But many of these participants claim to still be gay but say they enjoy sex with women. Not bisexual. And many get upset at being accused of being bi.
You are talking about is men who identify as gay but occasionally have sex with women. Just like there are men who identify as straight who occasionally have sex with men.
If someone had sex 100 times a year. 99 times was with another man, once with a woman. I can understand why they could identify as gay and tell people that they are gay. But strictly speaking they are a shade of bisexual.
Some of these “gay” porn performers have done it more than once but also speak of how much they crave and love pussy. When challenged they claim that gays can be attracted (and have sex) with women, and that doesn’t make them bisexual.
There is a huge push back against bisexuals and transgenders trying to change the definition of gay/homosexual. Many homosexual men and women wants nothing to do with the “queer community” which is mostly made up of these type of problematic people who loves attention.
I could not have put this more clearly. My neighbor is typical of the problematics in my city. Male one day, female the next, and quick to correct if you guess wrongly what mood (gender, non-gender, he, she, it, or they) happen to be at the moment. I don't have time, patience, or energy for it, and avoid all people like them and refuse to employ them.
I see this a lot more in the Gen Z generation. Many of them are lost souls who were raised by the internet. They don’t have a mind of their own to think for themselves. They’re a spoiled generation are followers who are easily influenced and constantly seek validation for negative behaviours.
Porn performers can't even be honest about their cock size, let alone their real orientation. The only thing that you can trust is that they will say what makes them the most money.
I’m not saying they’re right or should be trusted but it was becoming a thing several years ago. “Gay” men craving pussy. Hopefully it’s peaked and we’re coming down the other side back to reality.
Maybe that character is not gay?
that's not common but it's not out of the realm of possibility.
you can by any you you want or watch any porn you like. personally i avoid any kind of gay porn where the performer, gay or not, also does straight porn.
I have not seen that but again, i don't know much about lesbians.
the problem is you can't say who "they" are. as time moves, things change. Even though I consider myself a gay man, I'm also happy to call myself a queer man because it is more inclusive of me and men like me who don't necessarily call themselves gay, but we have an attraction to men in common. Though I'm not looking for it, there is possibility that I could find myself identifying with a different label and I don't the time or mental capacity to come out all over again. Queer captures it all.
gay men are not the foundation of the LGBT community.
I don't know which corners of the internet you frequent but this is not a prevailing attitude. unless of course a gay man is misogynistic.
you lost the plot at weird
whatever it is, it can't be the same. be honest.
Thanks for the TED talk nobody asked for. lol
Part of the problem is that some porn performers do want to be seen as spokespeople for a cause and in some cases, fans want them to be seen as spokespeople even if they aren't. I don't want porn performers to be stigmatized, but we've gone too far the other way in mainstreaming sex work as the center of a gay male experience when we worry so much about how a gay porn performer who is suddenly with a woman (which is still very rare) or an ftm is going to cause some kind of conversion frenzy with their gay male followers/customers.
Great sense of humor you got there, buddy.
