It appears that my first reply to you post was deleted. I don't know what I said that caused may have warranted that...but I will try again with some more-moderate phrasing:

I think that you entirely missed my point…

What I’ve been saying is NOT that the US is any more (or less) religious today than it has been in the past, but instead that the religion practiced today (at whatever level) is a lot more OVERT in its actions and activities than it was previously. There is a big difference…

Additionally, you're drawing causations regarding society that are not necessarily valid.

I too grew up in Los Angeles—but in the 50s/60s/70s—so I can attest to much of what you are saying as far as the restrictions on various strata of society at that time. And, while Los Angeles may have always been a bit “different” from other places, I did spend time growing up in other parts of the country as well…and saw how they too lived within the same general American culture. In my comments, I have never denied that these restrictions were there, although in some places they were stronger than others. But instead, I’ve said that these things were not often “enforced”---or even much commented on in a media sense---by the mainline religions of the time. And certainly, many/most parts of society itself ignored much of it.

And, yes…many (if not most) of those legal restrictions were the results of hundreds, if not thousands, of years of Judeo/Christian thought. However, during much of the 20th century it was not the churches that were continuing to drive the restrictions. With the exception of the Catholic Church banging on about abortion, very few churches got politically involved in much of anything. Instead, their attitude was really pretty much laissez-faire outside of their own purview.

Homosexuality, while it may have been frowned up (and illegal, certainly) was not railed at from the pulpit. There were many gay and lesbian churchgoers (incognito, to be sure). And women, while they may have been confined to second-tier status by our government (again at the direction of Judeo-Christian moral beliefs), nevertheless held their own in the family structure. In fact, many women actually worked, and they often were the one’s managing the household budget.

In other words, the times weren’t quite as hideous as you are describing. If one was marginalized, one learned to work within that system to their own advantage (and safety). To assume that there were no happy and successful gay men and women (there were, I grew up knowing many), nor any successful and happy housewives (the women of my neighborhood would certainly tell you differently), is to deny the reality of life then. It may not have always been easy…but it could certainly be a fulfilling life.

So, what I am saying is that many marginalized people lived full lives. The government did not arbitrarily come sweeping in and arresting gay men and women, unless they themselves put themselves in compromising positions. In fact, I knew several gay men who STILL held government jobs. And if a woman got pregnant with an unwanted child, or as you quote, “because a guy knocked up a girl”, they actually DID very frequently get an abortion—even if abortion was illegal and they had to do it dangerously, and under-the-radar. I’m not making a value judgement here…but that is a FACT. And, yes, almost all of these people—gay or straight—were members of mainline religions, and many were regular churchgoers.

So, while the churches may have been very much against both situations in their dogma—and would certainly not condone either situation—they never vocally vilified it, either. Instead, most religions just turned a blind eye to it. They certainly didn’t excommunicate anyone for their “sins”.

Hypocrisy?!? Certainly…no doubt about it.

And, that’s why the laws changed–-NOT because people became “less religious”, but because the Courts realized the hypocrisy of trying to implement and maintain laws for a society that, while very much still spiritual, realized that some things are still just going to happen…as they have since the beginning of time…and that the decision of sexuality and abortion was a very personal one.

Of course, all of this was still happening with our money saying “in God we trust”; and with our government officials swearing “in God we trust”; and with all of us saying our Pledge of Allegiance. Those things have no relation to each other—it’s apples and oranges.

You do have a valid point, as I said in an earlier post, in that there are more people today that identify as atheist or agnostic than did back in the 50s/60s/70s. Additionally, as I mentioned previously, there has been a huge decline in mainline church attendance. I would say many of these people are still “spiritual”...but have subsequently decided that mainline religions didn’t meet their needs. HOWEVER, at the same time there has also been a huge rise in the Evangelical types of religions since then (look it up, it's been steadily growing for years) that almost negates the atheist/agnostic/mainline religion trend. And it is these new religious forms that have become far more virulent---and are today trying to drag the nation back to the very situations that you are listing in your note. And now, they are using the media and the government to do it.

