Penis dysmorphia/Small Penis Anxiety

[Greco-Roman]

Latino, Latin, Hispanic, whatever you want to call it, isn’t a race. The only thing these people really have in common is the Spanish Language and some shared history with regards to Spanish conquistadors , native tribes (North to South) and in and some countries cases, more so than others, the ancestors of slavery. From various countries in West Africa originally.

But there genetic admixture varies from country to country. And there are multiple ethnicities within one country. Afro-Colombian, Euro-Colombian, Native Colombian and a mix of all three, for example. Look the difference between your average Argentinian, Mexican and Dominican. They have some shared ancestry, sure, but you aren’t lookinbut it’s a bit too broad Blanket statement to find any correlation when it comes to “race” and penis size. Which is my only problem with these studies really.

I agree with you that the avg can't be 6" + I've seen too many men in the locker rooms who were literally 1-3" soft so prolly 4-6" max, every once in a while you come acroos someone bigger but thats 'normal' butnthe majority ive seen have been avg or smaller. comments from girls about men they've slept with, gay guys say same thing that most of the dicks they see are average. Amateur porn videos online, etc... I think we just remember the bigger cocks we see (porn included) so therefore distorts our view and perception. I really like this information I'm receiving from this site and I love hearing people's opinions about what's average and what's big because I like hearing things from a different pov because my perception, reality, view of penis size has become extremely warped and i know it is which is why I came on this site and made this thread...I mean if most 'main stream and popular pornstars' and 'big cock' pornstars are between 6-8 and if im being honest most non popular or non mainstream porn has alot of average length and girth cocks it's just we only remember the biggest cocks from porn...so how on earth could the average be 6"+ if that's the beginning of big dick in porn? If pornstars (well known) are between 6-8 that means in the general public 3-5 NBP would be the average, 5-6 NBP Avg-abv 6-8 (big to huge) NBP are outliers there fore considered pornstars!! Am I making any sense here

I agree 100%. Great post…

 

[Greco-Roman]

Apologies @nolbaby, I messed up my post and mixed it up with my reply to MrLouis.

To expand on my original post, there are so many mixed peoples amongst so called “Latino” people that’s it’s too broad a statement to call them a race, scientifically, which kind of skews the race : penis size studies in my opinion.

if you asked a Columbian or Mexican, outside of the USA if they where Latino, they probably wouldn’t know what you are talking about. Or have a vague idea that it’s related to USA-Race/social constructs. Or linguistically might relate it to “Latin” if They have no experience of America (USA). But I think it’s more more likely that they would identify with there country of origin (Mexico, Columbia, Cuba) or the various ethnicity’s within that country. Native, mixed, or predominantly African or European. Various others.

Even with regards to Asian, like in terms of ancestry are Indians and Chinese people any more related to each other than a West African or a European?. Barely, if at all.

Which is why I tend be skeptical of these studies. There’s no way the average of Columbia is 7”+. And height = Size on average is a pretty weak correlation in terms of penis size studies. And and a big portion of the biggest dicks in porn are under 6ft”.

 

[Mr.Louis]

yes. world wide, that is probably true. people generally mate with their own race though, at least majority of the time. so the average penis size to someone living in Columbia is going to be much larger than the average penis size to someone living in Japan, because the former will have had almost all Columbian sexual partners, where the average penis size has been found to be over 7 inches, and the later will consider 5 inches to be an average penis, as they would have had mostly Oriental sexual partners, whose penises are found by most research to be under 5.5 inches in most cases.
my main point is that average can differ greatly depending on who your partners are. I would also think that someone who specifically only dates men who are 7 feet or taller has likely experienced an average penis size of well over 8 inches. And you know damn well what I meant by Latino. It is generally used to refer to people from Spanish-speaking countries from Mexico down through South America. I don't know if you live in the USA, but every time you apply for a job or fill out a tax or benefits form of any kind, it asks you to identify your race by selecting 1 option from Latino, Not White Latino, Native American, Black or African-American, or Asian. Everybody is able to fill out those forms without stopping everything to point out the technical flaws in the wording.
I think people consider themselves Asian on stuff like that if they are anywhere between Japan and Lebanon. I'm guilty of pointing out those wording flaws too though. I can never resist pointing out that white people from South Africa are technically African-Americans and it pokes a huge hole in their classification system.

