I agree with your post. I have no credentials of being a sexologist but do believe that there are guys out there that lust for cock and do it far better than a married woman. But I do recall some girl friends that really could suck , probably chrome off a bumper. But again they were just girl friends not married. Sex in marriage can loose it's luster over the years and can become a boring job for some MEN and woman. I tend to sway more for woman that the sexual drive goes away but I think that's part of the woman's anatomy and nature. I think in most part men want sex all the time and there is nothing like a GOOD blow job to relax the body and mind whether giving or receiving. Just my option.