Women are not hard to read. You need to stop pretending women are anything but ordinary people with the usual motivations. It's going to ruin your life. Think to yourself, "Self, what could make me behave this way?" All the answers to that question are the possible reasons the PERSON in question is doing whatever HE OR SHE is doing. Period. Reading people is so simple when you don't think whatever group you want to place them in, be it social stratum, ethnicity, or sex, is going to cause some huge divergence from whatever your own motives would be if the tables were turned. I have tried to tell you this multiple times. It's an important thing to learn, critical to empathizing with others, and key to your successful endeavors in any type of repationship, business or personal. At the end of the day, typically, people are just people. Don't forget that.
Don't date alcoholics. Don't party with alcoholics. Forget alcoholics. Period. It would be different of you met a great gal, and then she developed a problem after you were already all in. But you're sitting here over-analyzing the thoughts of some drunk you shouldn't worry about anyway. Move on, Bro. Seriously. Last I checked you were not Captain Save-a-ho.
I've got to echo my homie TNJ. Don't go into a conversation expecting to be validated, and you will never be disappointed.
I'm also going to agree with some of the other posters. It's almost never about the D.