Can you answer me one question? It's been confirmed and verified that popular pornstars on sites such as bangbros and Brazzers for example lets say are 6-8 NBP with the majority falling under the 7" mark. 90% of popular pornstars are not even 7" NBP in fact there's not a single pornstar ~8" on those sites and generally less than I want to say ~20 pornstars on the whole internet combined ~8"+...9" NBP has never been confirmed for any pornstars (besides maybe Mandingo) or online user/etc.. anywhere on the internet. So if 7" is RARE even in porn for pornstars how on earth could the average penis size be 6"+ I'm including ALL races of men except Asians maybe because I do not know any popular Asian pornstars with big dicks but all pornstars are of other races/mixed/etc...

 

[Draconis71]

I don't know how to prove to you that 7-8 inch dicks are not very rare. Id say about 1 out of 7 men is 7 inches that i see. and there is just no way that there are only 500,000 8 inch dicks on the planet. id say about 1 out of 20 guys i see has 8 inches. now, perhaps that is because larger men are more likely to show people their penis, i don't know. but i promise that 500,000 on the planet is an absurdly low estimate. i'm sure there are at least 5 million men in the usa alone

I believe there was a study out that showed most PROMISCUOUS men were larger.... smaller men weren't necessarily into fucking anything they could... ie: larger guys more likley to show off/go at it.

 

[ASK JEFF]

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Where do they sell that Trimix stuff?

Doctor. Rx city. It’s roughly $140 a vial. Or]cording to online, it’s the stronger ED help. Last hours, all day in some cases. Downfall is you can have an inflated penis for a few days and a bruised feeling… I’m thinkin’ “THAT’S a downfall?”…

 

[ASK JEFF]

You’re right. I’ve had a few “porn stars” fuck me and when it comes down to it, they are nothing like in the film. GREAT sex a nice cocks, but angles and lenses play a lot in porn. The biggest cock that, personally I can confirm to be HUGE and ohhhh, so satisfying, is Antonio Biaggi. His nuts are like fucking goose eggs. Not a big cummer, but very nice and rough in bed. Pete likey! Wished he still lived in RI…

 

[Ace1175]

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Have serious Small penis Anxiety
Everytime i measure or look at it with ruler, i become stressed.

 

[SmallDguy]

Well if you must know I was extremely skeptical of the penis size studies at first as well and there was no way I thought 7" BP could be in the 1% or even close so i took it upon my self to find real life answers. You gotta remember that those studies had participants who agreed to be measured, that means guys who thought they were small or inadequate wouldn't want their dicks measured, and guys with Ed or other similar problems were exempt from the studies, so even with confidence bias in play the average is still what they claim, between 5-6 BP, you gotta remember not every body has a twisted perception of their size like we do, so a truly average dude might see a different reality than we do because that is the serious affect pornography can have to ones size which is why I am trying my hardest to stop. So the true average is actually lower that in real life because like I said volunteer and co confidence bias, all studies that point to a certain average, the average is always lower in real life. For example the avg height is 5'9 in America, most guys are actually below that if you pay attention in the real world. Here take a look at this video it's an experienced woman who has slept with almost everyone in the music industry (yes, rappers who always claim to have big dicks in their rap songs) and probably thousands of guys:

she claims most guys in the world have small penises, but if you watch her other videos shes one of those idiots that believe in 10-15 inch dicks but you gotta remember 'girl inches' and her ex husband literally had a 1.5 inch dick, she actually measured it that's what a girl means by 'small', so a 7-8 inch NBP dick to her ya is 10-15 inches lol.

Next point: I wanted actual real life examples of this so I became undercover gay for a couple months where I allowed a couple gay guys 'suck my dick' and nothing else I had to cover my face mind you but still... The few guys I was able to measure BP were high 5's to low 6's BP, they were actually realistically 4-5 inches NBP with fat pads, and avg girth round 5" one was actually 5.5 girth but he was uncut and that adds to girth, if you pull their skin back and measure he was average girth, uncut just looks bigger flaccid and erect. And I got to see a few other dicks no homo that looked small flaccid and they all considered themselves average. I would ask them stories about their experiences with penises and one of them said out of the 2000 dicks he's seen, yes 2000, 1900 he said were small to avg, yes between 3-5 inches NBP and the rest were avg to abv avg and bigger, u gotta remember that fat pad is no joke and can seriously take a lot of dick away. And for girth, he said he literally saw a few pencil dicks in his life like literally straw thin that's why they're called pencil dicks, so if ur anywhere between 4 - 5 ur def fine, 4 mifht be a bit low but ehh w.e.

