Do Bisexual men actually settle down with men?

[Alex57]

Biphobic people need to leave bisexual men alone.

Bi men are the ones seeking out gay men. They are the closeted men on gay hookup apps

 

[Jjsurp99]

Bi guys are a big chunk of people.

Which ones? The ones who prefer cisgender women? transwomen? transmen? cisgender men?

Bi guys with alleged preference for (cis)women are no-no for me in years. If you're a self-loving Gay or translady above the age of 30, the risk of you being used and discarded as trash are high. Date/fuck them being mature enough to know this.

Bi guys with no-issues with gender fluidity are OK. Some can be good partners for queer men&transwomen. For transwomen, these are the most likely to be your best choice.

Bi guys with male preference, in my own experience with them, are no different from the gays, unless they're from an very conservative place. Date with no fears.

Exactly it's always the straight leaning bi guys who ruin the image. They need to actually stop

 

[jthomasmpls]

I see facts and reality ain’t your best friend. Bisexuals in long-term same-sex relationships are a rare minority. Most same-sex relationships involved two homosexuals. Many gay men aren’t going to take the risk of dating a bi man when 90% of the time he will get dumped for heteronormativity. This has been most gay men experiences with bi men. Let that reality sink in. I doubt it will though because you’re too selfish to comprehend it.

honest question, what is the definition of a long term relationship? As Dan Savage said "all relationships end until one doesn't"

 

[jthomasmpls]

Have been with my Bi husband for almost 31 years, married 17 years.

Congratulations ! That's awesome!

 

[Alex57]

Exactly it's always the straight leaning bi guys who ruin the image. They need to actually stop

A lot of the ones who prefer men are also closeted in relationships with women. Bisexuals in general are predominantly in relationships with the opposite sex, regardless of their preferences.

 

[jthomasmpls]

A lot of the ones who prefer men are also closeted in relationships with women. Bisexuals in general are predominantly in relationships with the opposite sex, regardless of their preferences.

Is that your opinion or is there a study(s) that supports that outcome. If so, I would love to read the study, please share if you can. My experience is very different.

 

[markgaveda]

I have better relationships with women than men but I'm not sure how the love life part would play out, my dad isn't entirely accepting of me ending up with a man but I honestly don't really a preference to whom I'd end up with for as long as I'm happy with them

I'm probably gonna end up with a woman but it's too early to say, anything can happen

I think there's a bias and lingering trauma in your original post, I don't think you're going off an objective opinion, it feels very anecdotal (you should probably address that)

 

[Jjsurp99]

I have better relationships with women than men but I'm not sure how the love life part would play out, my dad isn't entirely accepting of me ending up with a man but I honestly don't really a preference to whom I'd end up with for as long as I'm happy with them

I'm probably gonna end up with a woman but it's too early to say, anything can happen

I think there's a bias and lingering trauma in your original post, I don't think you're going off an objective opinion, it feels very anecdotal (you should probably address that)

Just stick with women since it's clear where you really want.

 

[markgaveda]

Just stick with women since it's clear where you really want.

Why would I do that if I can have a suitable emotional connection with a dude, trans person, non-binary/queer person, or whatever else? Why would I limit myself to women just because the rule applies en masse? I don't have everything figured out, it's all at random

I'm attracted to personality, not sex/gender

Kind of a condescending snarky attitude you're displaying towards me right now

Bit uncalled for

 

[markgaveda]

Oh, I see why JD left now

Yeah, I would have left too if I were him

I don't blame him

 

[Alex57]

Why would I do that if I can have a suitable emotional connection with a dude, trans person, non-binary/queer person, or whatever else? Why would I limit myself to women just because the rule applies en masse? I don't have everything figured out, it's all at random

I'm attracted to personality, not sex/gender

Kind of a condescending snarky attitude you're displaying towards me right now

Bit uncalled for

You were the one who said you think you will end up with a woman. He's just telling you not to waste men's time. Statistically, most of you end up with women.

 

[markgaveda]

You were the one who said you think you will end up with a woman.

No, I said

I'm probably gonna end up with a woman but it's too early to say, anything can happen

Probably ≠ Definitely

Don't be lame

He's just telling you not to waste men's time. Statistically, most of you end up with women.

You or him are not even remotely within the vicinity of my dating pool, I am statistically in a very small minority and a sizeable outlier, statistics can't be applied in my case

Having the mindset of "wasting time" chalks you off my radar completely to begin with, you aren't being considered, don't worry luv

 

[Jjsurp99]

No, I said



Probably ≠ Definitely

Don't be lame


You or him are not even remotely within the vicinity of my dating pool, I am statistically in a very small minority and a sizeable outlier, statistics can't be applied to my case

it's a guarantee bro can't tell you how many times we hear this

 

[markgaveda]

it's a guarantee bro can't tell you how many times we hear this

Nah

I get you, but you never know in life

Whoever makes me the happiest is the one I'd choose to be with, it's as simple as that

 

[Alex57]

Having the mindset of "wasting time" chalks you off my radar completely to begin with, you aren't being considered, don't worry luv

Why did you think I have an interest?

 

[markgaveda]

Why did you think I have an interest?

I don't

Your time isn't going to be "wasted", don't "worry" about what isn't in your control and focus on your own triggers and insecurities instead of projecting them onto others

I am not interested in you

 

[Alex57]

I don't, your time isn't going to be "wasted", don't worry about other people that have a desire to reciprocate

I am not interested in you

I can guarantee you that most gay men looking for a committed relationship ain’t going to waste their time with someone who will “probably” end up with a woman. Just my two cents!

Funny enough, I'm now seeing a lot of videos on social media of gay men saying they would never date bi men. It's mostly your generation doing these videos.

 

[Jjsurp99]

I can guarantee you that most gay men looking for a committed relationship ain’t going to waste their time with someone who will “probably” end up with a woman. Just my two cents!

Funny enough, I'm now seeing a lot of videos on social media of gay men saying they would never date bi men. It's mostly your generation doing these videos.

These bi men won't admit it and don't understand when you say your probably end up with a woman it's a guarantee you will. It's rare bi men have homosexual relationship. They don't understand why gay men avoid them romantically.

 

[markgaveda]

I can guarantee you that most gay men looking for a committed relationship ain’t going to waste their time with someone who will “probably” end up with a woman. Just my two cents!

If you're that close minded of a person that assesses compatibility ahead of time based on generalizations than individual action, we probably weren't going to work out in the first place

I'm not even interested in most people, same is true in the inverse

Funny enough, I'm now seeing a lot of videos on social media of gay men saying they would never date bi men. It's mostly your generation doing these videos.

People always spout their own bullshit from their own limited perspectives, this happens with every generation, I'm not sure why you're grouping me with whoever you're referring to

 

[markgaveda]

These bi men won't admit it and don't understand when you say your probably end up with a woman it's a guarantee you will. It's rare bi men have homosexual relationship. They don't understand why gay men avoid them romantically.

I was in a three year relationship with a gay bear in Chicago, he cheated on me while I was out in LA for a month

I've already done the thing and found enjoyment in it