Open Showers

I saw my first adult man naked in a communal as well fella, in my case at a leisure centre. His hairiness made a lasting impression on me too, and I've always preferred my men hairy ever since. Today the only thing I regret about my hairy chest is that the fur isn't a bit thicker, but you can't have everything sadly.
Same here. Growing up in the US I was in karate class and their was a communal shower of a young age. I was shocked as I grew up in a very repressive religious home and to see someone so open and free was shocking. Then later to the Y for swimming lessons with a even bigger open showers. Today the younger generations seem to have way more anxieties about everything and open showers is just a part of it.
 
I actually flew to Buffalo specifically to enjoy this awesome shower room filled with Bradley Poles. They also have a steam room (large size and kept pitch black dark) and a sauna that was frequented by several of the schools wrestlers the week I was there.
Fun times and experience with sincere hopes it'll never be remodeled.
Nice one mate! Was it busy the times you were there?
 
Just back from the gym tonight and OMFG the communals were jam packed full of tasty men! I love em, I really do.
I’m thinking of hitting my gym/spa later than normal tomorrow to see who’s showering/sauna/steaming after work hours die down.
 
I’m thinking of hitting my gym/spa later than normal tomorrow to see who’s showering/sauna/steaming after work hours die down.
I prefer hitting the showers at peak time myself, the more hot, wet, naked men around me, the better :)

which gym do you recommend in london?
Thinking of coming over? I'd love to be able to help but I actually live a little way outside the smoke mate. However, there's a lengthy thread with a lot of recommendations on places where guys can have communal showers and otherwise get naked together here: Open showers in London - list of venues to show off
 
all the negative comments, up n downs, one thinks this, the other that, is what made me go to a gym that DOESN'T have showers ar all. I wash at home and during summer , I use my outdoor shower. nobody can see me and I don't have to explain to anyone if showering your sweaty balls in the buff equals showing off or not. enough with all the bullshit, just because some morons have a hard time accepting nudity and are so hypersensitive....

the same that happens with many other aspects of life. too much criticism and denial and negativity, turns people away from people.
 
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Privacy is just another word for anxiety. They don't want to be seen nude. It's no different than the dividers that are on urinals now. Back in the 50's and 60's there were none while now it's required and with unisex bathrooms on the rise we're going to see urinals vanish and there will be nothing but stalls.
I understand your point and I hate :mad: the idea of unisex bathrooms. That´s something that I don´t like about the new generations.
 
Just got back from working out/steam and showering; there were three guys in the shower besides me. One was an older guy with an uncut average dick, the other was a dude in his 40s with a smaller softie, and the buff (but shorter) guy I showered next to was tiny: Maybe 2” soft. But that changed when I was soaping up beside him. In a matter of a minute, I noticed that he had gotten hard! His cock was thin and only about 4-5”, but he turned to make sure I could see how things changed for him :) I silently rinsed off beside him - I was hanging far longer and thicker than he was erect - and we toweled off next to one another, his small hardon incredibly evident.

I finished drying off and walked away, and what do ya know, I discovered a minute later…his locker was about 2 over from mine! His erection was gone, but we wordlessly got dressed, my meat swaying and swinging as I pretended to dig through my bag a minute so he could get a better look, which he did. What can I say, I’m a giver!
 
Just visited the local sauna. It was really late so didn't expect to see anyone.

I got undressed in the locker room and went to the toilet before I was gonna head to the showers and sauna. When I was in the toilet I heard some noise from the locker room and I realized I just got company! When I left the toilet there was this 40 year (?) old middle eastern man showering buck naked in the open showers. I walked in swinging my 5.7 inches big dick and made quick eye contact with him, then showered across the room with my package facing the wall (he already saw me full frontal when entering the room).

After a minute or so I heard he turned off the shower and walk into the sauna. I took a minute myself and then walked into the sauna strutting my big dick with a towel over my shoulder. He didn't even look down. Think the latest image of me walking into the open showers already left him a bit jealous of what's hanging between my legs. I sat down with my legs wide open and for 5 minutes it was totally quite..

After some time he went out to the showers to fill up the sauna buckle with water. He came back in displaying his average dick. I'm guessing 3.5 inches big and very hairy. Also he was cut which might've made his dick look smaller than it was. After awhile he started making conversation with me and kept it going for another 10 minutes. We talked about the most random things in life and it was a really chill vibe, two men proudly naked together making conversation.

It never got super hot in there so there was no need for me to step out and shower to come back inside again so I just decided to shower up and leave after some time. I said goodbye and walked out the door, showered real quick, and when I was done showering I made sure to dry up just outside the glass door to the sauna so he could watch me and my unusually big dick swing for the last time. Not sure if he sees that every day :)
 
Just visited the local sauna. It was really late so didn't expect to see anyone.

