You can't just give your advice without calling people names? And, yes, I have a body image issue. Does that mean I'm not a "healthy adult" but a troll and should be criticized for my concerns? Just because someone has a concern you've never heard of before does not mean they're a troll.
How Do You Deal With Cirucmcision Grief?
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You can't just give your advice without calling people names? And, yes, I have a body image issue. Does that mean I'm not a "healthy adult" but a troll and should be criticized for my concerns? Just because someone has a concern you've never heard of before does not mean they're a troll.
You’re verbatim posting incorrect and disproven intactivist propaganda. That makes you a troll. Period. End of discussion, troll.
For me growing up. I didn't know anything else. I am cut and normal. Very happy with my cut dick. I can't grieve over something I never had. Can't change it, just like I can't change my dick size. Life is to short to be worried over being cut.
The people here have given you good advice so far. It seems to me that you're either unwilling to accept it or that you've just come here to argue. FWIW, I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt but there's no point in repeating the same thing over and over.
If you want to do foreskin restoration because you like the aesthetic better, then by all means do it. Just don't pretend like it's a moral or conquest. Don't expect people to treat you like a victim for having a medical procedure that ~40% of other men have also had.
Does it suck that people didn't get a choice in the matter? Yes.
Should we be doing this to infants pre-emptively without a medical reason to? No.
Was it part of some evil plan? No.
You need to get control of yourself and realize that your anger is not rational. This genuinely doesn't matter unless you make it matter. Being so angry and insecure is going to ruin your ability to enjoy your body way more than any bit of nerve tissue ever could.
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can't help, I'm a non griever , love my pecker in all its glory!
But I am accepting their advice? Just trying to gather multiple viewpoints... What's so wrong with that? And actually anger is natural response to issues such as these, especially when a part of your genitals was taken from you without your consent. And actually I've noticed that refraining from masterbation has helped me keep these feelings of grief away so that's why I try not to do it and that's way I'm abstinate.
Propaganda is exactly what it is. Hell it would make Goebbels proud. Numerous studies have proven that what intactivists are saying regarding penile sensitivity after circumcision isn't true. Just because you choose not to believe it doesn't mean it's not true. It just shows that you're not able to critically think and let idiots do your thinking for you - what does that say about you, troll? It says that your incapable of changing your world view based on new and credible evidence and that is NOT the mark of a mature adult.
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I personally love my circumcised cock. There's nothing to be ashamed of and I have zero complaints about my tool from myself or others. It's a matter of taste -- and probably because they look like mine -- but I also personally think circumcised dicks look more photogenic too. Part of the fun of enjoying your manhood is getting in tune with the body you have and literally finding yourself in your own skin, whatever that is. Best wishes man, but hopefully you can find peace in enjoying and appreciating yourself for who you are.
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This may be the most ridiculous thread of all time, I should start having grief that I’m not 7ft tall, wasn’t born into money, and anything else that some have as conveniences.
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Compassionately I understand the feelings of regret.. my first man was uncut and I was fascinated more than anything by his cock. But I didn't feel inferior. The anguish came with a prostate cancer diagnosis after years of marriage and repressing my innate sexuality.. and whatever erectile response I had was glacially slow to return even though surgeon said picture perfect reconstruction. Now THAT is something to stew about. Forget a little piece of skin!
I started injection therapy and though I need a well timed private moment to take my shot, it's the reassurance of a partner that I'm OK as I am that makes it work, not even the rock-hard boner from the medication.
So for anyone feeling the grass is greener, I say be happy with yourself and most importantly I hope your partner is happy with you because therein lies the real source of self contentment
I started injection therapy and though I need a well timed private moment to take my shot, it's the reassurance of a partner that I'm OK as I am that makes it work, not even the rock-hard boner from the medication.
So for anyone feeling the grass is greener, I say be happy with yourself and most importantly I hope your partner is happy with you because therein lies the real source of self contentment
Just for a moment, challenge your own beliefs on this topic:
Despite a few ounces of foreskin, for some it is worth more
Consider cut cocks as an improvement based on what?
Challenge your bias which in the United States is usually, cut is better, cleaner, healthier. Whose narative was that?
Is it mutilation or amputation given it is cut off?
Do you believe everything the "experts" tell you? Of course they would say circumcsion doesn't reduce penile sensitivity because (1) they don't want to enrage the millions of men who are circumcised and (2) if they reveal the horrors of circumcision, the medical industry would have a harder time profiting off of circumcision.
Should we even trust "experts" that are in the business of cutting up the genitalia of people who can't even consent? You really trust people like that? It's common sense if you cut off a part of someone's genitalia, their sensitivity and sexual experience will be negatively affected (especially if you cut off the three most erogenous parts of their genitalia which is what happens in circumcision)
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