Third point: Pornstars? Duhhh pornstars!! Who else to compare size studies to? Believe it or not, most pornstars even 'big names' are barely pushing the 7" mark NBP of course, so what does that mean for guys like us with 7" BP? If we get lean as hell and lose our fat pad, we can become pornstars!!! Even with average girth which is what the majority of pornstars have anyway. ALOT of pornstars, mainstream and amateur are 6-7 NBP, 'monstercocks' are only 7-7.5" NBP and barely anyone is 8", so 8 is the biggest of big in porn. I've written ALOT already if you have any questions and let me know my hands are tires lol

Maaan your whole post is a damn lie. I don't know you, you don't know me...buuut stop lying lmao I get it though your trying to take the insecurities out of us small guys, RESPECT. In reality though I hope hope you know you are doing more damage. A real help to us would be to keep it real. NO! The real average is NOT 4 TO 5 INCHES hahahahaha. If that were true regular sized condoms would just be baggy or slip off. I know you think you're helping but you're making it worse. You can't just post shit like that because there's people that are gonna think they are lex Steele and get an ego and then end up getting humiliated. Size isn't the most important thing in sex life but please keep it real FFS.

 

[Mr.Louis]

Maaan your whole post is a damn lie. I don't know you, you don't know me...buuut stop lying lmao I get it though your trying to take the insecurities out of us small guys, RESPECT. In reality though I hope hope you know you are doing more damage. A real help to us would be to keep it real. NO! The real average is NOT 4 TO 5 INCHES hahahahaha. If that were true regular sized condoms would just be baggy or slip off. I know you think you're helping but you're making it worse. You can't just post shit like that because there's people that are gonna think they are lex Steele and get an ego and then end up getting humiliated. Size isn't the most important thing in sex life but please keep it real FFS.

So do you agree with the average being 5-6 BP? Also when does 'big' dick territory start for you?

 

[SmallDguy]

So do you agree with the average being 5-6 BP? Also when does 'big' dick territory start for you?

Big dick starts at 8 inches nbp dude. It has been for years, and it will be forever. There's so much debate on even sites like these lol if even a size queen were to see a true 8 inch nbp dick there would be no doubt in her mind it was big. There's a reason there is so much doubt in men below that size hahahaha. Sure what's trash to one woman is gold to another buuut 8 inches is the universal big confirmation.

 

[Mr.Louis]

Big dick starts at 8 inches nbp dude. It has been for years, and it will be forever. There's so much debate on even sites like these lol if even a size queen were to see a true 8 inch nbp dick there would be no doubt in her mind it was big. There's a reason there is so much doubt in men below that size hahahaha. Sure what's trash to one woman is gold to another buuut 8 inches is the universal big confirmation.

Dude 8" NBP is the biggest of big in porn and history.. ur talking John Holmes, lex steele, danny d, mandingo, etc.... do you realize how RARE that is? your saying thats the start of BIG? see this is why i cant talk to some of you on here man...because I thought my perception was warped, I mean its like either theres people with enough common sense to see the truth or theres just completely insecure, delusional and ignorant people who dont want to accept the truth and see their view as the only option. 8" NBP start of big? you must be out of your rabbit ass mind, 6" NBP is the start of big and if you show any woman a genuine 7' NBP she will think its huge(which is still rare btw..)..... 8" NBP equates to like maybe ~15-20 pornstars MAXXXX in the history porn and current era, Neither you or me have personally met or know anyone that big, dude theres like less than a million guys that big on the planet and your trying to convince me its normal or start of big? NO cocks on earth is bigger than 9" NBP but ur saying anything less than 8" NBP isnt big??? Knowledge is power my man you dont have it. I know a guy who liked to watch his wife fuck other guys, so he advertised online for over 6 years for guys 7" nbp and over and guess how many replies they got in those 6 years? 10!! wanna guess how many replies they got with guys bullshiting their size? over a million. he wanted genuine measurements for the guys 7 and over and in 6 years only got 10 genuine replies.... what does that tell you?? OF THOSE 10 only 1, 1 was 8" NBP measured properly so there you go thats how rare it is... the rest were 7-7.5 nbp which is huge, 8" nbp is monster and super rare, even BP.

