I may have stumbled on the worst human after hitler. Stupid me in making poor choices about who I date, went out with this person twice. Do I tell him in a polite way that he is a deplorable mess-
- he asked how my health was because his xw has cerebral palsey and he "wants someone who won't stop him from doing things" (I guess as opposed to finding positive ways to overcome obstacles)
- he told me that when people move on, they should trade up and I am up for him
- he has halitosis
- when we were talking, he did not really care about anything I had to say beyond superficial things
- he works in education but his messages are inarticulate; here is an example- you put yourself so well (in context to the previous text, it was about what I wore)
- he constantly objectifies me with a maximum seven minute lag time between comments
- he initiates loud personal conversations in public like a packed subway car
- during conversation at dinner, I made a comment about something that he did not believe so he took out his phone and went on wiki. Wiki verified I was right but he proceeded to argue semantics while continuing to use his phone to search for points to support his argument. The insignifant topic- macaroni and cheese
- there was a private party in the next room, he called the waiter over and asked details about the party
- he messaged me twice in the morning but I was not able to answer so in the evening, he asked me twice, in two different ways if I was sleeping at 11:am
- there are other times he asks me things to see if my answer changes and it disturbed me to the point I asked if he has trust issues
- what seemed like just being eccentric the first meeting now seems like signs of ED
And this list could be a lot longer but I did not want to be repetive
You can ask my irl friends from here, I am a sweet girl. If someone is rude or weird in public, I stay polite. I have class. I am not vindictive and want to hurt people. This guy just seems like he doesn't know any of the things he did was off. I feel like it could help him but then again he could snap. I am not going to see him again but I am not sure what to say- tell him in a gentle way that it is not for me or not say anything about it
- he asked how my health was because his xw has cerebral palsey and he "wants someone who won't stop him from doing things" (I guess as opposed to finding positive ways to overcome obstacles)
- he told me that when people move on, they should trade up and I am up for him
- he has halitosis
- when we were talking, he did not really care about anything I had to say beyond superficial things
- he works in education but his messages are inarticulate; here is an example- you put yourself so well (in context to the previous text, it was about what I wore)
- he constantly objectifies me with a maximum seven minute lag time between comments
- he initiates loud personal conversations in public like a packed subway car
- during conversation at dinner, I made a comment about something that he did not believe so he took out his phone and went on wiki. Wiki verified I was right but he proceeded to argue semantics while continuing to use his phone to search for points to support his argument. The insignifant topic- macaroni and cheese
- there was a private party in the next room, he called the waiter over and asked details about the party
- he messaged me twice in the morning but I was not able to answer so in the evening, he asked me twice, in two different ways if I was sleeping at 11:am
- there are other times he asks me things to see if my answer changes and it disturbed me to the point I asked if he has trust issues
- what seemed like just being eccentric the first meeting now seems like signs of ED
And this list could be a lot longer but I did not want to be repetive
You can ask my irl friends from here, I am a sweet girl. If someone is rude or weird in public, I stay polite. I have class. I am not vindictive and want to hurt people. This guy just seems like he doesn't know any of the things he did was off. I feel like it could help him but then again he could snap. I am not going to see him again but I am not sure what to say- tell him in a gentle way that it is not for me or not say anything about it