I don't have to imagine being a guy, I'm a woman who is also emotionally and sexually attracted to other women.
I couldn't tell you what I've done to attract any of them. I'm so flipping socially awkward that I tend to just fluff my colorful tail feathers and let the freak flag fly. It seems to do a disproportionately though acceptable job at attracting ladies and gents. I talk, well, ramble. Sometimes incoherently about whatever book or nerdy thing I'm obsessing over in that minute.
Maybe that works? Hell, if a gent was chatting with me over nerdy obsessions of his or even a book, I'd be hooked lol. He's my people. So, yeah? Be yourself, be confident. Don't hide beyond some toxic bravado of being manly. Listen to ladies, they are sometimes pretty clear about intentions, less hint hint nudge nudge.
Really though, what am I saying? I'm a socially awkward penguin. My mate is arguably more weird than I am, and most ladies or men I attract seem to be the same.
Don't listen to me, I was bored and typing this while also thinking about potatos in the air fryer and testing more cookie recipes.