Do you not realize how stupid you sound?
Just admit that you Never gave a fuck about that family, you care about Yourself and your Dick.
Just. Admit. It.
Feel guilty about getting with married men?
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Do you not realize how stupid you sound?
Just admit that you Never gave a fuck about that family, you care about Yourself and your Dick.
Just. Admit. It.
So you admit that the knowledge of YOUR actions (the two men) would destroy the family. Removing either you or the husband from it would prevent that. But you're certain you aren't as complicit. And somehow this lets you sleep at night.
My hope was that just the thought of having to face the person YOU are hurting would be enough to wake you up to the reality and level of hurt you are causing.
I have the advantage of perspective in this. I've unfortunately been EVERY player in this game...the third-party, the cheating spouse, and the scorned spouse. I was shit. It's a wrong that can't be righted, ever. I was THAT hurt and fucked in the head by my wife's cheating. But eventually I got my head wrapped around it, and have tried to pay that forward by warning off others, as I and others here have tried to do. I only wish I had that benefit of counsel.
Do with this as you will. Your life, your destiny, your conscience.
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I have been with three married men. I was dumb about it at first but figured it is their life and their relationship.
damn...you're a bit of a drama queen.
My point was that I don't owe her anything. I never made any promise to her. Yes I am playing a part in the possibility of this guy's family falling apart. I guess the original point of this thread is do other people feel the same level of guilt and is it enough to keep them away from married people.
Also, I still don't really agree with your logic. The married guy is an adult and he can make his own choices. To me this is the same as owning a restaurant and serving an unhealthy meal to an already overweight person. If you were that owner, would you deny them service?
Just admit that you never gave a fuck in the first place, and that this entire thread is just a sorry attempt at self validation.
All you wanted was dick-thirsty assholes who think like you to tell you that what you're doing isn't something you should feel bad about.
You should. You should feel like a piece of fucking shit, because that's what you damn well are. Accept it. Admit it. And shut the fuck up already.
halcyondays
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I didn't say that morality comes from religion. I said the guilt, shame and taboo about human sexuality does. Death penalties. Scarlet letters. The woman caught committing adultery dragged before Jesus but not the man who was committing it with her. Women killed for not being virgins when they marry.
Why any woman would be a member of an Abrahamic faith with that shit in their holy texts escapes me.
My point. If we were a pair bonding species it would work all the time for all couples. It doesn't because we aren't. In vast numbers it doesn't.
It is the height of naivete to expect humans to be perfect.
If I paint a dramatic picture by suggesting you meet the spouse, your conscience has done that. There might be hope for you, but I doubt it.
You DO owe her something. All people deserve a basic level of respect. Respecting the relationships of others is part of this. Just as you don't just walk up to a couple having dinner, shopping, or just being together in public and hit on one of them, you don't suck some husband's dick when his wife isn't around. The spouse's absence doesn't change the respect deserved for their relationship.
This is like Society 101.
Regarding your analogy: it isn't remotely analogous to relationships. The unhealthy person knows his meal choice is unhealthy. The spouse is completely in the dark about what is happening. Try again.
No, bc I don't let married guys fuck me, but I do blow a lot of married guys (inb4 "That's not any better!", please note: Idc if that's how you feel). I love cock and I think guys with nice cocks deserve to have them worshipped in a way that, in my situation, all of their wives don't do
Pretty stupid comparison because both parties know the deal; the dude serving unhealthy food knows it’s unhealthy, and the person eating this is more than aware of it as well. This would be more like serving unhealthy food in horrible sanitary conditions which mind you would get your place shut down! Sure you’ll get away with it for a while but people are smart..
what....that makes no sense. Both parties what they're doing...just like two grown men having sex.
Also, people are absolutely not smart.
First off, I don't owe a complete stranger any respect...respect is earned, otherwise it would be totally worthless. I mean shit....how can you respect you don't even actually exists?
Second, the husband is the overweight person in the analogy. He knows exactly what he's doing. He's the one that ultimately has to deal with the consequences.
Can you please just try thinking?
I enjoy it when men I find attractive hit on me. When I find out they are married, I still feel flattered, but I also feel a bit sad.
