When Did You Realize That Your Dick Was Considered Large? (18+ Only)

Though I'd read numerous times that 6" or so was average, I never quite believed it. My dad was big, as was a first cousin I was closest to. The one guy I messed around with in high school had a dick that was almost a carbon copy of my own.

It wasn't until I went away to college and started sleeping around that it finally sunk in.
 
Growing up I didn't really see anybody else's dicks or know what size any of them were so I had no frame of reference until sometime in my early high school years reading an article in a men's magazine (not porn, Men's Health or Esquire type mag) about sex that mentioned 8 inches being well hung. I was over 8 inches so I took that to mean I had noting to worry about in the size department.
 
When I was a teenager and started to get more sexually active, I got a lot of comments of “wow you’re big!”. I didn’t take those comments seriously until a few years later. I thought eh that’s something every guy gets told to make him feel better about himself. But then later on, someone was playing with my cock said “god your cock is heavy!”.

I hadn’t had anyone say that to me before so I figured why would anyone lie about that to make me feel better, which made me begin to think maybe all the other comments I’ve heard about my cock being so big or so long or so thick were also true. Did some measuring, found out average length for a guy is around 5” and average girth is around 4.5”, then realized whoa my cock is giant compared to average haha. And of course it really registered as large to me when I couldn’t fit inside average-sized condoms, they were so tight and couldn’t roll down my entire length. I had to use magnums and large size and even some of those don’t roll down my length fully.
 
Just before my first m2m sex my friend told me to place my hard cock beside his hard cock while standing in his shower rinsing the soap off. I was 1 1/2" longer than he was. He trumped me on thickness a bit but not by much. It felt great to be longer as 7+ yrs before I hadn't gone through puberty and was ashamed to show my small dick. He actually asked why I was so small? After I stuck it in him balls deep after growing long his toes curled every time I fully inserted it. That's what he told me. It was a great experience.
 
Just before my first m2m sex my friend told me to place my hard cock beside his hard cock while standing in his shower rinsing the soap off. I was 1 1/2" longer than he was. He trumped me on thickness a bit but not by much. It felt great to be longer as 7+ yrs before I hadn't gone through puberty and was ashamed to show my small dick. He actually asked why I was so small? After I stuck it in him balls deep after growing long his toes curled every time I fully inserted it. That's what he told me. It was a great experience.
Haha nice! Reminds me when I made a guy realize he also had a big dick. Guy and I had talked for a few years and shared dick pics and all that. He knew I was sorta big. Then he visited me and I was living in Japan at the time. Decided to show him around and one of the things you have to try in Japan is hot spring bathing or bathhouse bathing.

So we go, after we leave there he tells me so I knew your cock was big but holy shit pics do not do that thing justice, your dick is huge! Told me how in the bathhouse he couldn’t stop looking at my dick (even though I was soft the entire time). I thanked him for the comments and later that night we decided to play around, jerking each other. He was mesmerized holding my large dick, totally amazed as its length and girth. His dick is big though too, and I told him as much but he kept denying it. So I said stand up and I’ll prove it, so I laid his cock on top of mine and his girth almost matched my own except I was maybe a half-inch thicker, and his length came just short of the start of my cock head which is over 7” to reach that.

When he saw our dicks being compared he finally realized I wasn’t lying when I said he had a big dick. We followed up with the comparing by frotting. And with how long my dick is, frot doesn’t feel good unless a guy is comparable to me in size. Frotting with him felt amazing, his length and girth fit well onto my length and girth, so that was further proof we were frotting two big dicks together ;)
 
Haha nice! Reminds me when I made a guy realize he also had a big dick. Guy and I had talked for a few years and shared dick pics and all that. He knew I was sorta big. Then he visited me and I was living in Japan at the time. Decided to show him around and one of the things you have to try in Japan is hot spring bathing or bathhouse bathing.

So we go, after we leave there he tells me so I knew your cock was big but holy shit pics do not do that thing justice, your dick is huge! Told me how in the bathhouse he couldn’t stop looking at my dick (even though I was soft the entire time). I thanked him for the comments and later that night we decided to play around, jerking each other. He was mesmerized holding my large dick, totally amazed as its length and girth. His dick is big though too, and I told him as much but he kept denying it. So I said stand up and I’ll prove it, so I laid his cock on top of mine and his girth almost matched my own except I was maybe a half-inch thicker, and his length came just short of the start of my cock head which is over 7” to reach that.

