Does This Make Me Gay Or Bi Or Am I Still Straight?

[englad]

Neither I nor anyone else on this website has a crystal ball to peer into the deepest chasms of your mind and work the answer out for you. Just go and do you, enjoy yourself and have fun with consenting adults who aren't close relatives. Working out your sexuality is an extremely personal journey, no one here has experienced your experiences, fantasies or desires, so we can't honestly answer that question for you.

If you are actually attracted to your father though, well that isn't healthy. That's dodgy, really dodgy.

 

[SeeTheDifference]

You are whatever you decide you are. There’s no framework for this. Feel about yourself however makes you feel most comfortable in your own body.

 

[Twoincheshard]

Thank you for your responses and I understand it’s a personal question, I’m just constantly hard all the time and needing to come a few times a day which isn’t like me at all. Something just feels different and i don’t know any gay guys to talk too.
Cheers again…I will see what happens.

 

[Brodie888]

There's a character on Succession named Roman who isn't aroused by normal sexual situations.

He only gets aroused in circumstances that are taboo or seen as morally wrong. eg fucking a dead person.

It's possible you are consuming so much porn and masturbating so much that you've developed a tolerance to vanilla sex and the only thing that lights up your brain is something outside social boundaries.

Elevated need to masturbate without an increase in testosterone would suggest you are compensating for something else lacking in your life.

As others have said, psychology is complicated especially without full context. While most people are a shade of bisexual, your sexual attraction to your father as a predominantly heterosexual male would suggest that you may have issues with your father that you need to discuss with a professional.

 

[Twoincheshard]

I haven’t seen the show or heard of his character tbh, I’m not really watching porn atm. Maybe you’re right about something lacking as I have been single for a month or so now…I guess that’s made me crave sex more.

I get it’s sounding odd but honestly we have a good relationship, it’s only since moving in with him as a adult and him being so open about everything around the house, plus talking about things and being naked in front of each other for the first time of my knowledge. That has sparked any of this at all!

reading some other threads on here apparently it’s not that uncommon for dads to tease or talk sexually with their adult sons or be hard around each other and it not be so taboo kinda thing ‍

 

[jaybee0560]

I have never been with a guy or thought about a guy, I have only ever been with women.

This is going to sound weird but I have moved in with my dad temporarily after I broke up with my girlfriend and his just doing things and saying things that are making me really horny and his always walking around naked etc

I dunno if it’s just the banter that’s making me horny and it’s a power fetish or if I’m bi or gay?

Has any gay guy only been turned on by one man and that means they’re gay, or am I still straight and iv just got this weird kink that’ll pass…has anyone acted on it?

I was Googling stuff snd it lead me to this website, it feels weird but I think that’s what’s turning me on so I think I’m straight and it’s just a kink?

I think, in line with what others have said, no one is gonna know your sexual preferences but you.. and really, that can change massively, I swing wildly from wanting cock to wanting nothing at all to do with men. I think something else is going on here that probably has more to do with you splitting up from your GF rather than anything to do with your dad - maybe your feeling a little disenfranchised or now that you're single you feeling the need to make the most of it and get laid .. How the horn works is a pretty individual process but, for me, I know that sometimes when I'm feeling a little shitty or losing control of my circumstances - my cock immediately pipes up and starts making decisions for me and it took me a while to work out that this was what was going on.. For me, I guess its a way to get some power back by heading out and just having a bunch of sex.

 

[Twoincheshard]

That’s interesting to read that you can be keen on guys and then not at all, feelings this way is super new to me, so it’s really helpful to get another guys prospective.

You’re probably right I think the break up really knocked my confidence as wasn’t expecting it and then living with him and him telling me I’ve got a cocksuckers dick (I know gay guys aren’t all tiny like me, I just looked at Englads page and his super hung!!!) and I’ll never please a woman with that and then hearing him have sex, I’ve never made a woman come like that!!! It’s just something that he talks about every day when we’re getting ready for work or after work so that’s why it’s in my head tbh.

 

[rockmusl1]

Sounds like your old man has a few issues.

