New to anal stimulation/prostate massage

Some guys (like me) need a pretty firm push against my prostate. If you can find a wand that fits you with a vibrating head, that will give you the best chance to find out.

My first toy looked like this:
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You have to be pretty careful with the prostate. Inserting anything into it can give you a prostate infection and lead to Prostatitis. Prostatitis is a frequently painful condition that involves inflammation of the prostate and sometimes the areas around the prostate. Scientists have identified four types of prostatitis: chronic prostatitis or chronic pelvic pain syndrome. acute bacterial prostatitis. chronic bacterial prostatitis. It is not worth the risk.
 
You have to be pretty careful with the prostate. Inserting anything into it can give you a prostate infection and lead to Prostatitis. Prostatitis is a frequently painful condition that involves inflammation of the prostate and sometimes the areas around the prostate. Scientists have identified four types of prostatitis: chronic prostatitis or chronic pelvic pain syndrome. acute bacterial prostatitis. chronic bacterial prostatitis. It is not worth the risk.
It's a firm pressing but nothing uncomfortable. For me it's only silicone, stainless steel, or glass that goes in me.
 
The elusive quest to find that thing up in there... Unless everything I've read is wrong, I don't know... Stories and accounts all say once you find it, there's no mistaking it. Njoy may have found it once, but it was nothing special really, just a little different. The quest continues...
I think that an "analgasm" is all about "set and setting": You have the right mindset (horny and relaxed). And you're in the right setting (not rushed for time or circumstances). As I've said before... a little weed does wonders...

Speaking of Njoy... I have "The Eleven". I've done the large end twice in a year now. I won't say it really hurts and much as the shock of when it pops in and out is mind blowing. Editors note: this has nothing to do with prostate play...

So I guess what I'm saying is it's about the journey, not the destination.
 
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I own the njoy wand ! This is one of the best toys for me.
I have others for the prostate but it's the only one that goes where it should easily :heart_eyes:

But I would like to have your opinions on the use and the sensations.

I use both tips with no problem but the big fills me up so much that I prefer the small for precision. Because the big gives me pleasure but not necessarily to my prostate.

So I use it lying in bed, once in place on my prostate, so I feel this urge to urinate.

I slide the wand and I try to have a regular and sufficient rhythm to bring up this feeling of urination and heat.

My cock at this time is soft.

After 10 - 15 minutes I feel this heat that starts in the prostate who is now at the end of my cock, like I was going to expel, I relax my ass to the maximum and my muscles.
This feeling is nice but strange because it feels like I'm going to urinate but nothing comes out.

And suddenly my cock becomes hard, the sensations that are located at the end of my cock are scattered throughout my tail area, balls, prostate. It's very nice But after that nothing..

I become soft again and I repeat the same thing several times until I finish with my hands because nothing more this product..

Tell me what am I doing wrong? :oops:

I have already managed to ejaculate with the wand but for that I played a little with my cock at the same time so that the excitement was at its maximum.
But in the end it felt like a classic penis orgasm.

I would really like to be able to have shaking orgasms!

And I would also like to be able to empty my prostate without orgasm, to then jerk off and have a completely dry orgasm (emptied by the wand before)

Sorry for the long post but I need help :emoji_sweat_smile:
 
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I'm also new to this idea, but now super intrigued and making it my personal mission to get to a prostate orgasm... Is it worth it to start with just fingering myself instead of a toy?

I know how to find it, and I already like the pressure against it when I bottom. Could I get there if I lay down and use a finger or two to massage it? I'm just usually stroking myself at the same time, which sounds like is the counterintuitive thing to do... The more you know... =)
 
I'm also new to this idea, but now super intrigued and making it my personal mission to get to a prostate orgasm... Is it worth it to start with just fingering myself instead of a toy?

I know how to find it, and I already like the pressure against it when I bottom. Could I get there if I lay down and use a finger or two to massage it? I'm just usually stroking myself at the same time, which sounds like is the counterintuitive thing to do... The more you know... =)
To better locate the area, feel the sensations and get to know your body better, I think it's worth starting with your fingers.
But personally my arm wears out after a while so it's hard to have orgasms that way.

