Wow, It looks like you have a tons of validated data to corroborate your claims.
Or maybe not.
Btw, you know that USA are a very small part of the world?
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Or maybe not.
Btw, you know that USA are a very small part of the world?
I’m just going to have to respectfully disagree with you there.
MOST of the time, people can simply look at a person and come to an agreement on whether or not the person is white/black/Latino/Asian/etc.
beyond that, I agree you obviously can’t tell about their background or ancestry. But to say different races don’t have fundamental visual differences that typically (notice I said typically—there are always exceptions) distinguish them from each other is ignoring a very basic human element.
Not that it’s the best analogy, but that would be akin to saying huskies and poodles are sometimes ambiguous (and before you go there... no one better accuse me of conflating breeds of dogs to “breeds” of humans... it’s just a comparison of logic)
Human, but some people could argue that politicians are reptilians
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Like Mitch McConnell?Human, but some people could argue that politicians are reptilians
Mixed. But a large contingent of people would claim hes black.
there was even a group of voters who were very vocal about voting for him “because he’s black.”
It’s possible for people to come to a general consensus on these things.
What race am I?
“Mixed” means a mix of races. It’s a pretty good term for the people who actually DO look ambiguous.
keanu reeves is probably also mixed. But there’s probably plenty of people out there that would argue that he’s white, and they’d have a good case for it.
as far as his attractiveness, for me personally, he’s not particularly UNattractive, but I wouldn’t say he’s extremely attractive either. Just doesn’t quite fit the bill for someone I would call “my type” strictly by looking at him.
nonetheless, I probably wouldn’t turn down sex with someone who looks like him if I was in the mood.
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So let me ask you this, how do you decide if you have sex with someone if they are mixed? Consider the two examples: Obama is mixed but looks Black and Keanu is mixed but looks White.
You don’t “decide” if someone is attractive or not. It’s not a choice you can make.
I have never looked at someone and said “I’m going to decide to be attracted to them.” It just happens. You look at someone, and visually, they trigger a chemical reaction in your brain that releases hormones that make you feel horny.
It’s the same with food. I didn’t “decide” to enjoy steak. I just do. That’s the way my body is designed. And when my taste buds come into contact with steak, it releases a chemical reaction in my brain that tells my body “this is good... you enjoy this.”
if I had to choose one to have sex with, I would take Keanu over Obama, because I find him to be more attractive than Obama—race aside.
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All of what you said is besides the point. My question is how do you decide whether you will have sex with someone. I am not asking you whatever is it you thought I asked. Dating or having sex are conscious decisions. You don't simply act on evry animalistic instinct you have.
You have repeatedly defended the idea that someone can decide to not have sex with someone solely based on race. You have said you can tell ppl race by looking at them. I am asking you how does race play into the equation? As someone who doesn't even entertain the idea of having a ratial preference in dating, I genuinely dont understand how you look at someone and say, oh he is black, oh no sorry no sex.
I mean, isnt that what it comes down to? Is either one or the other. Either you have a race preference in dating or you simply have a type that sorts of loosely fit into a certain racial category. One is consciously and intentionally racist, the other is racist but perhaps only at an unconscious level. One makes you a racist, the other one makes you someone with suspicious tendencies to be prejudiced against a specific group.
So which one are you? I still cant tell because you are all over the place. You like mostly white guys but they can be a little dark and you dont really like blacks but there is some hypothetical black man who may or may not be light skin who you could be attracted to. You claim not to be racist but then you list skin color as a thing you think of when you think of attractiveness and what is more worrying, you then claim that race can be linked to skin color but then you backtrack and say that skin color can vary even among blacks.
So just tell me: if racial preference is perfectly fine, how do you use that preference in you dating/sex life? How is it even useful if some ppl are mixed and cant be placed in a box and if by your own account skin color is not a solid proxy for race? Why are you even arguing that racial preferences are ok? Your own arguments and examples just show it is a stupid idea to begin with that has no use in real life.
If I find them attractive, I am willing to have sex with someone. If i DONT find them attractive, i choose not to have sex with them.
you can choose to not have sex with someone for whatever reason you want. I don’t see you complaining about people not having sex with someone because they’re not tall enough, or because they’re overweight, or because they’re not masculine or feminine enough. Why does the persons race strike such a chord with you all of a sudden? You are attracted to whatever you’re attracted to—and you’re trying to tell someone “no... your rules for attraction are wrong.”
also, it’s not like someone finds someone attractive, and wants to have sex with them, then all of a sudden finds out they’re black and says “oh no, sorry no sex.”
If you’re not attracted to someone, the thought of having sex with them just never enters your mind. Again, you don’t make an active decision NOT to have sex with them.
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It didn’t need fixing. It’s a fact. Larger white women are more common to be with black men
U simple, racist dipshit
I am going to skip over the semantics because it is rather silly. Lets get to the point.
Dating is by itself a process of discrimination. You have to discriminate in order to decide/whateveryoucallwhatmakesyiurpantsonfire who you go to bed with. Discrimination means the ability to tell things apart. In this case who tickles the head you dont use to think and who doesnt.
So if you dont like fat women or tall guys, you are discriminating against them.
If you discriminate based on race, it has a name. Its called racism. Despite the fact that this term conjures images in your head of lynching and burning crosses, it is also a word with a pretty simple definition.
If that word is too stinging then try this: once you decide (eg in your case your penis decides) not to approach someone based on external characteristics such as race, you are prejudging them. This is prejudice. If you dont ever talk to fat ppl then you are prejudiced against them. If you apply this to race and you just would never approach or talk to a black man, then you are prejudiced against blacks. Thats it. As they say in my country, esto no pare mas. This cant give anymore. There is no way around it.
Thats the whole point of this thread and your argument. Is it racist to have a racial preference? Yes, by definition it is.
He is not only racist but he sounds like he is "slow". I would simply ignore him. He is not the kind of person who will have a smart and intelligent conversation worth your time.
dude... he’s trolling you. Stop feeding him. All he wants to see is you getting angry—don’t give him that pleasure.
I mean... that’s a pretty loose definition of discrimination.
And you’re getting in REAL danger of calling someone a racist simply because they won’t have sex with you.
also, if that’s what you truly believe, you’re going to have to reconcile your beliefs with the people who think only white people can be racist, because of the “racism = prejudice + power” paradigm. So you’re not really solving any problems there... just creating new ones.
I’m curious... do you believe black people can be racist? And if not, is it racist when a white person rejects a black person for sex, but not vice versa?
So many questions...
I am aware of the US's population relative to the rest of the world, so please provide me a better example of a multicultural multi racial, large populated location by which homogeny and ingrained tradition are the scapegoats by which parties within can claim simple preference. Add that to us being the largest former colony of the formerly largest empire on Earth, it stands to reason some attitudes here run parallel to attitudes to a much larger percentage of the worlds population, given they stemmed from Kingdom upon which the sun did not set. So US problems are British problems, are Canadian problems, are Australian problems, are Indian problems. The interracial interactions specifically betweens whites and blacks span an even wider scope thanks to the entirety of european colonization, which means this is a pertinent question to all of the African diaspora, so go and toss in Brazil, the Caribbean, South Africa.
...youre not as far removed as you may think.
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