In the 1950s/1960s1970s, the churches did not try to ban books that they felt were against “Christian” morality as they are doing now. Yes, the Catholic Church did have a list of books and films that were considered “mortal sins” for their parishioners...but many (if not most) Catholics had them on their shelves anyway. And, they were certainly in the public library no matter what the Church advised. Contrast that with today…

Nor, in the 1950s/1960s/1970s, did the churches rail against homosexuality the way they do today. Instead, it was one of those (many) things that they turned a blind eye toward. Perhaps they felt this was something more under the purview of the government to enforce…but whatever, the bulk of the mainline churches said very little publicly about homosexuality. The main driver against homosexuality wasn’t by the organized religions, but by the McCarthy faction of the US government in the 1950s using it to cleanse homosexuals from government positions due to their ability to be “compromised” since homosexuality was illegal. Their homophobia ran far deeper than just church teachings…and had a political opportunist component as well.

Nor, until recently, could a customer be denied service by a shopkeeper or service provider merely because the provider’s religious beliefs were against whatever lifestyle the customer may have. While I’m sure that it happened surreptitiously in the past, now it is entirely legal using “religion” as the cudgel. And, homosexuality and Trans identity seems to be their main very-public target. It has already happened to me twice…and it had never happened before, no matter where I lived.

Today, much of Religion has placed a target on several groups---particularly gay men since AIDS---where it wasn't in the past.

And, one final note…I WAS there during the Kennedy campaign for the Presidency. The reason Kennedy was deemed unfit by many for that office was specifically BECAUSE he was Catholic…and it was felt that he would be guided more by loyalty to his religion and to the Pope in Rome than by the Constitution of this country. Odd, now, that the same things are being said about several members of the Supreme Court who do seem to be putting their religion above the Constitution. And we’re “less religious” today?! I don’t think so…

So, no…I’m not “trolling” you, or being “incredible (sic) ignorant”. I’ve just had very different life experiences than you have…and over a longer period of time…and in different parts of the country. I think that what you might need to do is perhaps spend some time in other parts of this nation where religion now DOES have more of a hold on people than what you probably experience in your Los Angeles bubble…at least before you start throwing stones.


I would like to add that one of the reasons churches and conservative people in general were not actively going after homosexuality and other progressive ideas, was because America was much more socially and culturally conservative.

Back in the day, most people stuck to traditional views on things like gender roles, race, homosexuality, and sex. Since things and ideas, like homosexual rights and atheists, weren’t mainstream or visible in public spaces, there wasn’t much protesting or banning; there wasn’t anything perceived as a threat to fight against. Schools didn’t have openly gay teachers, transgender students, and no feminist or atheist books, so parents and churches didn’t feel the need to act. Churches especially didn’t have to actively ban or go after things that weren’t seen as challenges to the status quo. One or two gay men in the community weren’t considered a menace if most people already thought such things were wrong or kept hidden.

Then came the 60s, and the social changes brought these topics into the spotlight, challenging old norms. Public opinion started to shift and somewhat accept these ideas. For many, it felt overwhelming—like the world was changing too fast and the “good old days” were slipping away. That fear of change pushed conservatives into action, with more protests and political involvement aimed at slowing progress. Religious groups and conservative politicians tapped into these anxieties, using them to gain influence and fight back against what they saw as a threat to their values.
 
I think situations like this one (from a few decades ago at a college facility somewhere) still exist but not as often, given the layouts of locker rooms/showers and current attitudes. Still, it's great when guys can greet each other and chat just as if they were meeting in a hallway or coffee shop, even though they're both completely naked. They're men being men, and it's a wonderful thing.

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I think situations like this one (from a few decades ago at a college facility somewhere) still exist but not as often, given the layouts of locker rooms/showers and current attitudes. Still, it's great when guys can greet each other and chat just as if they were meeting in a hallway or coffee shop, even though they're both completely naked. They're men being men, and it's a wonderful thing.

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WELL-SAID! Men being men. Men being brothers. No embarrassment, no modesty, no stigma. This type of social behavior between men is affirming and wholesome. It has NOTHING to do with sex. Nudity DOES NOT equate to sex.
 
What I’ve been saying is NOT that the US is any more (or less) religious today than it has been in the past, but instead that the religion practiced today (at whatever level) is a lot more OVERT in its actions and activities than it was previously. There is a big difference…

I think this statement sums up a lot. Everything -- religion, homosexuality, personal expression, personal reactions ...... the list is endless -- is MORE OVERT today.
 