I got undressed in the locker room and went to the toilet before I was gonna head to the showers and sauna. When I was in the toilet I heard some noise from the locker room and I realized I just got company! When I left the toilet there was this 40 year (?) old middle eastern man showering buck naked in the open showers. I walked in swinging my 5.7 inches big dick and made quick eye contact with him, then showered across the room with my package facing the wall (he already saw me full frontal when entering the room).

After a minute or so I heard he turned off the shower and walk into the sauna. I took a minute myself and then walked into the sauna strutting my big dick with a towel over my shoulder. He didn't even look down. Think the latest image of me walking into the open showers already left him a bit jealous of what's hanging between my legs. I sat down with my legs wide open and for 5 minutes it was totally quite..

After some time he went out to the showers to fill up the sauna buckle with water. He came back in displaying his average dick. I'm guessing 3.5 inches big and very hairy. Also he was cut which might've made his dick look smaller than it was. After awhile he started making conversation with me and kept it going for another 10 minutes. We talked about the most random things in life and it was a really chill vibe, two men proudly naked together making conversation.

It never got super hot in there so there was no need for me to step out and shower to come back inside again so I just decided to shower up and leave after some time. I said goodbye and walked out the door, showered real quick, and when I was done showering I made sure to dry up just outside the glass door to the sauna so he could watch me and my unusually big dick swing for the last time. Not sure if he sees that every day :)

Outside of possible sex, being naked with another guy, in that scenario, is a real bro bonding experience. Glad u had that opportunity.
 
Just visited the local sauna. It was really late so didn't expect to see anyone.

I got undressed in the locker room and went to the toilet before I was gonna head to the showers and sauna. When I was in the toilet I heard some noise from the locker room and I realized I just got company! When I left the toilet there was this 40 year (?) old middle eastern man showering buck naked in the open showers. I walked in swinging my 5.7 inches big dick and made quick eye contact with him, then showered across the room with my package facing the wall (he already saw me full frontal when entering the room).

After a minute or so I heard he turned off the shower and walk into the sauna. I took a minute myself and then walked into the sauna strutting my big dick with a towel over my shoulder. He didn't even look down. Think the latest image of me walking into the open showers already left him a bit jealous of what's hanging between my legs. I sat down with my legs wide open and for 5 minutes it was totally quite..

After some time he went out to the showers to fill up the sauna buckle with water. He came back in displaying his average dick. I'm guessing 3.5 inches big and very hairy. Also he was cut which might've made his dick look smaller than it was. After awhile he started making conversation with me and kept it going for another 10 minutes. We talked about the most random things in life and it was a really chill vibe, two men proudly naked together making conversation.

It never got super hot in there so there was no need for me to step out and shower to come back inside again so I just decided to shower up and leave after some time. I said goodbye and walked out the door, showered real quick, and when I was done showering I made sure to dry up just outside the glass door to the sauna so he could watch me and my unusually big dick swing for the last time. Not sure if he sees that every day :)
You are a hero, my friend
 
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This thread speaks volumes on how guys see group showers .......

Being 68 y.o., I am old school. I never had a problem with open showers. It is a comradery builder; a chance to really know your buddies.

When my wife and I raised our 2 children, family nudity was never a problem until our daughters got older. My wife and I continued open nudity, however, obviously, our daughters didn't.

I became a nudist in my later years. When I reveal that, some "textiles" ( non nudists ) are appalled. I quickly say that if nudism is sexual to you, then you shouldn't be at a nudist resort ( there are some couples only, swinger resorts; however they are fewer in number ). I have found that conversation and developing friendships with fellow nudists is very easy.

I am glad I have lived in the age of open showers. Take a look at what is happening. With smart phones, face to face contact is becoming less. Add shower stalls ............. even less; a sad situation. I am a very social person and I enjoy person to person contact. My life is more fulfilled because of that.
Exactly. It builds comradely and openness. It helps to bring down the walls. What we are seeing now is the walls we have built have had the opposite effect. The younger generation fells more anxiety not less even with the walls and towel dancing. It hasn’t helped at all.
 
This is true with the German sauna. When I was in NY I would go to NYSC and if you opened the sauna door the towels whipped into place quickly, usually tented. In Germany the towel is used to protect the wood, not your modesty so you put the towel lengthwise under your feet and butt. There is nowhere to hide so the sauna becomes social rather than cruisy. Of course men can and do meet elsewhere after seeing each other. I am in Paris now and men wear underwear in the steam and it is just like NYSC. Boners are tucked away when the door opens. I have no problems with sex in either IF all want to participate but the total nudity makes it less likely.
 
Exactly. It builds comradely and openness. It helps to bring down the walls. What we are seeing now is the walls we have built have had the opposite effect. The younger generation fells more anxiety not less even with the walls and towel dancing. It hasn’t helped at all.
I’ve seen two men under the 30 in the sauna WEARING APPLE AIRPODS(!). Firstly, duh, the moisture and heat is going to destroy your electronics, secondly…REALLY?? Plus, both of them wore swim trunks. How much more disconnected from reality can you get?!