HELP/ADVICE needed! I want to suck my best friend, what do I do?

This has been a really bad few months, but the saga is over for now!!! Earlier this week his ex gf assaulted a cop after violating the TRO by slashing the tires on his truck in our driveway. His lawyer told us earlier today that her since she was out on bail from the incident that got him the TRO she will not be granted bail again now, especially with the all they new charges and the violation of the TRO. Lawyer said she will be in jail until all these cases are dealt with (at least a year) and then add whatever she gets sentenced with (looking at 5-10 just for the TRO violation not including the other stuff).

We were so happy to be able to go out to our favorite local fair that started today. It was nice to be able to chill and watch the truck pulls and do other bro stuff today and not have to worry about seeing her crazy ass show up there (although there was an unusual looking pig there that did have a slight resemblance to her, lol).
 
So I decided to wake him up with a blowjob today. He lasted longer this time. A little over 10 minutes but he was asleep for the first 2 or 3 minutes. He asked me "do you mind if I watch this time?" And I said "sure." I could feel he was getting close because he kept tensing and asked "can I face fuck you to finish and cum on your face to finish?" I was like "facefuck sure just go slow so I don't gag, but why would you want to cum on my face instead of in my mouth?" He said "no girl has ever let me cum ON her face before" and I was like "why would you want to cum on someone's fave instead of in their mouth though, mouth would feel better right?" And he said "idk" and I was like "I think it's so you feel like you have power over them and are dominant" he said "maybe, idk I've always been whipped and only did what they would let me do, sometimes they'd give me a little freedom but not usually. I've never even finished in a mouth before until you, every other girl that would actually suck me would either finish me with her hand or make me finish my self when I was close" so I said "ok, do it" so when he was close I took my mouth off his dick and pointed it towards my face and licked his frenulum until he shit on my face. It felt so good and he just watched it happen.
these stories are great but your typo got me rolling "until he shit on my face"... I think you meant SHOT šŸ¤£ jeez what a difference a different vowel makes!
 
You're soooo judgmental. I took the sentence literally.
It was definitely a typo. The thought of that has never even crossed my mind, or his as far as I know. I just wish I could get his mind off of getting circumcised, it's been all over our search history. Idk how to make him be happy and proud he wasn't chopped like I am.
 
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It was definitely a typo. The thought of that has never even crossed my mind, or his as far as I know. I just wish I could get his mind off of getting circumcised, it's been all over our search history. Idk how to make him be happy and proud he wasn't chopped like I am.
I was being facetious. But, while we're on the subject, you can't "make" anybody happy or proud about anything. Those emotions are the province and the responsibility of the person. If you find his attitude distracting and degrading to your concept of a healthy relationship, you seek someone more compatible. Failing to do so, and continuing to try to "make him be happy," will lead to your unhappiness.
 
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has anyone following this thread gotten circumcised by choice, not for medical reasons? If so, how do you feel about having done it? Regrets? Positives/negatives? My guy is still thinking about doing it. While I don't want him to do it, it is ultimately his choice. Figured I would get some opinions of people who have for him to consider.
 
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has anyone following this thread gotten circumcised by choice, not for medical reasons? If so, how do you feel about having done it? Regrets? Positives/negatives? My guy is still thinking about doing it. While I don't want him to do it, it is ultimately his choice. Figured I would get some opinions of people who have for him to consider.
I have gotten it done by choice. My foreskin couldnā€™t go back at all. Personally, I like it. The aesthetic of it is nice, itā€™s easier for me to clean, I noticed it increased in size, but perhaps thatā€™s because of blood flow. The first week it does hurt a bit because of a boner, but the pain is bare-able
 
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I have gotten it done by choice. My foreskin couldnā€™t go back at all. Personally, I like it. The aesthetic of it is nice, itā€™s easier for me to clean, I noticed it increased in size, but perhaps thatā€™s because of blood flow. The first week it does hurt a bit because of a boner, but the pain is bare-able
Would you have done it if you were able to pull it back all the way with no other issues though?
 
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I did something I probably should never have done. I wanted to compare dick size with my wife's ex before she married me. He ended up being bigger than me and he was able to cum faster than me.
Damn really how did that happen ?
 