You make some interesting observations about possible reasons for men being overly modest in today's world. Although religion is often blamed for this phenomena, I personally don't think that religion is the main factor. I believe that blaming religion is a convenient scapegoat for atheists and those who have embraced alternative "religions" (i.e. self-worship, paganism, nature-worship, pop culture worship, etc.) I believe that the rise of radical feminism and the emasculation of men are far more obvious culprits. The sad thing is that SO MANY MEN have bought into these preposterous ideologies.
 
sorry if this sounded weird at all.
Its something Ive always remembered and seeing those pics and talking with him made me realise I liked men
I cannot say it was any male in my family that made me like men but I do know that earlier I disliked my father until one day in therapy I realised that he was the one that taught me to love and not my mother.. despite her being a housewife, etc. etc. - nothing sexual ever happened between my father-just to put it out there...
 
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I agree with you.

We're all boys and men: When I piss at a urinal, you're not going to pull out something that I've never seen before.

Whether you're a NFL player, car mechanic, or a gay artist, men are all the same between the legs (just different shapes and sizes).

Where I really agree with you is this: So what if another man finds your dick attractive. It's a compliment.

Back in the 70s, my father was teased about his big dick. All his workmates, etc saw his big peter at the urinal (no barriers). They called my dad "John Holmes." They were jealous of my dad's big dick. It was all just good ole' boy fun. Why are we all so uptight

That's why I am on LPSG. I have the desire to share my dick with my boys, but not just in a sexual way. I do it for bonding, for fun, etc.

I had a few buddies on a Penis Enlargement site. They said that they want to talk about their dicks with other men as a way to bond, etc. They weren't looking for sex with men. They liked seeing big dicks in porn, etc, like most men.

If women want to look at it, I welcome them. I like pussy and big titties.
Thank you for your refreshing comment.. I'm a little shocked in my yoga study where the mens changing room is small and how us men will not get in there and change, me included.. as if something bad is going to happen.. I must laugh, my own behaviour is not good, at this situation.. even if I am a known 'gay'; what do some of these men think I'm going to do to them?? I am not strong enough to over powerful anyone.. and people can just turn their backs to others.. it amazes me the mmm fear or ?? I don't know.. I've had two guys, gay, in the yoga changing rooms give me compliments or let it be known they like me but I don't go running to mummy.. and whilst I appreciate their 'attention' I'm not about to get off with them...

sorry to turn my comments into 'gay' but that is my experience... but this topic is so important...
 
Thank you for your refreshing comment.. I'm a little shocked in my yoga study where the mens changing room is small and how us men will not get in there and change, me included.. as if something bad is going to happen.. I must laugh, my own behaviour is not good, at this situation.. even if I am a known 'gay'; what do some of these men think I'm going to do to them?? I am not strong enough to over powerful anyone.. and people can just turn their backs to others.. it amazes me the mmm fear or ?? I don't know.. I've had two guys, gay, in the yoga changing rooms give me compliments or let it be known they like me but I don't go running to mummy.. and whilst I appreciate their 'attention' I'm not about to get off with them...

sorry to turn my comments into 'gay' but that is my experience... but this topic is so important...
Porn and nudity is so common now (porn, the internet, etc.), but men are more prudish about showing their cock and balls. I'm not sure what has happened.

I don't know if it's homophobia, body insecurity, etc.????

Thanks for liking my comment.

Take care, buddy.
 
I think situations like this one (from a few decades ago at a college facility somewhere) still exist but not as often, given the layouts of locker rooms/showers and current attitudes. Still, it's great when guys can greet each other and chat just as if they were meeting in a hallway or coffee shop, even though they're both completely naked. They're men being men, and it's a wonderful thing.

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Thanks for sharing. I think that's right. Are these interactions rarer? Do they still happen with the same level of comfort as before? I don't know. I'd like to think that there can be a community of men comfortable to be men.

Looks to me like those jocks are probably teammates and probably know each other well. Makes sense that they would banter for a few minutes as men, no care as to whether they were in the nude or not. When you get to that level of a relationship with another mate, a friend, a colleague, a teammate, there's a level of liberation and comfort and self-assurance and of course confidence that just becomes unparalleled. I think all guys at this level feel it in some way, but they don't always dote over it (like we do) or get super philosophical about it. But it's there.

