Playing with dildos vs real cock

[Biglove19]

Hi all, so bit of an introduction, I'm mostly a bottom and was married some years ago and my (now ex)husband was the only guy I've slept with who made me cum handsfree just from getting fucked. I enjoy playing with dildos and do it often. When I'm hooking up with someone I'm hard pretty much the whole time and have gotten really close to cumming handsfree. But when I use toys it feels good but I'm not hard and can't really get hard without jerking myself, so I don't think I could cum just from a dildo. Does anyone have any advice or tips or something? I really want to achieve that handsfree with a toy. I've tried Aneros and the nJoy wand. Everything feels good but no fireworks

 

[chrisrobin]

Hi all, so bit of an introduction, I'm mostly a bottom and was married some years ago and my (now ex)husband was the only guy I've slept with who made me cum handsfree just from getting fucked. I enjoy playing with dildos and do it often. When I'm hooking up with someone I'm hard pretty much the whole time and have gotten really close to cumming handsfree. But when I use toys it feels good but I'm not hard and can't really get hard without jerking myself, so I don't think I could cum just from a dildo. Does anyone have any advice or tips or something? I really want to achieve that handsfree with a toy. I've tried Aneros and the nJoy wand. Everything feels good but no fireworks

Wear a nice butt plug for a few hours, I wear one when on long drives and have hand free ejaculations. When you shag yourself with a dildo make sure its not to big, take it slow, work it in and try and be relaxed.

 

[gapinhole]

I been doing this for a long time. But the pressure duration and intensity at times can make ur body shake u want to pass out from extreme overload of senses. Takes long to master this without breaking ur hole for life

 

[dreambridger]

find way to warm up the dildo somehow. It's the fact that it doesn't have body heat that I think it is the main drawback of dildos.