I just keep thinking That Thing We Aren’t To Say...
Struggling to come up with a scenario where a man flashing or exposing his peen to a woman would be “hot” or specifically “arousing.”
It’s one thing with your person to do low level flashing.
I’ve arrived, by request, at a front door in little more than my coat, a secondhand leather trench that comes to almost my knees, an unbuttoned shirt with nothing under and skirt that fell right about where the coat hemline fell. The skirt hem flashed the neighbors. I did not. And it was black over brown so a fashion scandal.
In return he answered the door in a state of undress, an open robe. I got it, he’s lived there 20+ years. I’m the second person to indulge him this way.
Personally, flashing between lovers is more playful trope making fun of park pervs than truly arousing in and of itself. It’s campy, to me.
To him? Yeah, it’s boobies, but it’s more my obedience, my desire to make him happy, that trips his trigger.
Him flashing me is always with a grin. And always more suggested than actual sight line. He’s “flashed his chest” in winter by doing the quick open and close with his jacket, over all his clothing. We both laughed, and hurried inside to warmth.
Some random person? That’s actually a prosecutable form of assault here. And I know the guy who will flash me, will flash children.
Flashing/ exposure emboldens predators.
At its mildest, flashing is involving others in your kink. That’s non consent.
Flashing genitals is different from mooning. Mooning is dumb kids, political statement and not meant to titillate.
Women have used bared breasts to garner attention. I recall some logging protestors that used bare breasted women to get media attention to the cause.
It’s a trope, flash yer tits, and complex in that it’s generally a request, and not a woman doing it to arouse. Scandalize, maybe. But those women typically aren’t of age to be here.
