Yeah...something about how this is worded just rubs me the wrong way....I think if this is the notion that is gleaned from what I stated, then it is extremely important to reemphasize the purported "trust", which is supposedly so much harder to retain by straight women and gay men while dealing with bisexual men(although I think this also spills into most straight women's ideological aversion for polygynously inclined straight men), is a non sustainable construct formulated from manipulation and coercion and a willingness to rest upon the haunch of sexual gatekeeper as their primary contribution and function within a relationship.
Perhaps this is one of those looking down from the ivory tower moments, but as a straight man I'd say our defining challenge, especially in the modern age, is how to be a good relationship option with having fewer and fewer "gates" to keep. Is there some unrealistic expectation along this route for straight men to trust women despite not being gatekeepers of sex, protection, or socioeconomic stability, or is that just what par should be for the course?