How many close "straight friends" you suspect or confirmed that are bi curious ?
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Wanna tell us more about how you found out and what happened between you two ?Only one. It was nice to know that and to help him first hand
Well he was a friend from my university. Same lessons, same schedule. We spent a lot of time together. After some years I come out to my closest friend (which meant to him too).
After a night of drinks, I crushed on the couch at his place. He offered to share the bed with me and I said "Why not?"
Then we started to chat in the bed together about deep things, like love, friendship, boundaries, experimentations. We were not drunk, a bit tipsy maybe, but we were pretty clear headed while talking. Flirt was not the idea conversations started with, but we slowly felt drawn to it. We had some kissing, gentle cuddles and a final mutual JO. It was nice. We did not talk about that and nothing else ever happened between us. We are still friend and it was a nice moment.
Booze helps bring those walls down.
I’ve had some big nights on the beers with my predominantly straight friends which have ended up with us making out, getting our dicks out/getting naked, jumping in the shower together and so on. I’d say the ones that participate were atleast a little bit bi-curious.
I’ve had some big nights on the beers with my predominantly straight friends which have ended up with us making out, getting our dicks out/getting naked, jumping in the shower together and so on. I’d say the ones that participate were atleast a little bit bi-curious.
I have a Muslim male best friend who is a few years younger than me. He gives me so many mixed signals that my head feels like it could explode from the confusion of it all.
Yes, plenty of guys will start to explore their bi curious side when they have been drinking
Only one, tbh. Though I was the bi curious guy of the group that a gay friend successfully identified when I was younger. We had a lot of fun for quite some time once he learned (and kept) my secret.
It's such a strange feeling when someone you know works out your unspoken interest because they have the same interest- a mixture of apprehension, tension, validation, relief and that spark of "maybe something will happen".
Exactly! Was like a boulder off my shoulders being able to be the "real me" with him, and then when we took things further, it was just... bliss. To this day I count him among my closest of friends.
I do not know how many, but I certainly know which of them I hope ARE bi!
BF and I have an friend who is ostensibly straight, usually has a good looking girl, but several times in the last month he has made comments to both of us that indicate he has been thinking about sex with men. We discussed this a couple of weeks ago and we were both a bit surprised that he would be interested. Last Friday evening he called in after work and we had a few drinks together, and after a few more we got onto talking about MM stuff and his comments. He looked a bit uncomfortable for a moment until I explained that plenty of guys had similar thoughts and it wasn't a big deal; we had both been there before and didn't mind if he had questions.
He had lots of questions...
I asked him how long he had been curious and he said 9 months, maybe more. Somehow I think he will be trying cock soon...
He had lots of questions...
I asked him how long he had been curious and he said 9 months, maybe more. Somehow I think he will be trying cock soon...
^^^
Definitely interested from what he said during the week. I' offered to introduce him to someone I know who will be gentle with him and he accepted, so I introduced them on Saturday at a party and they soon disappeared into the spare room. We will see but I expect he will be back for more...
Definitely interested from what he said during the week. I' offered to introduce him to someone I know who will be gentle with him and he accepted, so I introduced them on Saturday at a party and they soon disappeared into the spare room. We will see but I expect he will be back for more...
I only recently found out my married best friend of 20+ years is bi-curious. He know's I'm gay, and I have been in two long term relationships since1999. We used to get drunk and go to dirty bookstores together when we were younger, but he always stayed in a booth alone watching straight porn. We never talked about sex much, and I only told him things when he asked. But two years ago, he started asking me more questions and wanted all the details, and eventually confessed he was bi-curious. It's understood that we won't play with each other, but he has expressed a lot of interest in watching me with another guy. One day on the golf course he asked to see me hard, so I showed him. Then he asked if I any videos of me solo, so I showed him a video of how far I shoot my loads. A couple weeks later he asked to watch me jack off and shoot my big load in front of him, so I did. Our friendship has really become a non-sexual bromance, and now we talk about our sex lives regularly. His fantasy is for both of us together in the same room with different partners fucking our brains out. LOL Given the right circumstances I'm sure it could happen one day.
you should post some of those videos you showed your friend
Neither would admit it for different reasons, but I suspect that two of my friends have slept with other. Plus there's a different member of that friend group who I've been told is bi, but I have no evidence of that.
There's also two guys at work who I'm pretty sure I've seen on Grindr.
There's also two guys at work who I'm pretty sure I've seen on Grindr.
My one friend I’m pretty sure is. He and I openly discuss sex. He has an OF and he knows I subscribe to it because he said it was cool too, so he knows I’ve seen his dick. He’s made comments that he’d be okay with another guy sucking his dick to see what it’s like. He also once out of the blue said he wondered what it felt like to get his ass eaten while getting head. I’ve never pushed him to experiment since it’s his decision, but there’s sort of an implied “if you want to, I’m down”. Hard part is we live a decent bit away from each other and all the recent times we’ve hung out, it’s been with other people. I have a suspicion that if it was just us two alone, something might happen.
I have plenty stories lol
one is an old roommate of mine. He knew I messed around with dudes but he was cool about it always having a gf. It didn’t matter because I wasn’t attractive to him so we never crossed that road. Although one time I came home and he was snuggled up to another guy (guy was very gay) I didn’t comment on it but went straight to my room. That was my first sign. Another sign was his gf arguing with him about the same dude saved in his phone under a girls name. He played it off somehow I forgot how after all these years.
So jumping to the clarifying conclusion lol one night after he had moved out for like six months, we went out to get drinks. I ended up getting a booty call so I cut the night short but I had to drive him home. We get back to his apt and he doesn’t want to get out. Mind you, I’m still trying to get to my booth call. Eventually, I thought that maybe if i said something really gay he’d finally leave. So I said, “if you don’t get out the car then I’m just gonna suck your dick.” He acted like he didn’t hear me so I just reached my hand in his pants expecting him to stop me but he didn’t. Lol we ended up fooling around in the car right in front of his apt with the windows fogging up. We didn’t want it to end there but we needed somewhere to go to be a bit more comfortable. We couldn’t go to his apt because of his gf so we got a hotel room and he fucked me all night.
We still hang out from time to time but not as often after all these years. But yea that’s how I found out one of my mates were bi-curious.
one is an old roommate of mine. He knew I messed around with dudes but he was cool about it always having a gf. It didn’t matter because I wasn’t attractive to him so we never crossed that road. Although one time I came home and he was snuggled up to another guy (guy was very gay) I didn’t comment on it but went straight to my room. That was my first sign. Another sign was his gf arguing with him about the same dude saved in his phone under a girls name. He played it off somehow I forgot how after all these years.
So jumping to the clarifying conclusion lol one night after he had moved out for like six months, we went out to get drinks. I ended up getting a booty call so I cut the night short but I had to drive him home. We get back to his apt and he doesn’t want to get out. Mind you, I’m still trying to get to my booth call. Eventually, I thought that maybe if i said something really gay he’d finally leave. So I said, “if you don’t get out the car then I’m just gonna suck your dick.” He acted like he didn’t hear me so I just reached my hand in his pants expecting him to stop me but he didn’t. Lol we ended up fooling around in the car right in front of his apt with the windows fogging up. We didn’t want it to end there but we needed somewhere to go to be a bit more comfortable. We couldn’t go to his apt because of his gf so we got a hotel room and he fucked me all night.
We still hang out from time to time but not as often after all these years. But yea that’s how I found out one of my mates were bi-curious.
Hot story bro ! Keep it going, wanna more details.
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