When they turn out to be someone I would really like to get to know, I feel frustrated. Frustrated because I found a cool guy that I'd like to get to know in a between the sheets way, but wouldn't feel right about doing so because they're married.
By this point, I'm pretty much hot and hard and horny, and almost don't give a fuck.
Then I remember the golden rule of do unto others as you would have done unto you.
So I stop, wish the guy well, and leave the door open for more when they figure out their relationship stuff with their spouse.
And I never hear from them again.
All this because yes, I would feel guilty and I don't want to.
When they turn out to be someone I would really like to get to know, I feel frustrated. Frustrated because I found a cool guy that I'd like to get to know in a between the sheets way, but wouldn't feel right about doing so because they're married.
By this point, I'm pretty much hot and hard and horny, and almost don't give a fuck.
Then I remember the golden rule of do unto others as you would have done unto you.
So I stop, wish the guy well, and leave the door open for more when they figure out their relationship stuff with their spouse.
And I never hear from them again.
All this because yes, I would feel guilty and I don't want to.
The other person's marital or relationship status has never overly concerned me. Although I've never gone out of my way to hit on a married woman, if I find out somewhere along the line that she's attached, I feel that's between her and her husband. Although I think I'm hot stuff, I'm not so egotistical as to believe I'm so irresistible that if it weren't for me she'd never have strayed. The seeds of her cheating lie somewhere in their marriage. Likewise, I'm not gay, but if I were, I'd feel much the same way about having sex with a married guy. He's a big boy; it's his problem, not mine.
Paradoxically, when I'm in a relationship, I'm strictly monogamous. Like a "faithful" switch was flipped on. . . . . Except, for some reason, with my first wife. We cheated on each other all the time. I chased after skirt and she chased after bigger cocks.
Paradoxically, when I'm in a relationship, I'm strictly monogamous. Like a "faithful" switch was flipped on. . . . . Except, for some reason, with my first wife. We cheated on each other all the time. I chased after skirt and she chased after bigger cocks.
Can you?
There are TWO people in his relationship. Your actions affect him and his wife. There are more people affected if he has kids.
If respect must be earned on an individual basis....person by person...directly to you...then walk into a biker bar and hit on the biggest guy in there. Walk into ANY bar and hit on one person of any couple you see. Hit on one person of any couple you see on the street. You'll soon learn about respect. You don't understand respect because you're a fucking coward sneaking around, bottom feeding equally cowardly closeted men with wives who "don't understand them" because they wouldn't be honest with them.
I first thought you were merely inconsiderate and simply didn't want to see any of this. I now see you're the worst form of humanity...a sociopath. You know this is wrong, hence your weak claims of "guilt", but you simply don't care.
Go on being you. Eventually you'll be caught, and with any luck learn respect the moment that bullet enters your brain.
What in the fuck are you talking about? Hit on some biker? What does that have to do with respect? Putting myself into a situation where I get my ass kicked has nothing to do with respect. I don't respect criminals in jail....but I certainly wouldn't walk up to one and offer to fuck him in the ass.
Christ, you really are quite stupid.
Why would the biker, the partner of a random couple who you hit on, or your hookup's wife kick your ass? BECAUSE YOU DISRESPECTED THEM.
Respect has two definitions. One is, "due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights or traditions of others". That is what you shit all over when you hook up with someone else's man.
You deserve everything you'll ultimately get, even if it's no more than realizing you're wasting your life bottom-feeding.
sodominsane
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[QUOTE="ItsAll4Kim, post: 8031953, member: 967798"
Go on being you. Eventually you'll be caught, and with any luck learn respect the moment that bullet enters your brain.[/QUOTE]
Go on being you. Eventually you'll be caught, and with any luck learn respect the moment that bullet enters your brain.[/QUOTE]
sodominsane
Legendary Member
Highly unlikely outcome....."pure you will get whats coming to you " fantasy
yea...I've been hooking up with this guy for almost two years now.
sodominsane
Legendary Member
Wow....very impressive
Usually takes a trained psychiatrist multiple interviews.....a mmpi 2 test (about a .Hour and a half of questions).....ruling out diagnoses of schizophrenia. Bipolar and substance abuse.....often nueropsychological testing......
But you got the diagnoses in a few pages on posts on a dick forum!!!!