When he saw our dicks being compared he finally realized I wasn’t lying when I said he had a big dick. We followed up with the comparing by frotting. And with how long my dick is, frot doesn’t feel good unless a guy is comparable to me in size. Frotting with him felt amazing, his length and girth fit well onto my length and girth, so that was further proof we were frotting two big dicks together ;)
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When I was a teenager, I would regularly get naked with a group of friends, guys and girls. Quite often the guys would jerk off together. We only jerked ourselves, sadly. (One of the girls joined us a few times as well and jerked me off - only sexual encounter I've had with a girl). Funny thing is, all four of us were hung (lucky us) and all the guys we saw in porn were hung, so I really didn't know until I got to college and I started hooking up with guys. I quickly realized I must be big cause it seemed like every guy I hooked up with or exchanged pics with online had a tiny cock. I eventually came to realize most of them were average and I was actually huge.
 
For me, I got hard in gym. Someone saw and said something along the lines of 'easy there hoss...' hence the nickname Horse.

I'm not overly large (7.5" long) - but very girthy (6.25). I didn't really realize I was bigger than average until I found the old m4m rooms on AOL and has some conversations about size with older guys. One guy convinced me to send him a pic (yeah - I one of the first digital cameras back then) and he told me. "That's no where near average."
Wow I remember those AOL chat rooms that's how I got started show off.
 
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I didn’t know until after college. Porn skews your perspective so much. Even now, when I see a cock that’s my exact length in a porn I always think it looks bigger.

Almost all of the girls I hooked up with early on could be classified as spinners. Especially my first gf. She was super tight and took a ton of lube to get in there. Feeling that my cock was a little below avg I kept seeking these girls out so I could feel bigger. It wasn’t until I hooked up with some curvier women and older women who all mentioned that I was one of the biggest they’d been with.
 
In collage. i met a girl at a party and I had not accepted that I was gay so we ended up at her apartment and fuck ed a couple of times. Other than that we had very little contact of interaction when i got a pager message one late afternoon saying " I want that bog cock again." I thought it was was kind of a joke until a mutual friend told me she talked about my dick a lot.
Now I think its weird but back then it was sort of hot.
 
Around 3 years ago. I spent almost 52 years thinking I was average or under (not that there is anything wrong with that). A friend told me she heard I was hung and that opened the door to seeing what average was and the I posted on some sites and got reactions. Late in life to find that out
 
Around 3 years ago. I spent almost 52 years thinking I was average or under (not that there is anything wrong with that). A friend told me she heard I was hung and that opened the door to seeing what average was and the I posted on some sites and got reactions. Late in life to find that out

Wow, that is insane! Your cock is enormous. Were you ever in situations earlier in life where you were naked with other men, locker rooms for example? If you had been I imagine it would have been very obvious that you are monstrous compared to most.
 
Wow, that is insane! Your cock is enormous. Were you ever in situations earlier in life where you were naked with other men, locker rooms for example? If you had been I imagine it would have been very obvious that you are monstrous compared to most.
Well....thank you. Enormous. Wow. Thanks.
I avoided the locker room like the plague. I was so insecure. I was a skinny kid and wasn’t athletic and I bought into the lies that the kids would say about themselves as far as having 10 or 12 inch dicks. I was so afraid of being made fun of that I avoided all that. Consequently I didn’t see other boys to use as a reference for myself.
I didn’t get laid until I was 19 and she didn’t say anything about it. I was just thankful she didn’t say it was small (again, not that there is anything wrong with being small. But when I was growing up it was beaten into my psyche that if you had a small dick you were worthless and less than a man. Obviously that is a horrendous and inaccurate concept).
 
I always kind of assumed I was just ahead of the puberty curve. My friends and I weren't exactly shy around each other and they used me as what they would look like in the near future.

The awakening was when my 4 year older brother, came home his freshmen year of college and bragged that I had officially surpassed him in the dick department.