out bullshit. I'd happily thirst after him like a mindless blob of flesh so long as people stop sprouting shit.
 
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The level people are willing to descend to just to keep thirsting after a reasonably good-looking but ultimately bland white man never cease to astound me.

PSA: you don't have to defend everything vile someone does just because you find them hot. People are complicated! So are you & your thoughts & desires.
 
Oh God! The production already knew Colton was gay that even Billy Eichner couldn't resist to make a joke about it. It's television. Leave the guy alone and be happy.
I'm prepared to forgive the lies about being gay. But since he decided to stalk a girl and be a Trump supporter he landed on my shit list. So I'm happy to stay on his little journey. O course this is a personal decision, everyone else is fine to move on.
 
Oh my God! Like I said: an endless argument about someone who doesn't care about what we say or if we exist. This thread is just a waste of time. The funny thing is that eveybody loved him before being accused of all the things he has done, now he is the mortal enemy. For what reason to give our opinion on here if we are not gonna be able to respect us and just throw shit and insults to each other. And you just gave me an example that there is only a community when everybody loves the same person or hates him/her like in this case. I'm done.
 
People saying “let it go”, as if his messy Variety interview wasn’t just a few weeks ago.

The question is would this dude ever be unabashedly “out” and talking about being “gay” and wanting a husband if his girlfriend didn’t dump him, if he wasn’t supposedly blackmailed and if he didn’t make sure to sign a book and TV deal about his “gayness” before coming out? I’m guessing not. Or I’m guessing it would’ve taken quite a few years, maybe decades after his dim spotlight faded.

Everyone has their own traumas, dimensions, struggles and journeys. Everyone makes mistakes. And everyone has the right to live their lives as they wish. But he put himself in the position of being ridiculed. He made a spectacle of himself. Doing multiple seasons of The Bachelor, putting out an “I’m not ‘gay” book last year, stalking/harassing/tracking his ex girlfriend, making sure to profit off of “coming out” before he comes out, still creating narratives in interviews after “coming out”. These aren’t typical “closeted, I’m struggling with my dimensions and who I am and what I want” mistakes. This is some highly calculated shit. All driven by wanting clout, wanting to be a public figure, wanting money and wanting ego boosts. He made everything a spectacle. That’s primarily why folks come at him.

I’m just gonna stop coming to this thread because despite wanting to “let it go”, people are gonna keep saying things that need to be checked.
 
Oh my God! Like I said: an endless argument about someone who doesn't care about what we say or if we exist. This thread is just a waste of time. The funny thing is that eveybody loved him before being accused of all the things he has done, now he is the mortal enemy. For what reason to give our opinion on here if we are not gonna be able to respect us and just throw shit and insults to each other. And you just gave me an example that there is only a community when everybody loves the same person or hates him/her like in this case. I'm done.

You shouldn’t have said shit in the first place.

The thread was about to go another direction until you came here insulting people and being entirely dismissive towards people’s reasoned critiques. People argue. People disagree. And some people can understand shit and converse about things beyond “he’s hot”. That’s something you’re gonna have to get over if you’re gonna stick to this internet thing.
 
Oh my God! Like I said: an endless argument about someone who doesn't care about what we say or if we exist. This thread is just a waste of time. The funny thing is that eveybody loved him before being accused of all the things he has done, now he is the mortal enemy. For what reason to give our opinion on here if we are not gonna be able to respect us and just throw shit and insults to each other. And you just gave me an example that there is only a community when everybody loves the same person or hates him/her like in this case. I'm done.
Certainly you're delusional if you think he was at any point universally beloved, it's just your simpy way of looking at the world.

Anyways, glad you finally see light and stop wasting all of our time flinging shit here, peace man lol
 
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“Let it go” and “let’s all just be a ‘community’ and support each other” are pretty much the last go-to’s when someone doesn’t have a real argument.
Yeah quite pathetic, it's really a thing to see. I'd happy be a community with you at least bro lol