There were two amazing threads on LPSG that were purged a little while back, and that's really unfortunate. But I remember seeing there some great examples of banter between teammates that were more recent in time. By that I mean, I don't think it's just an "old masculinity" thing. These things still do happen between athletes and former athletes in particular, and men in general, too. But you're right DBD, they might now be rarer these days.

Some examples that I remember being posted include
- some pranks on some UofK football players, some jostling in the nude and lost towels
- a clemson football player doing nude karaoke with his mates while they cheer him on
- guys hanging out and bantering after some college streaking (maybe at Penn)
- two college buddies stripping down and walking naked first to the sauna, then to the communal shower, bantering the whole time while they were at it
- those Bama videos that are now gone, I remember the tennis jocks dropping their towels and chatting in the nude before getting dressed.

I know that the actual videos above, the fact that they exist, is questionable since they were recorded surreptitiously. But the fact that they exist show that the banter can still be there.
 
Thanks for sharing. I think that's right. Are these interactions rarer? Do they still happen with the same level of comfort as before? I don't know. I'd like to think that there can be a community of men comfortable to be men.

Looks to me like those jocks are probably teammates and probably know each other well. Makes sense that they would banter for a few minutes as men, no care as to whether they were in the nude or not. When you get to that level of a relationship with another mate, a friend, a colleague, a teammate, there's a level of liberation and comfort and self-assurance and of course confidence that just becomes unparalleled. I think all guys at this level feel it in some way, but they don't always dote over it (like we do) or get super philosophical about it. But it's there.

There were two amazing threads on LPSG that were purged a little while back, and that's really unfortunate. But I remember seeing there some great examples of banter between teammates that were more recent in time. By that I mean, I don't think it's just an "old masculinity" thing. These things still do happen between athletes and former athletes in particular, and men in general, too. But you're right DBD, they might now be rarer these days.

Some examples that I remember being posted include
- some pranks on some UofK football players, some jostling in the nude and lost towels
- a clemson football player doing nude karaoke with his mates while they cheer him on
- guys hanging out and bantering after some college streaking (maybe at Penn)
- two college buddies stripping down and walking naked first to the sauna, then to the communal shower, bantering the whole time while they were at it
- those Bama videos that are now gone, I remember the tennis jocks dropping their towels and chatting in the nude before getting dressed.

I know that the actual videos above, the fact that they exist, is questionable since they were recorded surreptitiously. But the fact that they exist show that the banter can still be there.
This still happens. My gym buddies and I banter in the showers! It would be weird not talking to them as you're soaping up next to each other, when you were just having conversations in the weight room a few minutes earlier.
 
This still happens. My gym buddies and I banter in the showers! It would be weird not talking to them as you're soaping up next to each other, when you were just having conversations in the weight room a few minutes earlier.
It is very normal and natural. We males are wired to be interested in the size of it buddies’ penises. It is evolutionary biology.

Men are craving male bonding these days. I don’t know what happened.

My one buddy in college used to expose his big dick to other dudes on the football time. He’d say things like: look at this porn dick! Another dude would pull out his dick and say: suck this, asshole. Stuff like that. Males need this sort of sexual banter/light roughness, if you will. It is part of being male.
 
I think this statement sums up a lot. Everything -- religion, homosexuality, personal expression, personal reactions ...... the list is endless -- is MORE OVERT today.
Yes...a point well-taken...

And, I'm sure that the religious pushback that I've been talking about is a knee-jerk reaction, as a result of their antipathy, to all of this "overtness" in other areas of our lives. Up until perhaps the early 1970s, America was pretty much a white-bread culture (I've never denied that) of conformity. And, as each new "freedom" allowed diverse marginalized segments to present themselves more openly, one can then follow the plot of the timeline to these religious/cultural pushbacks---particularly since the Moral Majority outbursts in the 1980s that especially targeted homosexuality and abortion. Since then, it has been picked up by the various churches---who up to that time really didn't say much about anything "cultural"---and made into their rallying cry.
 
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I would like to add that one of the reasons churches and conservative people in general were not actively going after homosexuality and other progressive ideas, was because America was much more socially and culturally conservative.

