I hear you, TNJ, on wanting to have a good laugh at work. Me, I always have subordinates. I can't go there with them, because I figure the first time hey have a problem with me cracking the whip, I'm getting that call from human resources. (Has happened without any sexual chat. Some of my lateral coworkers used to send me the illest links, but I never sent links back. I didn't choose my co-workers, so I don't trust them. I would say the closest I came is a lateral co-worker knew my marriage was open because she had heard me mention my husband's name while making plans with my boyfriend. She was weird though. She had been my subordinate, but gotten a promotion. Even when she was below me in chain of command, she'd had a habit of biting me. She'd go shopping on her break, and model little dresses and lingerie for me, asking my opinions. I couldn't tell if she was trying to hit on me or not, but while I was very attracted to her, it just wasn't ever going to happen. Ever. Anyway, she saw me walking behind my husband and boyfriend who were talking to each other. We had walked right past the job, and my phone lit up.
"You're going to hell." I looked back toward the door to see her and smiled. The next time we worked together, she asked me for details, and i gave them. Typically, though, no way. There's plenty of work to do, and plenty of other things to talk about.