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I really donā€™t get how straight men seem to have all these experiences with other straight men where they are naked or their dick is hanging out. I have never had a single experience with another man where he or I was naked and certainly never had a sexual experience randomly. Is there something in the water or what? How does something like that just come about naturally???
 
Well it is official!!! After a doctors appointment yesterday, he finally made up his mind to not get circumcised (thank god). As I sucked him off last night I told him he was perfect the way he was. Then as he was getting close he asked if he could finish in my butt. We haven't had sex in a long time because, as I've said before, I don't really like anal, but he said "please, I need a tight hole right now" so we got out the lube, loosened things up a little while I kept sucking him, when I was ready I laid on my back and he put it in missionary, it took him a about a minute to get the tip in because it really hurt, but once it was in, he exploded inside me after only getting about half of his shaft in. As he was cumming he slide the rest of the way in and I jerked myself to finish with him inside me. It was hot. I love him so much and I told him that, and to my shock, he kissed me and said he loved me too and thanked me for talking him out of getting snipped. After we finished I went to clean up and take a shower and when I came back out I noticed he was still half chubbed and was playing with it and moving his skin around, I Superman jumped into the bed, and sucked him off until he nutted again. I am so lucky he is my best friend. We are going on a Christmas steam train ride along a river tonight with some friends and some of his family, hope it's going to be fun too. He looks so sexy wearing his ugly Christmas sweater lol.
 
Well it is official!!! After a doctors appointment yesterday, he finally made up his mind to not get circumcised (thank god). As I sucked him off last night I told him he was perfect the way he was. Then as he was getting close he asked if he could finish in my butt. We haven't had sex in a long time because, as I've said before, I don't really like anal, but he said "please, I need a tight hole right now" so we got out the lube, loosened things up a little while I kept sucking him, when I was ready I laid on my back and he put it in missionary, it took him a about a minute to get the tip in because it really hurt, but once it was in, he exploded inside me after only getting about half of his shaft in. As he was cumming he slide the rest of the way in and I jerked myself to finish with him inside me. It was hot. I love him so much and I told him that, and to my shock, he kissed me and said he loved me too and thanked me for talking him out of getting snipped. After we finished I went to clean up and take a shower and when I came back out I noticed he was still half chubbed and was playing with it and moving his skin around, I Superman jumped into the bed, and sucked him off until he nutted again. I am so lucky he is my best friend. We are going on a Christmas steam train ride along a river tonight with some friends and some of his family, hope it's going to be fun too. He looks so sexy wearing his ugly Christmas sweater lol.
Thanks for the update! It seemed he wanted to for a long time, so what made him finally decide not to get circumcised?
 
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Thanks for the update! It seemed he wanted to for a long time, so what made him finally decide not to get circumcised?
I think I a combination of things finally made him decide to opt out of it. A number of his ex gfs didn't like foreskin, and his older brother is cut so he got picked on by him, but I guess his parents didn't want to do it to him too because his bro had an infection or something after he had it done. I guess he always also felt out of place when doing sports/showers. Idk if he knows a single other person that is uncut. But I asked him like "if nobody ever said anything negative about it to you, what would you do" and I think that was the snap he needed to decide against it. He was only wanting to do it because of all the negative interactions he had with other people about it. He also has a very short foreskin and I guess the doctor even said it would be purely cosmetic since he doesn't have any issues with tightness, cleanliness, etc. and there was no medical reason to do it. I'm sure the price, recovery time, and the thought of someone cutting part of your dick off at our age probably sunk in too. I am just happy he didn't, I like playing with it and teasing around it with my tongue when I suck him off. It drives him wild. I still suck him off at least once a day and sometimes I can make him go from soft to orgasm in less than 2 minutes. He is kinda into ball squeezing as he cums now so every once in a while I will pull on them hard as he finishes. I gave him the "hand from beyond" on his balls when he started to climax a few weeks ago to try something new and he almost bucked me off and rolled his eyes back into his head because his orgasm was so violent, lol. (If you didn't know what the "hand from beyond" is, it's when you put your hand in ice water until it is freezing cold and then suddenly grab the balls as you just start to finish. Saw someone post about it on a kink list and surprised him with it without telling him in advance). Lol.