homoerotic behavior

Homoeroticism is about sexually-charged moments between straight men. It didn't need to be anything more than this. It's a great moment.
But the guy who made the post is not straight. He likes men( he is bi according to profile). Sometimes the side that likes men can be reading too much into encounter.
 
My straight arab friend likes to rub his bulge in my butt whenever he sees me and kissed my cheek when I made stupid jokes that he found hilarious. I both hate and love that he teases me really hard.
I had one straight college friend who love to give each other back massage at night in the hostel. He loved to rub his hard cock at my butt pretending like he's fucking me, but with clothes on. I really enjoyed it and hated it at the same time because I could feel his cock but he never wanted to take off our clothes.
 
Back in the 1980s, and perhaps beyond, when I was attending school basketball games, the coaches routinely would pat the butt of a player coming off of the court. Not naked, of course, but this unusual behavior was routinely accepted.
 
I had a friend years ago who, whenever we went to Florida together, he called out that he was sleeping with me and the other two guys had the other bed (2 beds 4 guys). When the lights went out he'd roll over and spoon me. I didn't think much of it and frankly enjoyed it. Then on a ski vacation with him and his brothers and sisters we again shared a room. Every night the same thing. He'd spoon me and fall asleep. Then one morning I slept late and he came back in the room, crawled under the covers cuddling with me and began licking my ears and whispering that it was time to get up - very playful but I was hard as a rock. But nothing ever happened.

A few years later he was living on his own and I went to visit. We had too much to drink and he said I could stay over. He threw me a blanket and pointed to the sofa. I said, no way... we shared beds way too many times for him to shove me on the sofa. He said ok and I climbed into his bed. Over the night however I spooned him. He jumped out of bed said he wasn't gay or even bi and didn't appreciate what just happened. I reminded him of the countless times he spooned me in Florida and the ski vacation ear licking and he said that was just playing!

We've not seen or talked to each other since.

and this is exactly the kind of mindfuck why we ask all of these questions but then there's always a straight dude writing that "not all straights want to do this! Why do you fantasize about that??" - The issue is not with us but with the self-identified straight dudes that pull this kind of shit.​

 
I had a friend years ago who, whenever we went to Florida together, he called out that he was sleeping with me and the other two guys had the other bed (2 beds 4 guys). When the lights went out he'd roll over and spoon me. I didn't think much of it and frankly enjoyed it. Then on a ski vacation with him and his brothers and sisters we again shared a room. Every night the same thing. He'd spoon me and fall asleep. Then one morning I slept late and he came back in the room, crawled under the covers cuddling with me and began licking my ears and whispering that it was time to get up - very playful but I was hard as a rock. But nothing ever happened.

A few years later he was living on his own and I went to visit. We had too much to drink and he said I could stay over. He threw me a blanket and pointed to the sofa. I said, no way... we shared beds way too many times for him to shove me on the sofa. He said ok and I climbed into his bed. Over the night however I spooned him. He jumped out of bed said he wasn't gay or even bi and didn't appreciate what just happened. I reminded him of the countless times he spooned me in Florida and the ski vacation ear licking and he said that was just playing!

We've not seen or talked to each other since.
Hot and sad at the same time.