Back in the day, most people stuck to traditional views on things like gender roles, race, homosexuality, and sex. Since things and ideas, like homosexual rights and atheists, weren’t mainstream or visible in public spaces, there wasn’t much protesting or banning; there wasn’t anything perceived as a threat to fight against. Schools didn’t have openly gay teachers, transgender students, and no feminist or atheist books, so parents and churches didn’t feel the need to act. Churches especially didn’t have to actively ban or go after things that weren’t seen as challenges to the status quo. One or two gay men in the community weren’t considered a menace if most people already thought such things were wrong or kept hidden.

Then came the 60s, and the social changes brought these topics into the spotlight, challenging old norms. Public opinion started to shift and somewhat accept these ideas. For many, it felt overwhelming—like the world was changing too fast and the “good old days” were slipping away. That fear of change pushed conservatives into action, with more protests and political involvement aimed at slowing progress. Religious groups and conservative politicians tapped into these anxieties, using them to gain influence and fight back against what they saw as a threat to their values.
Exactly. As society became less "conformist"---and more open---as a result of Supreme Court rulings and a general cultural evolution, the churches reacted in ways that they hadn't before. And, we're seeing the downside of that in many ways that hadn't been anticipated.
 
This still happens. My gym buddies and I banter in the showers! It would be weird not talking to them as you're soaping up next to each other, when you were just having conversations in the weight room a few minutes earlier.
It still happens...but very infrequently. You are luckily in a very unusual situation.

If you follow the threads on here, many are specific to the topic of trying to find gyms/pools/health clubs/saunas with open showers, or where nudity (swimming, steam rooms) is the rule. It just isn't common any more, as most of these more-public venues "public" areas have become very "private". Also note the number of thread decrying the "towel dance" found at most gyms. And, this seems to be particular to the United States...I see very little of this in Europe or Australia/New Zealand.
 
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You make some interesting observations about possible reasons for men being overly modest in today's world. Although religion is often blamed for this phenomena, I personally don't think that religion is the main factor. I believe that blaming religion is a convenient scapegoat for atheists and those who have embraced alternative "religions" (i.e. self-worship, paganism, nature-worship, pop culture worship, etc.) I believe that the rise of radical feminism and the emasculation of men are far more obvious culprits. The sad thing is that SO MANY MEN have bought into these preposterous ideologies.
Well, first off, I'm not an atheist. I grew up in a "mainline" religion in the 1950s/1960s...and left it in the early 1970s because much of it just seemed to follow a dogma that didn't match my scientific education. I have no antipathy to ANY religion that try to make sense of life without a bunch of myths and rules that don't make sense. What I am seeing happening is a knee-jerk reaction by religion to something that they don't particularly like (or even understand)...and may threaten their own power structure.

Still, I am not negating some of what you're saying. Radical Feminism, like "Radical" anything, often causes extreme push-back---which is what much of organized religion is doing at the moment to many cultural touchstones. Men MAY be uncomfortable with Feminism...not surprising since we weren't really raised to be really tuned into it until more recently. I certainly wasn't, although my mother certainly held her own in my father's world. But this should really NOT make a difference when men are together among themselves. If anything, one would think that men would be more open with each other if only as an outlet to "let off steam" as it were---women have been doing this for years with their BFFs. Instead, men are closing themselves off to some of the inherent joys of being a man.

As for the "emasculation" of men....well, that is their own fault. If they built their complete mental/emotional structure around being "superior" to women and/or always dominating them...and are hence so afraid of being in a world where women might be their bosses, or have higher degrees of education than they do...then they need to do something more to right themselves emotionally than withdrawing into fantasy video games, super-hero movies, and pornography. I know many Alpha-Males who deal with this dichotomy daily...and lead very successful and fulfilling lives with the women in them.
 
I think situations like this one (from a few decades ago at a college facility somewhere) still exist but not as often, given the layouts of locker rooms/showers and current attitudes. Still, it's great when guys can greet each other and chat just as if they were meeting in a hallway or coffee shop, even though they're both completely naked. They're men being men, and it's a wonderful thing.

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This looks very much like my high school gym...or my college dorm. It was, indeed, very much like this in most all-male situations not too many years ago. And, it was great---there was nothing overtly homosexual or pornographic about it. Just guys being guys...
 
