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I have this friend that is so in the closet he acts like he is out of the closet— hope that sounds right as I typed it—
Anyhow.. we talked years ago at his job.. I took him his lunch.. and we were talking about things .. sexual nature.. with him it was always girls girls girls .. he knows I am gay so I just let him rant on about girls..
Years later he’s still single and women won’t give him the time of day ..
Now in the last few months he has told several of his friends to go to hell as they told him he needed to admit to himself that he was gay.. .. and it’s mostly his straight friends ..
and now today he comes over .. meets my “fiancé”. And he seems so miserable .. I’ve told him several times over the years he needs to come out and play .. and I told him that today.. and he seemed more offensive over it more than usual..
He cussed me out some and went to leave and I told him if he wants to continue to be miserable and keep his true self hidden that was his problem.. that if came over .. from now on don’t talk about girls and sex to me especially when tells me he hasn’t been with any in a while ..
So did I tell him the wrong way or is it no matter what way I tell him he’s just going to get on the offensive ?
Anyhow.. we talked years ago at his job.. I took him his lunch.. and we were talking about things .. sexual nature.. with him it was always girls girls girls .. he knows I am gay so I just let him rant on about girls..
Years later he’s still single and women won’t give him the time of day ..
Now in the last few months he has told several of his friends to go to hell as they told him he needed to admit to himself that he was gay.. .. and it’s mostly his straight friends ..
and now today he comes over .. meets my “fiancé”. And he seems so miserable .. I’ve told him several times over the years he needs to come out and play .. and I told him that today.. and he seemed more offensive over it more than usual..
He cussed me out some and went to leave and I told him if he wants to continue to be miserable and keep his true self hidden that was his problem.. that if came over .. from now on don’t talk about girls and sex to me especially when tells me he hasn’t been with any in a while ..
So did I tell him the wrong way or is it no matter what way I tell him he’s just going to get on the offensive ?