Sadly this is true. I'm not shy at all but old geezers oggling me hungrily and desperately while getting changed really isn't my idea of fun.
Like I'm not a prude but an overweight middle aged dude is not gonna be who I wanna get hot and bothered with, sorry. Let's be realistic
Funny to read this - Les Mills in Victoria St in Auckland is one of my fave gyms and have been going there off and on for thirty years. The gang showers, sauna and plunge pool are a good example of the old crowd who are pretty much all nude, or who relatively quickly get nude when they realise most others are - and the young crowd who seem to think its OK to wear their sweaty gym underpants without a shower and sit in the pool or the sauna and look at me like i was the odd one for being nude. Do they think i want to see their ”winkee“? Do they think their “Todger” is somehow unique? It’s a men’s changing room for men, for goodness sake, strip, shower first before the sauna - undies are NOT swimming costumes, and bring an extra towel to use in the sauna if you are so precious. But I agree, the (very few) times there is some creepy dude (not all of them are old), it can be annoying.
in fact, one late Sunday evening at Les Mills, i walked towards the pool carrying my sauna towel. A young dude (with gym shorts) was leaving in the opposite direction, looked at me going past. Sure enough, a couple of minutes later he followed me back into the sauna, still in his gym shorts. I was sitting on my towel, but otherwise nude - as one should be in a sauna - and after a few minutes he lay down, then he sort of lowered his shorts and then sort of took them off. I was the same, sitting still. Next he started playing with I himself a little. I was not. I dont mind a play either but that was not what i was into that evening. He then sat up and looked and me and asked if I minded if he played with himself. I reckon Im always happy to help a dude out and started tugging on mine saying sure, no probs. But then he jumped up and came over to me and pleaded to suck me off. No thanks I said, and continued to tug myself, happy to give him reassurance that i was cool with him getting off. Then he bent over and wanted me to fuck him, showing me his red hole. He said he wanted my “daddy seed” in him. he wanted me to breed him. Not really my thing, but i was happy to give him a handy shandy, which I did For a bit then left. When I came, he wanted me to shoot in his mouth which I was happy to do. My point being, its not just the old dudes who can be creepy.
he was young, fit, nicely hairy, Spanish accent, and I doubt would have had trouble finding partners anywhere. Most guys wont say no to a wank, and i was happy to join in - but only on my terms. He initiated at every stage, and he actually got fucking weird wanting my “daddy seed”. I guess I am just a hot old dude that does that to a young fella - or…. ??? IDK.