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Thanks for sharing. I think that's right. Are these interactions rarer? Do they still happen with the same level of comfort as before? I don't know. I'd like to think that there can be a community of men comfortable to be men.

Looks to me like those jocks are probably teammates and probably know each other well. Makes sense that they would banter for a few minutes as men, no care as to whether they were in the nude or not. When you get to that level of a relationship with another mate, a friend, a colleague, a teammate, there's a level of liberation and comfort and self-assurance and of course confidence that just becomes unparalleled. I think all guys at this level feel it in some way, but they don't always dote over it (like we do) or get super philosophical about it. But it's there.

There were two amazing threads on LPSG that were purged a little while back, and that's really unfortunate. But I remember seeing there some great examples of banter between teammates that were more recent in time. By that I mean, I don't think it's just an "old masculinity" thing. These things still do happen between athletes and former athletes in particular, and men in general, too. But you're right DBD, they might now be rarer these days.

Some examples that I remember being posted include
- some pranks on some UofK football players, some jostling in the nude and lost towels
- a clemson football player doing nude karaoke with his mates while they cheer him on
- guys hanging out and bantering after some college streaking (maybe at Penn)
- two college buddies stripping down and walking naked first to the sauna, then to the communal shower, bantering the whole time while they were at it
- those Bama videos that are now gone, I remember the tennis jocks dropping their towels and chatting in the nude before getting dressed.

I know that the actual videos above, the fact that they exist, is questionable since they were recorded surreptitiously. But the fact that they exist show that the banter can still be there.
Well...the point actually is that these men don't necessarily need to be "jocks" or even "teammates". Once upon a time, as this thread is trying to point out, this sort of naturalness and banter occurred everywhere men were naked together---and not just with guys that you knew well, or who were on the same sports teams with you. As I noted in another post, this all looks very much like my high school gym, or my college dorm. In those instances, I really didn't "know" any of the guys in either place very well...but this is how we interacted then.

Right now, the only place I still see this sort of thing happening is at older country clubs with communal showers...and even then, only among the older male members who grew up with this as the norm. Things have changed drastically over the years...
 
This looks very much like my high school gym...or my college dorm. It was, indeed, very much like this in most all-male situations not too many years ago. And, it was great---there was nothing overtly homosexual or pornographic about it. Just guys being guys...
It’s really interesting to hear your perspective about how communal nudity and bonding were so normalized during the 50s, 60s, and 70s. By the time I was in college in the 90s, open showers were still around, and guys weren’t completely weirded out by being naked, but the vibe was already changing. There was more self-consciousness, and people started being more aware of being seen, worrying about how they looked, or feeling insecure about their dick size, body shape, or having too much or too little body hair. Those casual moments of hanging out and chatting while naked weren’t as frequent anymore.

I’d love to hear more about how it was back in your day. Did guys ever think about their bodies as later generations or compare themselves to others? And was homosexuality or the idea of gay men in those spaces ever a concern, or was it just not something people even thought about? I guess there was a level of comfort and connection that’s hard to picture for the younger generations today.
 
It’s really interesting to hear your perspective about how communal nudity and bonding were so normalized during the 50s, 60s, and 70s. By the time I was in college in the 90s, open showers were still around, and guys weren’t completely weirded out by being naked, but the vibe was already changing. There was more self-consciousness, and people started being more aware of being seen, worrying about how they looked, or feeling insecure about their dick size, body shape, or having too much or too little body hair. Those casual moments of hanging out and chatting while naked weren’t as frequent anymore.

I’d love to hear more about how it was back in your day. Did guys ever think about their bodies as later generations or compare themselves to others? And was homosexuality or the idea of gay men in those spaces ever a concern, or was it just not something people even thought about? I guess there was a level of comfort and connection that’s hard to picture for the younger generations today.


Well, I can't speak for everyone's deep personal feelings as to how they physically "measured up" with the guys around them back then...but by and large, most guys just didn't have an issue with it. Sculpted bodies and big biceps weren't the markers of "maleness" (gay or straight) the way they are today...nor was a huge dick. Now I can't say if this was because the whole issue was already normalized by the nudity...or if it was just because those sorts of attributes just weren't considered as important to a man's character as they are today. Back then, I just wasn't that tuned into the possible psychological ramifications because group nudity was just such a fact of life. But looking back now, that would be an interesting question to know the answer to...

