Poll.... How Important Is Oral Sex To You?

[SoaringSpirit]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE oral, namely giving it to my man. I really get so much pleasure from giving him pleasure. I literally get off from it & can do it for hours....alas as Tight_n_Juicy stated, i also don't get it anymore from him/my partner.
It makes me really sad sometimes, because it's such an intimate loving thing to do for your partner.
Im going to give it one last try & tell him how much I need it from him. Everything else is off the charts great between us.

 

[1096994]

I know I voted that it's my favorite to give and receive, but I definitely prefer sex over oral. I just felt it was the best option for me because I do see it as much more than just an act of foreplay.

 

[kenny233]

My girlfriend and I spend much more time going down on each other than actually having sex. We both really enjoy oral, and it's the best way to focus on the spots that feel good.

 

[merc41]

It is a deal breaker for me. How could you not like it when you can give and receive such pleasure

 

[Player_01]

Oral is my favorite, it's as good to give as receive. I'm more into it than anal (I will top but I don't like bottoming).

For gays, the whole world is divided into Tops and Bottoms and I used to feel like a freak for wanting other stuff but I've discovered I'm a "Side" and we are legit:

Guys on the 'Side': Looking Beyond Gay Tops and Bottoms | HuffPost

It's Time to Stop Pigeonholing Gay Men as Tops and Bottoms

Urban Dictionary: side

Like anything sexual, it's just what I was always drawn to.

 

[Player_01]

The major eighteenth century classic of erotica is Cleland's "Fanny Hill". It's smut from cover to cover, with an extensive listing of sexual practices and a bit of a thing for big cocks. I suppose it was the lpsg of its age! Curiously there's no oral sex in it. Presumably this really wasn't something the eighteenth century knew about.

It suggests some sexual practices have to be taught and are not instinctive.

Or maybe that author just wasn't into it. People who don't like it, tend to assume nobody should like it.

Oral sex is pictured in older erotica than the 18th Century.

"The History of Fellatio"

A History of Oral Sex, From Fellatio's Ancient Roots to the Modern Blow Job

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I can tell you my instinct was to lick a dick the first time I had a chance (and that was before the straights thought the Clinton scandal introduced it to America). It was there, I just wanted to kiss it and taste it. Never heard of doing it before- pure instinct.

 

[1120562]

Well I get lots of it whether I want it or not. My partner loves giving so I almost never have to ask

 

[BigBadWolf84]

I never turn down getting oral from a woman. But usually it's the appetizer before the main course.

 

[DarthJoey75]

I like receiving oral. Cause it feels so good

 

[ronin001]

 

[Squid_Boy]

I’m definitely more of a giver. HEAD. TO. TOE.

 

[chris7336]

Like giving! Love receiving, something I think it feels better than actual penetration. I tend to orgasm/cum a lot harder.

 

[Skibum0011]

Love oral sex...both ways

Me too mate

 

[Skibum0011]

Oral is alright innit

Love it mate

 

[wildcat16]

I don't really have a choice that fits me own feelings about oral sex. Getting nor Giving are my "favorite" thing. But its a whole lot more than just foreplay a lot of the time.

At times getting a good blow job has been a lot harder than getting laid, so maybe we all searched for or sought out a good BJ more than sex, its more elusive to a lot of guys. but giving good oral had been my main attempt from the beginning and it had brought my dick a lot of repeat customers, lol.

 

[PressPix]

Definitely addicted to giving head. Love getting it too, but nothing beats a mouthful of cum

 

[theaveragedude]

Love it. Getting, giving. Doesn’t matter.

 

[Davyroo]

I love giving and getting, but it’s not my favorite activity, so I’m not able to answer this question.

 

[uncutnhard]

Love to give big time. I can do it forever and just jerk myself off. I do enjoy a good slow blow job too but I tend to lose control very quickly when it's being done anonymously when it's so damn sensitive.

 

[3118791]

I love giving it but don't like receiving it

Same--I've only been sucked once to completion in my 62 gay years--