And a piece of advice, for more success, refrain from ejaculating for a few days to be relatively more sensitive and excited !
 
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I own the njoy wand ! This is one of the best toys for me.
I have others for the prostate but it's the only one that goes where it should easily :heart_eyes:

But I would like to have your opinions on the use and the sensations.

I use both tips with no problem but the big fills me up so much that I prefer the small for precision. Because the big gives me pleasure but not necessarily to my prostate.

So I use it lying in bed, once in place on my prostate, so I feel this urge to urinate.

I slide the wand and I try to have a regular and sufficient rhythm to bring up this feeling of urination and heat.

My cock at this time is soft.

After 10 - 15 minutes I feel this heat that starts in the prostate who is now at the end of my cock, like I was going to expel, I relax my ass to the maximum and my muscles.
This feeling is nice but strange because it feels like I'm going to urinate but nothing comes out.

And suddenly my cock becomes hard, the sensations that are located at the end of my cock are scattered throughout my tail area, balls, prostate. It's very nice But after that nothing..

I become soft again and I repeat the same thing several times until I finish with my hands because nothing more this product..

Tell me what am I doing wrong? :oops:

I have already managed to ejaculate with the wand but for that I played a little with my cock at the same time so that the excitement was at its maximum.
But in the end it felt like a classic penis orgasm.

I would really like to be able to have shaking orgasms!

And I would also like to be able to empty my prostate without orgasm, to then jerk off and have a completely dry orgasm (emptied by the wand before)

Sorry for the long post but I need help :emoji_sweat_smile:
Keep trying. Really relax. Prostate orgasms aren't like a traditional o. Don't have expectations. It sounds like your super close
 
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To better locate the area, feel the sensations and get to know your body better, I think it's worth starting with your fingers.
But personally my arm wears out after a while so it's hard to have orgasms that way.

And a piece of advice, for more success, refrain from ejaculating for a few days to be relatively more sensitive and excited !
Switching up positions can help as well
 
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Keep trying. Really relax. Prostate orgasms aren't like a traditional o. Don't have expectations. It sounds like your super close
Thank you for your answer ! If I'm on the right track then I'm reassured :relieved:

With the pure wand not easy to find a good position different from on the back!?

Should I be gentler in my gestures? Or is a steady rhythm good?
 
View media item 10104631This is with the pure wand. Bent over, standing, sqauting, all worked for me. Back did as well. Small movements, side to side, front to back. Circular works wonders
:heart_eyes: I'm jealous
Thanks for that ! I'm going to try another position like you, and do circular movements!
'Cause I'm only doing a repeated pressing motion
 
Go past your prostate, drag the bulb over your prostate and then curle it towards your navel. It will force the fluid out
Oh yes I want to get drained Like that ! I will test this tonight.

From 1 to 10, what would be the power of pressure to force sperm
 
It depends on your body. Not alot. Hit the rights spots and you should get some.
 
I could not recommend The aneros more highly. I have had some seriously amazing orgasms from this little device and what I love is that each orgasm is so different. There are those that Is just completely in my head, those that make my eyes see colours, ones that make my cock just Throb but no ejaculation And then there is the orgasm through just the movement of Aneros in my arse. Once you find the right spot it is seriously so exhilarating and sexy that it is hard to imagine cumming without itinserted. I’ve got to the stage where I ejaculatewhen it is in my arse. It is such a cool toy, and I often try to get the same sort of feelings though the constant in an out actually does not appeal to me as much but hey that’s just me
 
I'm also new to this idea, but now super intrigued and making it my personal mission to get to a prostate orgasm... Is it worth it to start with just fingering myself instead of a toy?

I know how to find it, and I already like the pressure against it when I bottom. Could I get there if I lay down and use a finger or two to massage it? I'm just usually stroking myself at the same time, which sounds like is the counterintuitive thing to do... The more you know... =)
Get an Aneros. Can’t emphasize this any more. Also, do NOT touch your dick when using a prostate massager.