 

[Twoincheshard]

Yeah you’re right fella

 

[rockmusl1]

Yeah you’re right fella

Yeah, don’t let him mess with you. You do you.

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

Neither I nor anyone else on this website has a crystal ball to peer into the deepest chasms of your mind and work the answer out for you. Just go and do you, enjoy yourself and have fun with consenting adults who aren't close relatives. Working out your sexuality is an extremely personal journey, no one here has experienced your experiences, fantasies or desires, so we can't honestly answer that question for you.

If you are actually attracted to your father though, well that isn't healthy. That's dodgy, really dodgy.

theres a difference between being attraction to someone or liking what you see--i saw my dad naked years ago--and i saw then why i have what i got now if know what i mean...but in the mind its probably not you attracted to your dad- its what you saw that peaked your interest--we never know what we will be doing when we see something that we like and decide to follow through with it-- so sure why you saw a relative but more than likely its feelings youve had hidden for years that sets things in motion..
we as a society label everything--it just sucks a person cant have sex with a man and/or a woman without being labeled gay or bisexual--how are things going on now

 

[Twoincheshard]

Yeah I’m not attracted to my dad….it’s more him constantly telling/showing me how much bigger he is then me and telling me to suck him off as I he think my dick is too small to please a woman, so I should serve a man.

I guess I’m horny for his cock, or to be like him, rather than horny for him.

 

[renlio125]

I have never been with a guy or thought about a guy, I have only ever been with women.

This is going to sound weird but I have moved in with my dad temporarily after I broke up with my girlfriend and his just doing things and saying things that are making me really horny and his always walking around naked etc

I dunno if it’s just the banter that’s making me horny and it’s a power fetish or if I’m bi or gay?

Has any gay guy only been turned on by one man and that means they’re gay, or am I still straight and iv just got this weird kink that’ll pass…has anyone acted on it?

I was Googling stuff snd it lead me to this website, it feels weird but I think that’s what’s turning me on so I think I’m straight and it’s just a kink?

Hi!

First, I think that one situation doesn't label you. you just go to the process of recognizing yourself and knowing what you really like and enjoy. and if you feel like it, you put a label on it. Gay, straight, or bi.

And welcome here. forums are a good place to talk.

Thank you for your responses and I understand it’s a personal question, I’m just constantly hard all the time and needing to come a few times a day which isn’t like me at all. Something just feels different and i don’t know any gay guys to talk too.
Cheers again…I will see what happens.

you just broke up, having the urge to cum (masturbating or having sex) is usually a coping mechanism.

That’s interesting to read that you can be keen on guys and then not at all, feelings this way is super new to me, so it’s really helpful to get another guys prospective.

You’re probably right I think the break up really knocked my confidence as wasn’t expecting it and then living with him and him telling me I’ve got a cocksuckers dick (I know gay guys aren’t all tiny like me, I just looked at Englads page and his super hung!!!) and I’ll never please a woman with that and then hearing him have sex, I’ve never made a woman come like that!!! It’s just something that he talks about every day when we’re getting ready for work or after work so that’s why it’s in my head tbh.

if you're tiny it doesn't mean you can please a woman. don't compare yourself to others. there's so much more about sex than penetration. I'm not much into women, but there are some books, sex workshops, books, or even threats about other ways for better sex.

your dad has some issues about this, try to get a place for yourself soon and try to heal and grow back your confidence.

Yeah I’m not attracted to my dad….it’s more him constantly telling/showing me how much bigger he is then me and telling me to suck him off as I he think my dick is too small to please a woman, so I should serve a man.

I guess I’m horny for his cock, or to be like him, rather than horny for him.

i think this is bullying.

But you feel free to ask yourself what you really want, there are many answers to that. maybe you're into SDH (small dick humiliation?). or maybe not. or you're just curious because is a different dick so close and you wonder what is to be like that. or maybe not. it could be anything, only you could know.

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

If you just do couple things .. experimenting with a guy and never do it again then no you’re not gay… if you do it more than couple times or a lot then you are gay or at least bisexual

like the site gay for pay .. it’s only gay for pay first couple times then they enjoy it so it makes them bisexual