Do gay guys actually have sex in public at gay bars?

And I don't mean in the bathroom (straights do that) and I don't mean bathhouses.

My buddy told me that he sees perfectly normal gay guys having oral, anal, you-name-it in gay bars on the reg. That shocked me and I wasn't sure if it was just the bars he frequents or if that's actually a normal occurrence.


Is it true? Is it that standard?

stairwells maybe. sometimes on the dancefloor.
 
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I need to check out the Phoenix. It sounds like my kind of place. Is there a good/better night to go? Love getting blown and showing off my dick while other dudes at the bar watch a cocksucker go down on me and work a load out.

It has been a few years since I have been there, but the upstairs is dark. It is so dark that the bartenders use flashlights/lighters to see the beer in the cooler. It seems like there was a neon beer sign hanging on the wall, that was the only light in the room. There is a small room off to the side that had a light bulb inside a ventilation vent. Most of the sex I saw happened in that room. On weekends, when we were there, that room would be packed. During the week, there were still plenty of guys there, just not as busy. I've also had sex in the beer garden there. Fun times!
 
It has been a few years since I have been there, but the upstairs is dark. It is so dark that the bartenders use flashlights/lighters to see the beer in the cooler. It seems like there was a neon beer sign hanging on the wall, that was the only light in the room. There is a small room off to the side that had a light bulb inside a ventilation vent. Most of the sex I saw happened in that room. On weekends, when we were there, that room would be packed. During the week, there were still plenty of guys there, just not as busy. I've also had sex in the beer garden there. Fun times!
Been there and done that. Great NO bar
 
I need to check out the Phoenix. It sounds like my kind of place. Is there a good/better night to go? Love getting blown and showing off my dick while other dudes at the bar watch a cocksucker go down on me and work a load out.

weekends are obviously busiest... I mean, bodies packed in sometimes (Friday/Saturday night after 10pm) and weeknights even can have a good handful of guys.

I’ve always left a happy man.
 
When I was in college (1980's) there was a gay bar that I would frequent. The main floor of the bar housed the dance floor, several quiet corners with tables and stools and the main bar. I never saw anything there, but if you went stairs, which was known as the 'balcony' you would see guys on their knees giving blow jobs. I never saw full on sex though.
 
yes and No, most bars no occasionally you find a quiet, spot a willing guy, and anything can happen. crowds do help hide the action. but most US bars it is rare.
 
In all the years I lived in NYC I can honestly say I never saw anyone having sex in any of the bars. Ever. The owners/managers always did a great job of ensuring everyone was having a good time without offending others. There used to be sex clubs, but that is a different story.
You obviously didn't know about a bar called The Mine Shaft back in the 70's and 80's...crazy it was there.
 
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Still loads of action in bars. But yes, the night matters. Sometimes on a slow night you get blown and on a busy night guys are just walking around. But usually on a busy night you can find action at any leather/gear/fetish bar that has a "back room" "balcony" "basement" or whatever. I won't name the bars in case this site is monitored, but I've found loads of action from SF to LA to Chicago to NYC. Sometimes it's not as obvious (a guy on his knees blowing dudes in the corner) and other times you'll see a guy leaning against the bar getting sucked or fucked.