However, I do think that being surrounded by nudity makes you far more aware of the basic "average-ness" of most males. And then, that changes the dynamic immensely. Yes, there were a few guys with great bodies---mostly the guys on some of the sports teams who of necessity had to work out on a regular basis. And while they occasionally received positive comments on some aspect of their build, it was more in the spirit of the guys knowing the extra effort it took to look like that for your sport (and not for your girlfriend, or for Tik-Tok) rather than being driven by any sort of envy, or feelings of "inadequacy" in oneself.

I will say, however, that also back then there wasn't the issue of American men/boys being overweight that there is today---almost all guys had the typical slimmer male body of those time periods, so body-shaming in the current sense hadn't even been thought of. And sure...some guys took more ribbing than others about other body features. I was short...and had a more-than-average amount of body hair...so I came in for my share of it myself. But I knew that it was all in fun...and I gave as good as I got.

Same with dicks. Once you see that MOST guys are just as "big" or "small" as you are, it changes the dynamic. There are really very few monsters out there (although that does seem to be changing, if LPSG is any indication). And in an open shower situation, everyone sees that all the rest of the guys have the same issues that you do with shrivel---and then semis---around warm/cold air and water. The few odd guys who really did have the big equipment were sometimes teased about it. But again, it was usually just in the spirit of guys being guys, and not out of any feeling of envy (well, maybe just a little bit ;)!) or inadequacy.

And because of that, the level of comfort with it was different than today. My first college dorm---back in the days of the all-male/all-female dorm---was one of the older ones at the school (which at one point had had a military background), and there was still a holdover "barracks" gestalt to much of the older designs. The single shower room/toilets for the whole floor was down at the end of the hall...and it wasn't unusual at all for guys to walk back and forth to the showers from their dorm room naked, with their towel over their shoulders and not around their waist (this was before women were allowed in the dorms). And, what with all the steam in the shower room itself, most guys shaved naked as well...and then dried themselves in the hall where it was dry and cooler. In any case, you got used to being naked pretty quickly...if only out of convenience and comfort.

And, of course, there was always a LOT of banter going on...

As to the fear of homosexuality...I don't remember any of that at all. But then, the times were different---gay men weren't "out" then, and of necessity made an effort to fit in with the larger male ethos (whether they liked it or not, I guess). They were pretty much invisible...and hence, perhaps, not a threat. And I am sure that there were gay guys on the floor---with that many guys, the averages were just there. But, as I've said earlier, the religious aspect of homophobia that we have today wasn't there (and this was a college in the Deep South, no less)...so there really was no overt fear along that particular frame from the straight males. Now, I do know...(and I know that I'm going to get slammed for saying this)...that there was a certain amount of male/male activity going on behind the scenes. It wasn't "gay" in the current sense...it was just guys (straight or gay) needing release...or maybe just "bonding". Whether that in and of itself tempered the fear of homosexuality, I couldn't say. But, it was there...and a fact of life at that time.

Moving forward, what I do find funny today (but very sad, actually) are the myriad of snarky comments I see on this site (and elsewhere) with regards to the "Old Trolls" at the gym who sit around naked talking after a workout/shower at the gym, while the younger guys complaining about it do the Towel Dance. These younger men really seem to think that these are all old gay men just sitting around waiting to ogle them as they dress---and they couldn't be further from the truth. Most of these "old" guys were just used to the nudity and banter of their younger days...and are trying to recreate it in their own way. They're still very comfortable with it...
 
Now, I do know...(and I know that I'm going to get slammed for saying this)...that there was a certain amount of male/male activity going on behind the scenes. It wasn't "gay" in the current sense...it was just guys (straight or gay) needing release...or maybe just "bonding".
That's not surprising. Different cultures across the world and through history have had very different conceptions of sexuality. The idea of sexual orientation as a fixed aspect of a person is fairly unusual and very recent. More common was the idea that sex is a thing you do, and many cultures only considered it shameful or not appropriately masculine to be the receptive partner - classical Rome and Greece were particularly judgemental about this - but non-receptive parties in homosexual intercourse were fine. Cultures with third genders complicate things further, since there's now a whole bunch of people that we in the modern West would want to categorise as either trans or gay, but would not and often still do not consider themselves so.