I get the vibe that Jordan was the first guy who really pursued Colton in a dates-and-roses kind of way after Colton came out, and so Colton latched on to that relationship as a lifeline, not waiting to see who else was out there.
But perhaps it will work, because some people crave the structure a dominant or even semi-controlling partner can provide. I have some of that dynamic in my own relationship (I'd be the Colton, fwiw), so I get it. It's just that they haven't known each other all that long.
Flame away. Do notice though that I didn't say "I am sure that..." It's fun to hypothesize about celebs (even minor ones), and not sure why there's blowback about that here. This isn't the NYT newsroom, where we have to fact-check every statement. These people put their lives in the public eye. We're allowed to talk about them, and discuss our thoughts about their choices.