Okay so your saying if a size queen sees a 7 incher nbp shes not going to think its big? especially if it has decent girth?? so riddle me this...all the HUGE and famous pornstars that range from 6 - 8 nbp are not big? im telling you you have no idea what your talking about. i mean if monster cock porn cant even produce a 8" nbp hardly how the hell is any woman supposed to just stumble upon this in real life like its common

 

[Mr.Louis]

idk i think theres two groups of people on this site and online in general, the ones who know the studies and have enough experience and knowledge with cocks to know the real average and how rare larger cocks really are .. then you have people who believe 'big' cocks are common and anything below 7 is 'small' lol ... well like ive said ive given my examples and life experiences and theyve been many that point to 4-6 nbp being the average but idk i mean we are literally on a site called large penis support group so obv ur going to see onnly larger cocks, this site and others of course, it doesnt correspond to reality at all thats why people say 'porn is not real' because ur comparing to .1-1% of the population so of course your not going to see the real average and feel small.

in the real world:
4 nbp small
5 nbp average
6 nbp big
7 nbp huge
8 nbp monster

on the internet:
5 nbp small
6 nbp average
7 nbp abv avg
8 nbp big
9 nbp huge
10 nbp monster (even tho no actual proof of a measurement has ever been recorded)


you can take it or leave it but i just call it how i see it

 

[Wannabee]

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With time with all the anxiety you will figure out it was a waste of time and your energy, I have a smaller dick in some ways and never let it bother me. REAL men in a locker room setting don't mess with others about such things, When I was married I could berry my penis in during sex and she was happy along with myself, I lost weight and ny penis did get longer because the pad around it became less. After that weight loss she complained about sex hurting because I was burying my penis to deep. Have seen and talked to some men that say the same thing, they can't bury their penis because they are to big or long. it's a double edge sword, have heard women complain more about girth depending on the size of the birth canal specially after children. Enjoy your life some things aren't worth the worry!

 

[Ace1175]

hi I definitely feel smaller since my prostate surgery also I haven't been using it much for sex or masturbation before my surgery I was normal

 

[flambago9]

I'm tiny. I'm always terrified of medical situations where I'm exposed.

Recently, a humiliating encounter. My worst nightmare...I'm in the ER with a kidney stone. They thought my bladder was over full.... Painful and I couldnt piss an hour after drinking a bunch. I'm on the table, a super hot brunette nurse is there along with an older nurse lady and a younger guy nurse. Wife is sitting in the corner. I'm wearing sweats and silky boxers.

Older lady is prepping a catheter.... Brunette hottie and young guy are at my side. They each grasp one side of my bottoms and slide them down gently while I hold my bottom up off the table. There's my little man.... Barely there with all the pain I'm dealing with. Both nurses are looking at it. Expressionless. Well trained not to laugh or even grin at such a micro spectacle. It seems to take forever for older nurse lady to get shit ready... I lay exposed the whole time. "Are we done yet?" I ask jokingly. Finally, she takes hold of my nubbin and the nurse says she needs to clean it.... Polishing my little head with gauze and some iodine solution. I can sure feel it but my eyes are closed. I can't stand the shame of watching. She takes forever prepping the catheter...I imagine she has to search for an extra small tip for it in the cabinet so it doesn't split open my tiny dick. The regular size tips are too big for my little pink winkie. They hardly ever need to use the "smalls" so it takes her a while to find it. Meanwhile, there I lay...a nurse on either side of me, other nurses walking by, my little niblet exposed and tiny. She inserts the tip of a syringe in my little dick hole and injects gel into me. Then she begins inserting the catheter and it's quite a shock... the other two hold me down as I bounce up off the table. Fuck it hurts....it's stretching my little pee-hole to the max! I told them I have an enlarged prostate and they all say "Oh, here we go". "Just relax" everybody says. It was a struggle. Finally...in place, they get only a little bit of liquid out of me... Meaning I endured all that for nothing. Finally...They cover my tiny man with a blanket. His little hole was quite stretched. I thought to myself...next time, she should go to the maternity ward and get a "baby dick tip" for me. Infant sized catheter gear.

The procedure to remove the stone was done with me out. No shame as I didn't have to witness it. I can only imagine the comments of the doctor and nurses. "Wow, look at the schlong on this guy!" as the nurses giggle.

A stent was put in me to allow any other pieces to pass. Thursday morning at 8 am I'll be back in his office, him and another nurses will have to remove my stent. I'll be awake and enduring the cleaning and the insertion again. Shamed by my tiny peener again... Everybody thinking "My God that is tiny. How does he please anyone with that little thingy? My clit is larger than that!" the nurses probably will be thinking.

A week later.........

At the urologist's office for the stent removal. The very nice looking brunette nurse called my name and led me to an exam room with a chair in the middle.

She gave me instructions...no clothes from the waist down, I can leave on my sox if I want. Sit in the chair and cover up with the big folded towel laying there. She pulled the curtain across the door and then left to let me strip.

Clothes off...my junk never seemed tinier in my whole life. I tugged it a few times, juggled my balls and thought sexy thoughts at least trying to get it semi hard and respectable. I just wanted a respectable cock to show, not a tiny nubbin. I had a seat in the chair. I covered with the towel and waited for her to come back.

She came back, prepped a container of liquid over on a side counter and put on rubber gloves. She explained that she would be washing my entire groin area with anti-bacterial solution before the doctor's arrival. She grasped my entire tiny package in one hand and rubbed it with wet gauze. It was barely room temperature. She massaged my little balls and sack with it and stroked my shaft up repeatedly to clean all the skin on it (I'm circumcised). I couldn't even look...I was afraid of shrinking up even more or actually hitting wood. Either would be bad..."How tiny will it get!?" or "Is that as big as it gets?!" I could imagine her thinking. Then she grasped my dicklet with one hand and started rubbing my tiny head firmly with the other...scrubbing. Wow, it felt great and I started to get hard. It was firming up. She didn't crack a smile or say anything the whole time she was touching me. I'm sure there are rules about comments or smiles or smirks while doing that. She finished and grabbed a syringe from the table. She inserted the syringe tip into my tiny pee-hole and said "This is numbing gel for the procedure". She emptied it in my dick in one long smooth stroke...felt weird. But good. She finished the syringe and said "no touching anything now, it's all sterile!" and smiled finally. She left saying the doctor would be right in.

She came back in with him and he inserted the probe in my dick while she watched. He ran it in what felt like a foot. I could see the stint in my bladder on the TV screen. He grabbed it and pulled it out pretty quickly: YANK! Then he covered me up with the towel. Done.

 

[Mr.Louis]

I've been on reddit for a while on the 'bigdickproblems' thread and my head fucken hurts from all the over exaggeraters and false stories and useless bragging. They all practically agree 6.5-7.5 BP x 5-6 is the 'goldilocks' size and would constitute 'big' or 'huge' depending who you ask and where you are in that range but even 6.5x5 would be entry level big or def abv avg/big and 7-7.5x5-5.5 was the golden standard for start of big-huge with anymore being problematic for most. In that size range you cover most women's fantasies while still holding a big dick title except rare size queens of course but even they'll like it.

Reddit has a lot more to offer than this site honestly but even there most agree with the size studies and most have stories that correlate to it along with many others on this site as well. There's always people that disagree and this is understandable and acceptable but they usually speak out of ignorance and only stick to their anecdotal evidence because they had a 4-5 streak with bigger cocks or they've seen mostly bigger cocks or what have you but luck of the draw is always a factor meanwhile everybody including 8 inchers are super self conscious and make posts everyday about hiw they wish they were bigger at 8x6!!!!! So frankly they're warped perception is causing them to see a smaller penis. It's called 'dysmorphia' for a reason guys because it's a serious mental illness that can take over your life and ruin your self image entirely.

All of the gay guys and women that have seen thousands of cocks (orgies,clubs,parties,etc.) all say the same thing the studies say and I've asked and seen enough evidences to know better however my brain is stuck in auto pilot mode so anything I tell it is gonna have to be repeated for a long time so it fully understands that its previous perception was false and imaginary.

 

[BIGBULL29]

Listen - I have a very big dick (length and girth), but I never feel big enough. Sometimes, I feel as small as you all. Seriously.

Most well-hung men are very insecure, too. It's just part of life.

 

[MDM8]

Listen - I have a very big dick (length and girth), but I never feel big enough. Sometimes, I feel as small as you all. Seriously.

Most well-hung men are very insecure, too. It's just part of life.

I agree, my perception of my own size is definitely warped… and I look at my cock compared to what i see in porn and just don’t perceive myself as “big” or “huge” but there are lots of statistics and opinions that would say otherwise…

 

[BIGBULL29]

I agree, my perception of my own size is definitely warped… and I look at my cock compared to what i see in porn and just don’t perceive myself as “big” or “huge” but there are lots of statistics and opinions that would say otherwise…

I understand where you're coming from. By the way, you're not small at all.

Porn plays with your mind. These dudes are not nearly as big as you think. Sure, a few like Lex Steele, Kyle Mason, etc. But, they are only between 7-8 inches when hard.

I don't think I "hang" low enough. I have a hang-up about hangin' low (no pun intended)

 

[MDM8]

I understand where you're coming from. By the way, you're not small at all.

Porn plays with your mind. These dudes are not nearly as big as you think. Sure, a few like Lex Steele, Kyle Mason, etc. But, they are only between 7-8 inches when hard.

I don't think I "hang" low enough. I have a hang-up about hangin' low (no pun intended)

Yeah, I know that porn sizes are definitely exaggerated and that is part of what warps all our perceptions! I will say that 7-8 inches sounds right for Kyle Mason, but Lex Steel has to be over 8” imo!