rob_just_rob
Sexy Member
First of all, everyone is bisexual in varying in degrees.
Interesting opinion.
First of all, everyone is bisexual in varying in degrees.
Caveat: This has nothing to do with the original topic, but I figured that I would point it out anyway.
First of all, everyone is bisexual in varying in degrees.
There are roughly 2 billion people of your same gender in the world, and you're only fooling yourself if you're gonna sit here and claim you can't find one single person of your same gender that you think is good looking/think is mildly attractive/might want to see naked/might want to do something slightly sexual with. Just like out of the other 2 billion people of the opposite gender, you could find someone who fits all of the above mentioned things also.
If you can find yourself attractive or sexy, then you can also find someone of your same sex attractive and/or sexy.... and that is slightly bisexual whether you want to admit it or not.
Doesn't mean you're in a rush to kiss people of your same gender, or have sex with people your same gender, or see people of your same gender naked, or start a relationship with someone of your same gender. Most people aren't in a rush to do any of those with people of the opposite gender. I'm simply talking about attraction here.
But if you've ever seen another person of your same sex and thought to yourself, "Hey, he's a pretty good looking guy (or girl)," then you are just like the rest of us - bisexual in varying degrees. This is 2010 you know, it's ok to remove the self blinders. :wink:
I am not incapable of recognizing attractiveness in some men. However, recognizing that they are attractive is different from being sexually attracted to them.
From a straight perspective, I think it'd be very hard to say, "Hey this girl is attractive to me, but I don't really want to have sex with her."
I say I'm straight because I only have sex with women, only want to have sex with women, and only ever have had sex with women. I think that's pretty clear.
To answer your example questions: no, no, and no.
Well as a long time member of this "support group", all I know is that I wouldn't want you for a friend. To me you have a rude and dismissive way about you. There are other "100% straight" guys on this site who are aware, sensitive and at least compassionate. I don't think your issue is about the topic. I think it's about what kind of person you are. Before you start making a bunch of comments on this site, why not see what kind of community this is.
One can recognize that a person, either male or female, is attractive just as one can recognize that a painting, sunset, or landscape is attractive. It doesn't necessarily have anything to do with sex.
Boy, since the last time I was here this place has gotten so homophobic. Have the neanderthal straight guys taken over LPSG or what?
Always Guessing, I'd hate to be your g/f!
What's with this guy? Can everyone say "troll"?
Several of the 100% straight guys here clearly don't understand that being on the receiving end of a pass from a man doesn't require a strong reaction. You can simply say no. Some of the posts indicate a level of disgust that suggests homophobia.
Which is a pretty funny reaction from "100% straight guys" who hang out on a message board devoted to large penises.
Boy, since the last time I was here this place has gotten so homophobic. Have the neanderthal straight guys taken over LPSG or what?
What's with this guy? Can everyone say "troll"?
My issue is that you claim that being drunk is no excuse for a person to be coming on to someone that most probably isn't into them, but you maintain that those [drunken few] that permit for these certain things to happen (ie. a blowjob) are innocent victims. Either both parties are responsible for their chosen actions, or the alcohol's to blame. You can't let one off, and not the other.Please explain how I'm a hypocrite. If I failed to answer a question, then I just missed it by accident. Feel free to ask again or point me to the post and I will be happy to answer it.
A person's lack of interest in homosexual sex does not make him (or her) a homophobe.
You're seeing homophobes under the bed, and that doesn't say much for your cognition. Nor is that much of a contribution to what's being discussed.
I find it hilariously ironic that the term "homophobe" has come to be defined as "a man that only has sex with women". Can everyone say "ignorant"?
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If I ask a girl to lick her pussy and she slaps me, she is demonstrating "heterophobia" or what? The blatant double-standards presented in this thread are real knee slappers.
Having a large penis does not automatically make you gay. Are you serious here? It's not unreasonable to assume that there might possibly be some women on this site that would be interested in meeting and possibly sleeping with a man that has a large penis. Maybe some of the straight guys would like to interact with the women here? This site is not completely devoted to gay men. Not everything in this world revolves around homosexuality or homophobia for christ's sake!
Well I simply disagree. I think it's just as wrong for a man to straight out ask a woman for oral sex. I also think it's inappropriate for a woman to offer a man oral sex, just out of the blue. If one of my female friends offered to suck my dick, knowing that I have a girlfriend, I would end our relationship. I would not want to be alone with her again because I would perceive her as wreckless and unstable, not to mention slutty.
I do not believe that I took this statement out of context:
"Some of the posts indicate a level of disgust that suggests homophobia.
Which is a pretty funny reaction from "100% straight guys" who hang out on a message board devoted to large penises."
If this guy was not insinuating that we are lying by claiming to be "100% straight", because we have to be gay to some degree in order to belong to a large penis site, then I don't know what the fuck his point was. Do you?
Several of the 100% straight guys here clearly don't understand that being on the receiving end of a pass from a man doesn't require a strong reaction. You can simply say no. Some of the posts indicate a level of disgust that suggests homophobia.
Which is a pretty funny reaction from "100% straight guys" who hang out on a message board devoted to large penises.
BTW I appreciate your welcoming attitude and understanding towards me. Please don't misinterpret my attack on your position to be an attack on you personally. Because I think you are a real stand-up individual.
1. It is ok for a man to ask another man if he would be open to a bj, and see if there is any interest? depends on the circumstances
2. It is NOT ok if either is in a monagamous relationship? agreed
3. Once disinterest is established, it is NOT ok to continue to persist and try to change his mind? agreed
4. You cannot determine if a man is totally straight based on the fact that you have only seen him with women? agreed
I'm all for open-minded debating :smile: